Questions that must honestly answer every real woman.Mom, you haven't gone?
Thanks to Freud and Jung and many are already aware of what lie in bed not two, but six: you, your partner and a full set of parents on both sides. Childhood experiences actually influence our perception of the world, but the intellect, fortunately, stronger.
Thoughts about the relationship between father and mother be ruthless destruction - from the mistakes of others learn from anyone never turns out (this you know), and other reasons to carry on his hump baggage of someone else's experience is not.
Exercise regularly weeding his consciousness, carefully wykonczenia out all negativity, carefully handed to you parents in the education process. No matter how influenced children's emotions in your life, remember: as you decide, so be it in love or in a career, not always useful surrender to the power of primeval instincts.
Why did I ever go to bed?
If flavor soup aromatic salt bath, it is unlikely that he will turn out delicious. So it is with sex - it should be used for its intended purpose.
The only reason to move with your partner in a horizontal plane, the desire to make love. Everything else: the loneliness, the fear of losing a man, the need for self-assertion is not a reason.
If you are starved for touch, sign up for a massage. Sorry for not losing hope fan? Do a good deed - assemble things for orphans. Psychologists warn that sex should not be turned into a tool of influence: it's not gingerbread ("Well-behaved - get") and not the whip ("did Not wash the dishes, go to sleep on the sofa").
Not too I try?
Dedication is a big virtue in everything but marriage games mammals. You've read about different ways to bring a partner to ecstasy. But such therapeutic exercise usually beats unwilling to have sex.
Will caress cute from head to blisters on heels will get tired, and one can get bored. With you it must feel like a hunter and he is a hunter, if the game dodges arrows, and sympathetic help to pull the string?
Selfishness in sex is useful because most men Fucks women's detachment. But note: to fall in bed with a log - one, to surrender to the will of the winner - another.
Maybe it's time to talk to him?
Take as an axiom: the partner is not obliged to know everything about you, including where to find your erogenous zones. Can give him the opportunity to identify them empirically, but it will take years.
Want - wait, don't want to wait - tell yourself. Information for consideration should be received in homeopathic doses, and preferably, in a roundabout way. Otherwise one will be offended. He must reach out to all, or at least to think that I got myself.
Today, let that not riding a horse you have sensitive skin on the inside of the thighs, and tomorrow - what is love from a rough wool socks - they are so nice tickle heel.
And suddenly I've got all ugly?
All normal people doubt their own attractiveness, it's perfectly natural. Someone dissatisfied with their hips, others booty, but one of the most popular questions on reception at the gynecologist is: "Doctor, and I got down all right? "
Any doctor will answer without looking: "Like everyone else", is of course, unless you have not told him that was subjected to the ritual of initiation, as is common in Sudan. Think about it, why nature has given you and another three billion women sex organs. Right to bear children. We're it not for the fact that you immediately sent contraceptives in the trash. Just childbirth is difficult, so the tools he relies primarily functional rather than aesthetic.
Do I love my body?
And Cindy Crawford is unhappy with her figure. But she puts her hands only when they begin to ache from semidiagrammatic dumbbells. What prevents you to follow her example and start working on yourself?
Because love is not in feet, not in your lips and in person. Yes, and believe we're for anything that you have nothing to be proud of. Remember the compliments you say.
Perhaps girlfriend jealous of your thin ankles, and the trainer yesterday said that you have a strong back... And stop already, indulging in amorous pleasures, draw your abdomen. Because the woman herself does not like, it is difficult to love someone else.
How long before orgasm?
In men, it's simple: orgasm is a reaction to the stimulation of seed tubercle, located in the urethra. With women increasingly difficult. If someone has a button, one click calls a storm of delight, others need more warming up. Orgasm devoted a ton of scientific and popular literature.
No wonder: in a society oriented metrics, counts only the fact of achieving the goal. Sex is also the most important is reaching the top. Why?! In Eastern philosophy the path is the goal. It is the pleasure, joy and meaning.
Believe me, once you have parted with the idea that orgasm is mandatory, you will start to get real pleasure. In Chinese "Tao of love" even argues that the act, terminated the most approaches to climax strengthens the health of both partners.
Not to slow down if the temp?
Every time something new, even hotter, even more shameless than. The main thing is not to repeat, because we are afraid of boredom. So on Monday we have vegetarian lasagna Tuesday - sashimi of tuna, Wednesday - Argentinian steak, and on Thursday is scheduled to rearrange the furniture and another change of image in the beauty salon.
Sex ratio is the same: you're afraid to lie around in bed and because resorting to the winds in pursuit of the next progressive trend. But behind all this fuss is hidden fear of emptiness, which is sure to make itself felt, once you stop and adjust the breath.
Tip: stay at their favorite positions and methods that are suitable for your body and your temperament, it's silly not to use what worked. And if you are comfortable in your cotton underwear, why buy bras with perverted carved cups over your nipples will stick out like the heads of medieval warriors over a fortification?
Where I have erogenous zones?
Aren't we talking all the time that they can feel the skin"? This is the expression that best explains the importance of touch for emotional sphere. In fact, the woman is a continuous erogenous zone.
Many areas of her body endowed with a special sensitivity and send to the brain telegrams-zipper about pleasure. So proceed to the self-examination - using a pen, finger (friends and foes) and respiration (alien).
Our skin - the whole country with its climate, landscape and laws. Intently gazing, touching her, and sometimes tasting, we give and receive pleasure.
What I look like after sex?
The reason can justify not quite a good experience, but the reflection in the mirror in two hours the night won't lie.
If the sex was good, nothing - not matted hair, no red face, no spread eyeliner - will not spoil your preference. Happy woman always looks a million. And the less we disagree.
Source:
Glamour
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