What makes a woman strong and confident?

It is believed that men are divided into two types: the first type is men loving home women, different men like women self-sufficient.


Man, loving home women, believes that the woman is no good education, job, career. He will work and will bring home everything you need for family life.




He wants after work, met him affectionate, friendly, well-groomed wife, a good hostess, able to perfectly cook, a caring mother, a clean house and a healthy, supervised, well-mannered children, and not worn to work, tired "nag", the mountain of dirty dishes and abandoned children.




Men, loving prestigious women chasing women beautiful, rich, famous. This man wants to be not just a woman, and "the Firebird". However, catching a "fire-bird", many men due to their proprietary interests try to put her in a cage, that is, to the kitchen, that she belonged only to him.




And, as said one well-known woman, start to pull out of her luxurious feathers, gradually turning into the usual "chicken".




Turning "the Firebird" "chicken", the man is surprised, what happened, what happened to the gloss? Why have faded feathers, faded wings? And begins to look for another "the Firebird".




And there are men who love a prestigious women who just do not accept women unemployed, not make a career. It is important for him that his wife has always been a prestigious and dishes in the kitchen after work, he would wash himself.




A young girl, marrying, it is difficult to understand what her husband goes.




Naively she is often mistaken in thinking that her husband likes that his wife stays at home. She conscientiously engaged in agriculture, prefers not to work, loses his job and comes to him in complete dependence, then without it, it just "no one to call her in any way".




Over time it loses its appeal, it becomes interesting to him, and he throws it. Remains such a woman alone with children, without occupation and without means of existence.





Sometimes the situation is different.


A strong woman who made a career, with age, tired of the endless problems, wants to relax, to spend more time home, family, children. To be at least just a little woman. She wants the man took on his mighty shoulders all the worries and problems.




But there it was. As soon as the woman sat in the kitchen, she immediately lost in his eyes, the prestige, for which he loved her, admired and respected. And this man was not used to be the "locomotive" in the family, and he also goes to the other prestigious woman.




Therefore, in every woman's life is very important to get an education, profession, work and build a career. How would you persuade her to sit "chicken" in the kitchen, never on it do not agree.




They say the power of a woman in her weakness. And it is correct. But the weakness should be only external, because in modern society the woman in difficult moments no hope.




Men often say they don't like strong women, that women should be weak. It is not true. No matter what they say, but love, respect and appreciate they are only confident and self-sufficient women.




A confident woman is a strong woman. And makes a strong and confident of its material and spiritual independence.

Source:

School of life

women's web magazine