What if you try to look at yourself through the eyes of men? What in us is like and what annoys you? What is their understanding of a beautiful woman? Do we have to change or it is better not to risk it? The answers to these and many other questions, we decided to get a few dozen men of various ages and professions. We hope that the results of this survey will help you to better understand their complicated logic. So, here is what you see and want to see us men....
First impression
If you have even a modicum of romanticism and optimism, you probably still dream to meet the man of her dreams. But, it turns out that you are not alone - the representatives of the opposite sex is also quite sentimental and prone to believing in the ideals. What can attract their attention in an unfamiliar girl and force her to meet? Figure centerfolds? Stunning outfit? Amazing hairstyle? No, everything is possible and it plays a role, but clearly not the main one. Everything is much simpler.
Most of the men said that he met with the girl, which itself would pay attention to them or smiled. As they say, "I looked around to see not looked if she... ". Male unanimity in this matter due to the fact that to make the first move most of them fear because of the possibility of failure. Therefore, when the first meeting of the attention the girls for men is much more important than its flawless appearance.
However, this does not mean that one smile is enough to interest a man. Describing favourite stranger, almost all in the first place would pay attention to the expressive eyes and delicate features.
It is not strange, but the assessment of leg length and shape in General, most considered less important (it is hard to believe, however, hardly! ).
The next most popular answer was a well-groomed appearance and the presence of taste, but the originality of the clothes, makeup or hairstyle when meeting, as it turned out, the values for men virtually no.
Statistics, of course, a necessary thing, but how many men - so many opinions. Therefore, it is necessary to enumerate and more original responses. For someone was mandatory smart appearance, someone indifferent to the buoyant hohotushka, and some of them primarily pay attention to the presence or the absence of a wedding ring.
What is a good figure?
Almost every man will tell you that he prefers women with a good figure. However, this concept everyone understands in his own way. As a result of our survey was that about 50% of men prefer busts and hips with a thin waist, and only 20% like long-legged, tall and slim. Another 5% scored petite and fragile God and delicious cuppy cake. And the remaining 10% of men said that the figure should be primarily proportional to and be in harmony with the inner world. So, dear ladies, instead of a regular diet better think about how you harmonious.
Going to work
Work plays in the lives of most women a very important role. And how it will be successful, not least depends on the willingness and ability to look good. And if you are surrounded by at least a few men, it would be nice to know what they would like to see you.
Now, there are only 10% of men only appreciate your business and use it almost doesn't matter how a woman looks.
Rest and work continue to be men who are not indifferent to female beauty.
It is not strange, but the largest number of men to first of all pay attention to coming from colleagues, light fragrance. Without this, according to almost 50% of the respondents can not do at work is not one self-respecting woman.
In second place was neatly done hair, and the third - makeup and manicure.
But a thoughtful and fashionable outfit, as well as beautiful shoes and bag, men seem not so important. Truly, man's logic is inexplicable!
However, it is not necessary to conclude that you can dress in anything. In the end, you probably surrounds and a lot of women who will pay attention to every detail of your wardrobe, remaining invisible to men! But this is another story, not related to the topic of this article in any way.
Home vanity
If colleagues are accustomed to seeing us painted, well groomed and tastefully dressed, before home we usually appear far less attractive. Which of our bad habits annoying men the most? The answer to this question was perhaps the most unexpected.
The vast majority of men do not tolerate, if a woman does not wash at night makeup. Who would have thought that they actually pay attention to it! This man, by the way, unanimous with cosmetologists who unanimously advised the night to give the person to relax.
The second most popular "home" drawback was unkempt and sloppy. Then, as they say, no comment. Slightly fewer men annoying, if a woman walks through the apartment with a cream or mask. However, I do not advise you to renounce the use of these cosmetics. Just better, causing them to face, quietly go and ask the family to pull you at least 15-20 minutes. By the way, the opinion of cosmetologists about the maximum efficiency of the masks and then strikingly coincides with the male point of view.
Well, what a portrait of women at home without the traditional eyelash curler! But, to our great surprise, they, judging by the responses, annoy not very many. Explanations for this may be only two or all respondents very lucky men and women solve the problem of hair styling otherwise, or modern men try to treat this problem with understanding.
And finally, the most rare was... irritation due to the habit of women to walk in his housecoat. Most of the men's comments on this subject clearly had erotic overtones. However, in order to arouse men such thoughts, Bathrobe should be relevant!
A little about hair
Of course, we could not verify the correctness of the famous assertion that "gentlemen prefer blondes". And so that's what we got: a little more than half of men prefer women with light brown hair, slightly less popular dark brown or chestnut hair, and now platinum blonde and hot brunette scored the lowest number of votes. For most men, this hair color seems too bright and unnatural. By the way to coloring the hair a more natural color almost 80% applies quite easily.
The most opposite opinions raised questions about the reaction of the men bold enough experiments woman on your hair such as hair coloring or at least some of the strands in an unusual color (green, orange and so on). It turns out that only a very small proportion of men (approximately 20%) like if their companion pay attention to the surrounding. In addition, they think that everything that makes a woman - well.
But the vast majority adheres to, as it turned out, quite the opposite point of view. They prefer their woman looked natural and conservative and do not attract too much attention. This position is easy to explain - not every man will be able to withstand such a comparison and not get lost in the background of such an extravagant person. So, if you are not sure about the reaction of his beloved, it is better not to take too risky actions. Those whose men prefer to be with a gray mice, it is better to teach a man to change gradually.
This same question was also a third variant of the answer. Approximately 10% of men said that such experiments - a personal matter women and they may not even pay attention to it. This brings to mind the well-known joke about male observation, when looking at the woman in the mask, the man calmly asked why she wysopal eyebrows.
Time changes
But no matter what they say men, woman, no change can not live. As the representatives of the stronger sex are to an ever-changing hairstyles, hair colors, makeup and outfits? Special consensus on this issue among men is clearly not observed. About 50% of the respondents agreed that women need to change, because the only way it can be interesting not only for men but for themselves. The idea that a woman can change some minor details without violating the one chosen style, appeared to be somewhat less popular (35%).
Other men are not fans of change, but lead very different reasons. The majority (about 10%) explains his conservative in that they prefer to see a woman like it when something they liked. They didn't want to put up with the situation when falling in love with chubby and ugly brunette with long braids, a year later they find that it turned into a slim blonde a La Marilyn Monroe. Such a shock they worry not.
The second explanation of men's conservatism is much more prosaic: they fear that too frequent changes can greatly affect the family budget. So, before you get married are advised to find out the views of your beloved on this issue. Otherwise you have all the chances to regularly listen to the accusations of extravagance. Think about whether you want to constantly convince her husband in need of your going to the hairdresser, as well as in the purchase of new shoes and an extra pair of tights.
In search of his style
Creating his own unique style, the woman focuses not only on one's own view of itself, but also the opinions of others. And men play not the last role. What they want us to see? Of course, it was about the choice of a life partner or even women for long-term relationship, and not "girls on the night".
The most popular among them was the style that can be called "sophisticated person". Women prefer this style would have stopped our choice of about 30% of men. Here is a brief description of the main features that distinguish the refined nature from all other women: expressive eyes, long hair, perfect manicure, high heels, free flowing clothes cut, preferably made of silk and other soft tissues, winter clothing made of fur, favorite colors - black, as well as all neutral. Usually women of this type differ cat's habits, and depending on the character or situation can turn into either a cat that walks by itself (which men don't like) or in the cute creature.
20% of men prefer women in the style of "shy". The main distinguishing feature of this style is naturalness. This means that makeup should be minimal, necklines and slits absent, and the colors are preferred only pastel and inconspicuous. And yet all this must be combined with a delicate facial features and a calm nature. At once suggests itself that such a woman should and her sacred duty is to educate children and standing at the stove. The presence of any time-consuming and energy interests in such a scenario is obviously not available.
Exactly the same number of men (20%) prefer women sports style. Mean availability of sports figures, short haircuts and appropriate style of clothing. In addition, the prerequisites are a light tan, minimum makeup, maximum optimism and passion for some fashionable sport, like tennis, skiing, or, in extreme cases, aerobics. Such women usually like men who prefer sporty style of life.
The fourth most popular among men was, oddly enough, the style of "business woman". He gave the preference almost 15% of respondents. Maybe it is because most men who answered our questions, faced with such women at work have already got used to them and see all their dignity. So, what are the main features of this style? First, it is flawless, but not bright makeup and manicure, secondly, neat short hair and, thirdly, strict business, but not devoid of femininity to the suit. The plate is, of course, the whole life will not hold, but with it there is always something to talk about. That is why this type of women, as a rule, prefer smart enough and intelligent men.
Another 10% of men have chosen the style of "pupa". What is it, to explain, probably not: angel eyes, bow lips, curly hair, cheerful colors, dresses and frills. However it is worth noting that the nature of these dolls very rarely matches their angelic appearance
But most, at first glance, attractive men's style called "femme fatale" was chosen by only 5% of respondents. It would seem, who could pass by a lady with a seductive figure in a tight dress with a deep neckline and high heels. You can add to that flowing hair and bright red lipstick and nail Polish. As the saying goes, "a sultry female poet's dream". Only it turns out that such women men prefer mostly to dream, in real life, meeting them only occasionally and briefly. They are much calmer when next to them is do not let this seductive, but more reliable "shy".
But, as it turned out, most men don't like women whose style can be called "avanguardisti". This answer was the most unpopular. Why is it so afraid of men? It turned out that frightens them extravagant makeup and hair color, plenty of jewelry, love of bright colors and black leather. If we consider that such an appearance, in their opinion, almost always combined with a fairly violent and uncontrollable temper and unconventional outlooks on life, their fears become more understandable. This woman can certainly arouse men's interest, but most likely, he from it very quickly get tired, again preferring a quieter option.
So, I hope that you learned a lot themselves. However, what to do if a male point of view is strongly at odds with your own opinion on such concepts as beauty, style and so on? Only one: forget everything you just read and stay themselves. Because, the main thing is to please yourself, and then men simply will not be left with no other choice but to fall in love with you and completely change all your views!
Author:
Chernyshev, E.
Source:
Beauty Time
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