Office romances are just as much an integral part of office life as coffee or corporate parties. Many employers have long realized that trying to ban office romance - it's like trying to prevent the coming of the New year. Perhaps these novels even necessary for the normal functioning of the company. People are more likely to get acquainted with his future partner at work than anywhere else, so in most cases novels in the workplace do not cause any problems to anyone. �
The main key to success "office romance, regardless, will last if he for some time or not, is will you be able to cope with both the work and personal relationships. Usually it is very difficult to bring together these two completely different area of life - work and personal life. This often requires special skill, prudence and patience. But it's still possible, but without any "rocking the corporate boat. Let's discuss how it can be done.
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Think about all the good
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So, you liked someone at work, and you are trying to decide whether to take any attempts to further convergence. The basic rule for success in this situation is not to hurry. Well think about what this man for his work. It makes no sense to go on a date with a gunman who fires people without batting an eye, and then wonder why you lost the job after he threw. Rate if real, what your future partner, whether he likes you to take steps to get closer, and if you can trust him. Perhaps you too like your boss, but what can really lead you attempt a rapprochement?
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But if you still dare to step forward, then do it wisely. Do not use e-mail and not Balcytis in full view of everyone outside of the office or work Desk of your partner. More appropriate would be cautious phone call with an offer to go somewhere after work to drink a Cup of coffee or cocktail. Perhaps you happen to encounter him somewhere on the way home or in the office corridors - then, if there be a convenient time, do not waste your time and offer to go and drink coffee together.
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If romance is in full bloom
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Try not to succumb to the desire to walk around the office with a broad, triumphant smile shining on her face. Remember that you have to be prudent. This means no gossip on the subject, even to your best friend, if in the workplace, no hugs and kisses from your new favorite in the office or certainly no attempt to be alone with him in a secluded corner. And, besides, no favoritism!
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Accept the fact that others will sooner or later learn about your relationship. Then be honest with them: "Yes, I meet him," and say no more. If you do not give information for gossip, the interest to your relationship in the end will perish. Even if the information about your Alliance and will be the main office event, if not to say a word about it, as you would not want to share, then in a couple of weeks, your colleagues will find more interesting material for their gossip.
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If you are doing well
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Suppose you finally overcame all of the initial obstacles - predicted local "well-wishers" evil rock, the reports of the office gossips about the last three official novels of your partner with your less fortunate predecessors and other "sins" - and convinced of the seriousness of your relationship with him. This does not mean that you necessarily have to look for a new job. You will also be able to work together indefinitely, but when the condition is you must be a professional in his field, that is, to make their work as good as before, even better. Do not build in the office of the each other eyes, not Nestle in the nooks and do not engage in sex in the workplace (neither literally nor figuratively) in one word, be at work in two different, unrelated to each other people. If you both can't mix work and personal life, it will make life easier not only to others but to you in the first place.
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If your novel "failed"
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...You threw it away, and now they don't even want to see him. Or maybe he left you, and you just lose your temper about it, but, despite this, you still have to meet with him at work. In this case you still have not to dramatize events and especially to refrain from retaliation. Revenge can manifest itself in everything from it to tell everyone how bad lover he was, to the constant criticism of his immediate work. But such behavior will only show you with an impartial hand, and will put in an awkward position.
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If you so want, you can scold him home, but at work behave impeccably. Smile, always be polite, avoid to discuss with someone your broken heart and show everyone - including him - that you successfully survived the separation and quietly live on. If you happen to convince everyone what a bad and dishonest, it can seriously harm its reputation, and it will not bring joy to anyone, including you.
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But most importantly, remember: if your office love affair ended badly, it is not necessary for a long time to shed tears. Try to turn this setback into an advantage - every coin always has two sides. The gap in such a relationship can always be transformed into a new perspective, and how to do this, we will discuss in the future - stay tuned for our publications!
Author:
Pisarenko,
Source:
Orange Snow
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