Saturday, November 29, 2014

What to say during sex


What to say during sexThe language of love may be different. To be silent, to groan, to sigh, cursing obscenely, read Pushkin's poetry or sing loudly - one chooses. But psychologists and Jeanne Martin Moreno (wife, by the way) decided to expose this sensitive subject of scientific analysis.


"Oh! What do you want? ", "Can I cum in you? ", "Love it!!! "You just made for me! ", "Oh, you're my whore! ", "How do you excite me! ", "Do me baby", "Oh, just don't stop!!! ", "Hurt me", "Eat me! ", "Dear, dear. ""What are you doing?! ", "Oh, you'll kill me! ", "Tell me that you love me! " The number of appropriate replicas are not limited. And we are confident that each of you is ready to make a worthy literary contribution. Of course, sometimes passion can be expressed without words, and the fun doesn't always need to word "seasoning", but "words make the sex more freedom" - sure, Jeanne and Martin Moreno. Scientists carefully studied shame and shamelessness in the words of love. And, by their own admission, failed and failing to disclose all laws secret sex dialogue. They managed to bring only one, but a universal rule: "no Matter what phrases are used vulgar or sensitive. It is important not to offend the partner and to avoid conflict between word and deed". Perhaps scientists mean that it is not necessary to simultaneously say "you're my favorite Bunny" and to beat the "Bunny" whip. Although why not.





Director himself


Some incorrigible romantics during the development of his novel invent a dictionary "erogenous" words. 5 years ago in a cafe, when Igor barely knew Lena, he still dared to ask: "can I touch your ear? " She nodded. Now Lena is to whisper: "Touch my ear," and he is already on the verge of orgasm. Here is an example of a more "hard" relations. For several years Larisa madly wanted Dima, and when a handsome man finally arrived at her bedside, he behaved rudely and flatly. Besides all the time commanded: "Make it so! " After recovering from the initial shock, she accepted the conditions of the game. And today, when they meet, they invariably speak the same language "male order".




Passion doesn't always need to "verbal seasoning", but the words make sex truly free.




Igor always taking pictures of her during sex. And each time says: "What are you beauty! " And then claim: "Open your eyes, look at me". In General, some "staging" process only helps to heat up the passion. For example, Oleg asks Olga: "What do you want? Well tell me! " It is, slightly tardises replies: "don't know". It reacts violently: "Liar! " At the same time having sex with each other they've been doing for seven years, twice a week. And Oleg from year to year almost ready forcibly "pull" Olga "terrible" recognition: "I want you! "




Svetlana usually asks Sasha: "When can I come to you? " And waiting, so he called her the day and hour when no one will be home". It is not necessary, perhaps, to say that in one apartment the couple has been living for five years...





And then - silence


However, we must recognize that not all love "conversational genre. Some make the choice in favor of gestures. One of the supporters of silent sex explains: "I listen to my body, listen to pleasure. And if a girl starts talking, it distracts me. I no longer hear the music between us." Yuri believes that "eroticism is born from the mysterious, unspoken". Convinced "silent" sure you should be able to guess the desires of the partner, without asking, and trying to talk with them during sex is perceived almost as aggression.




However, it is unnecessary to include them in the category of conservatives. Rather, it is conventional reinsurance. Jeanne and Martin Moreno explain that "imaginary conversation" safer direct dialogue. It is difficult to predict the reaction partner - especially unfamiliar. The inevitable difference of tastes has not been canceled. That one is normal, another invalid vulgarity. "One foul word spoken by the partner in a fit of passion, and it makes me uneasy. This is not a football match, and not a porn film," says Veronica. Alla actually laughed out loud when her lover called her "slut". But... Nothing can be predicted. All perceive empirically, as they say, at your own risk. Irina has somehow bolder and said Sergei: "What is your big cock! " And felt that he loved, which was nearly asleep again an erection.





Violators borders


"At the peak of desire words can be quite out of place, know it all" - remind spouses professionals. "With some girls you may get a slap in the face, saying certain, not even very rough, the words," complains one young man. Many women admit that the man who called them "bitch" or "slut", even in the heat of passion, would be interpreted as a "moron" or "crazy", and they would regret having agreed to have sex with him.




"The words in this situation no longer bring together partners, but on the contrary, hinder erotic communication, " say the couple Morton. - What is erotic to some, it seems other pornography. And there is nothing stronger than the border that separates the decent from the blackguard in the minds of every person".




However, there are couples in which one says a lot (and sometimes expressed obscene), and the other is silent. Experts will make a surprising discovery: "Love is a risky business and complex. There are men who want women uninhibited behavior, but a virgin in the words of. Or Vice versa. Some insist: "Tell me how it is with others? " Of course, when you participate in the game with someone who is in love truly, it can be tough. "It's amazing, but in this case, the effect is most severe", - says Maria. And one provincial lady, accustomed to the silent sexual encounters, was in shock, after spending the night with casual acquaintances. "He said that he was very excited, imagining me all the chocolate is as delicious and as it is possible to "destroy". And the words he accompanied the action, as if I really was a big candy. To say I was shocked - to say nothing. But the sex was great! "






Source:

Women's information and entertainment portal WDay.ru
















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