He appears suddenly and as suddenly disappears.
He never promises nothing, and if and promises, then, as a rule, does not.
- When you represent him as his friend, he or clearly felt uncomfortable or starts to kochmit.
- He does not build far-reaching plans, for example, about a joint trip to the sea.
He almost doesn't ask questions.
He is not jealous, at least seriously, and sometimes you think that it provokes you to a closer acquaintance with other men.
He rarely take offense to you, but if it offended you somehow.
- If you quarrel, he never makes steps towards reconciliation, by providing this opportunity to you.
About the other he does not speak at all, or consistently stressed that he had with her exclusively friendships that he will not allow anyone to destroy.
- You do not leave a painful impression that everything in your relationship is not really, not seriously.
The last point cannot be ignored in any case. Even if the symptoms are not clearly identified, and a painful sensation is still present, you can find a way to either confirm the feeling, or to deny. For this there are 2 ways:
Path nesirenja
Don't be afraid to be proactive - call, go out on purpose or accidentally, make bold proposals for joint pastime. Don't be afraid of failure.
If in the beginning you'll catch him puzzled looks, not pricavy them no value. He thinks you are arrogant and self-confident. Yes, you are such! So what?
Criticize his main girlfriend, don't talk about it. Imagine that it is not.
Mentally or on paper, draw the pictures, which is just you and he. Try for a long time to keep these pictures in mind.
Develop confidence by any means. Appropriate training and willpower.
Even if this man you got nothing happens, do not despair. It'll be his problem.
The path of humility
Not impose on this man with his company, but if he wants to meet you, do it with pleasure.
Not or chide him and did not ask. Ever.
About his girlfriend speak well and wish her well.
Find an interesting exercise, which at any moment could distract you from the wrong emotions: pity, hatred for her rival, to this man, to all men, to humanity in General.
Meeting with his friend, tell him the good news and say only nice things. Let the thought of the meeting with you will be one big positive emotion.
Try to actually learn how to live with joy, to think positively and not to be offended.
How to understand what is closer to you?
Doesn't fit the way of humility, if you are:
Do you think that this world was created for your comfort;
I envy those who achieve in life everything what he wants;
In my dreams I see myself as a woman highly successful, loved and cherished;
Already have considerable experience in achieving their goals.
You want the path of humility, if you are:
Relatively calm experiencing life loss and troubles;
More love to give than to receive gifts;
Resistant to virus mountability;
Pleasure to make people pleased, not gratitude.
In the us, women, 've got so many things - both soft and hard, and bitchy, and angels, that to prefer one side of his nature is not easy. Probably why so many girls and sit on the bench. But if you decide to change your life, you will have to apply measures and to take a more definite position. And to follow her, not retreating.
Source:
Female customers Belarus
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