You still think that Dating online is something serious or risky? You are hopelessly behind the times and fashion! Meanwhile, estimates of the largest British Dating agencies Fisher Catwalk and up to 30% of marriages in the UK in recent years is after exploring through the Internet. Similar statistics exist in other developed countries.
For some reason many people believe that online Dating sites are found exclusively Horny instances or chronic losers. Fortunately, they are no more than representatives of other types. And all, with a certain degree of conditionality, they can count 14. Although any classification is a thankless job, because there will always be those who are in it just doesn't fit. But before getting on the Internet hunting still be a good idea to get acquainted with the most typical inhabitants of Dating sites. After all, "knowing the enemy" is always easier to think about the right strategy relationship to "tame" even the most "troubled" man. However, simple options for you and we do not promise!
"Businessman"
How to recognize?
It is not necessary that the "Businessman" is engaged in business. But almost certainly, he is a successful, earn well and looks quite presentable. Oligarchs, however, on such sites you will not find, but top managers of large firms and owners, small companies - it is possible. "What are they doing here? "that is a reasonable question. In the Internet, usually results in self-employment, unwillingness meets on the street or in some other places, and fatigue from the fact that all familiar women have long to react not only on them but on their money.
What to fear?
At the stage of exploring to fear nothing special. You will certainly be invited to an expensive restaurant, and everything will be very nice and respectable. But then one should be prepared that the acquaintance of such men are as a business. This means that the queries are quite high, and the time and effort on a beautiful novels and crazy passion there. Want romance and emotions - then look elsewhere. It will be extremely prosaic. If you don't like you, most likely, will not even call back. And if you like it - relationships are more reminiscent of the transaction.
"Chronic bachelor"
How to recognize?
To recognize at first sight extremely difficult! It is possible that a long time ago he was married. Well, broke up the marriage, it happens to everyone! Yes and no family experience in quite a respectable age is also not fatal. You never know how life is! Well, not lucky man! So usually think women are trying to convince themselves that they met quite normal instance: successful, cute and free, in General, almost the man of the dreams." However, if you look better, you will realize that "Chronic bachelor" whole consists of numerous complexes and phobias.
What to fear?
He used to be alone, and any attempt to "ringed" or "domesticate" perceived in bayonets. If you just want an interesting and easy communication - this type of you will suffice. The benefit of "Chronic bachelors" are almost always people are very intelligent and creative. But if you want to marry, then you have no chance! However... And chronic bachelors ever break down and get married!
"Sissy"
How to recognize?
Type this on Dating sites often for good reason: all the girls surrounding him mom was criticized. Here he is, poor, and hopes to a new friend she will get not so fast. The diagnosis of "Sissy"
may be explicit or hidden. In the first case, it's easy, because in each of your conversation with him the word "mother" will be on his performance from 2 to 10 times. The escape speed as far as possible from such men should be directly proportional to the number of these references.
But there are more complicated cases. The first time a man behaves adequately, producing the impression of quite adult and independent. In this case, sometimes the only cause to suspect may be the fact that he was under (or over) 40, and he never was married. To understand who is in front of you "Sissy" or "Chronic bachelor" just start to ask questions about his family in General and mothers in particular. Usually all very quickly becomes clear.
What to fear?
Only one - if you do decide to continue your relationship, get ready for the constant comparisons with his mother. And almost always not in your favor. Even if you will try to become her best friend, learn how to iron his shirts and cook pies with cabbage just as it is! Still, the competition you will not win. Don't want to turn his life with infinite doubles marathon with a known winner flee from such men away!
"Doubters"
How to recognize?
Most likely, he's recently divorced, or just broke up with his girlfriend and yet he himself does not quite understand what it was actually know you need. On the one hand, he seems to be looking for a serious relationship, but on the other panic are afraid of them. To recognize this type can only talk to him and find out some details of his past life. In addition, the deeds of such men can be sometimes quite unpredictable, it can periodically for a long time to disappear, and then reappear.
What to fear?
The worst thing is if you belong to the same type and themselves recently went through a difficult separation. And since "birds of a feather flock together", it is very likely that you will react on just such a man. Alas, the chances that you will be able to build a harmonious relationship, almost there. Everything will go according to the scheme "one step forward, two steps back" and eventually you will almost certainly leave.
If you know what you want and all the love drama left you behind, then the chances of a happy outcome are high. However, prepare yourself for the fact that the relationship will develop very slowly. And to force them not worth it!
"The collector"
How to recognize?
These are the most loyal and regular visitors of such sites, "living" here for years. Whenever you're here, its form will always be one of the first. Almost certainly you will find a lot of very attractive photos, and all written immediately will want urgently to meet you. What was that, while bait he can arrange great!
What to fear?
Your relationship will grow very easy and effortless. In them and a certain proportion of courtship and romance, and quite impressive sex and some, not very specific, hints for the future. However, as soon as the horizon of your men will appear a new "victim", the focus will be switched to it. In short, if you need an easy affair or you are a lover to collect men, this case is yours. If you want big and bright feelings for life, do not expect that they will be able to alter his volatile partner.
"Fussy"
How to recognize?
This is one of the most difficult cases, because unlike most others, it is almost impossible to recognize in the early stages of Dating. This is usually quite successful man, whose life is great, except for one thing - there is no beloved woman. But if, for example, "the Collector" is aware that one for the rest of his life he didn't really need, "Fussy" is usually sincerely seeks it. Here are just can't find!
What to fear?
It's like someone buys a car, falling in love with her at first sight, and someone spends a few years in the infinite test drives, finding in each model some drawbacks: the engine is small, the trunk uncomfortable, the salon too noisy. And "Fussy" and can't find the perfect woman that all it was "five plus". The Dating site is a real Paradise for such characters. Go through and compare the candidates to infinity! So, if you do not want to become a girl for his next "test drive" evade such men party. Although if you're 100% confident in their abilities - why not try to win in these competitions? After all, someone has his own choice in the end will stop!
"Home"
How to recognize?
If the purpose of your appearance on the Dating site is a speedy marriage, then the easiest option is to find a man of that type. In his questionnaire will probably be written about his desire to create a new family and to have children. Most likely, he was already married (and possibly more than once) and not so long ago divorced. But in contrast to the "Doubters" he did not reflect on this occasion, and dreams again feel the warmth of the hearth. Typically, these men seek the same household and household women with similar life values.
What to fear?
If the desire to marry such men are very hard, it will be possible to boost your relationship and make you an offer almost on the second date. And if you find that you to that speed is clearly not ready - can greatly surprised and offended. Another danger is boredom. Alas, but in this ointment is a fly in the ointment! Home" men, as a rule, are quite boring and rarely Shine intelligence.
"Loser"
How to recognize?
It's not so much in its actual success in life, as in self-esteem. And it usually is extremely low. In the questionnaire this instance you will find the words "normal man" or something like that. He, most likely, not any serious Hobbies and special achievements at work. Not as obvious advantages and significant disadvantages. In short, this is a typical average adult, which even to latch onto something for nothing.
What to fear?
Because this man is usually not spoiled female attention, he would get ahold of your at least a minimal interest in it, how salutary straw. So, get rid of it is not so easy. Actually, this is the only danger is that you can threaten. And if you are too intelligent and sensitive, after parting with such a man you have some time, you will be tormented with guilt. By the way, if you want a husband-Podkolodny - I advise you to pay attention to this type.
"Virtual residency"
How to recognize?
He usually not only meets, but also practically lives in the Network. He may be a geek, musician, poet or someone else. Recognize it can be very specific not very neat appearance and a more specific sense of humor. It usually leads nocturnal, and therefore easiest to find on the website late at night. It is almost always a chronic dreamer and philosopher, so in his profile or in emails, you will probably find poems or some lengthy philosophical discussions about life.
What to fear?
This type of men are prone to long virtual communication. However, if you are a romantic girl, or you're just bored sitting at the computer, but a real novel and urgent sex in your plans is not included, it is very fascinating correspondence provided to you. But with some persistence you can even pull a man from his virtual world and build with it a very real relationship.
"Comedian"
How to recognize?
If you came across a picture that is turned upside down, face it like a reflection in a distorting mirror or instead of the men on her smiling hamster, be sure before you "Comedian". This is almost certainly the man in the style of "the whole evening in the arena". On the phone or during a meeting, he will pour jokes (sometimes, however, absolutely lame) and radiate a sea of optimism.
What to fear?
Yes especially nothing! To imagine such a man next to him for a long time is difficult enough, but to use it as a kind of "inoculation good mood" - why not. Communication with them will be easy and fun, and the sex exciting. In addition, you can ensure that regardless of how your relationship will evolve to remember them, you will subsequently without unnecessary emotions.
"Inadequate"
How to recognize?
Actually, the name of this type it exhaustively and describes. Although the degree of inadequacy can be very different: from lung harmless "cadinot" to very serious medical cases. Visible at first sight manifestations can be anything from strange photos to not less strange questionnaires and letters.
What to fear?
Tip: if something in the application form you immediately tensed and seem not too normal, listen to yourself and do not waste time on correspondence (and even more so at the meeting! ). Probably the first impression would be correct. In the end, normal men here much more!
"Bored genetic"
How to recognize?
In 90% of cases married men and not trying to hide their marital status. They openly write that you are looking for new experiences in sex, flirt or even a novel on the side. Unfortunately, there are still 10% that do pretend to be free and hang you "noodles on the ears, arguing that they are only interested in long term relationships and marriage. There are signs of recognition are the same as in ordinary life, not suntanned mark on the finger from engagement rings, unwillingness to give a home phone number, permanent employment in the evenings and on weekends, etc.
What to fear?
If you are married and nothing serious from such Dating you don't need this option you are probably very satisfied. In other cases, you get the classic and not having an exit affair with a married man. Especially sad if his family situation, you will learn too late, after time to lose your head.
"Alphonse"
How to recognize?
Even the most decent and respectable Dating sites there are always males who absolutely openly looking here for wealthy women. Much harder to recognize hidden Alphonse. Indeed, at first glance, his form might not cause any suspicion. But some warning signs (especially if there are several of them) preliminary conclusions can be made. So be careful, if:
- In his contract says nothing about financial position, performance and he is very reluctant to say about this over the phone or at the meeting. Or to the question concerning his occupation begins to tell the tragic story of how recently lost my job (and possibly even your own business).
Is he younger than you (in General, men of this type are rarely older than 40).
In his questionnaire many spectacular photos, including Nude muscular torso. And in life it is extremely well-groomed, handsome and gallant.
- At the stage of correspondence and telephone conversations, he is most interested in what you're doing, do you have a car, apartment, etc.
He almost immediately begins to insist on the meeting (it is clear that spending time "wasted" a woman he does not want, and to estimate its income is easier when the meeting).
What to fear?
It all depends on your capabilities and needs. Perhaps all will cost several expensive gifts that you'll get him, and maybe... However, the dangers posed by such men are always the same. And no matter where you met him on the Internet, in a fashionable resort or in the supermarket.
"Sexually anxious"
How to recognize?
Well, here is to recognize there is nothing! The corresponding photo (sometimes very embarrassing) and the text in the questionnaire will tell all by yourself. Some of these men here looking for new sex adventures, someone offers their services, so to speak, "for the love of art", and someone with money (more open kind of "Alphonse"). And for people with some unusual sexual views the Internet is often the only way to become acquainted with their own kind.
What to fear?
Acquaintance with such a man is playing "Russian roulette". To develop familiarity may, in any scheme, up to the criminal. However, if you have enough of a thrill that you are ready for such a meeting to warn you about something does not make sense. We are adults and approximately represent the consequences of such steps.
Tip: photo first!
Polls show men what you have written in the questionnaire, care very little. Alas, they are here "love eyes"! And often solve all pictures. That is why the success of your Internet hunting very much will depend on them. Here are some useful tips on the subject:
- If you do not want to place their photo on the website, be sure to write that will gladly send them by mail. However, keep in mind that no person in the form dozens of times reduces your chances of acquaintance.
- The optimal number of photos - 3-5. If the photo one, the man begins to suspect that it is not you, but some found in the depths of the Internet model. If photos are too much - you suspect in narcissism.
- At least one of the photographs should be seen your face. Photo "from the life of ants" where you stand on the background of the Louvre or the Egyptian pyramids special delight of men will not be called.
- If you are looking for a man for serious relationship, just for fun or sport, it would be superfluous to put a photo associated with your Hobbies (for example, skiing or bowling).
- If your plan is not novel virtual and real meeting, choose the photo you most like himself. Otherwise, then not to avoid disappointment!
Author:
Lotareva E.
Source:
Votre Beaute
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