Puberty for boys: anxiety and problems

Your son is now 11 years old? The girls in his class, most likely, already sometimes start to use cosmetics, quickly add in the growth, and indeed already are like not for little girls, and pretty girls. The boys, most likely, still pacanet, playing "war", and the girls look so far only c T. C. as it is easier for a rope to pull. Nothing, and soon our little boys will enter into puberty (usually the boys he starts on a half-two years later than girls).



Physical aspect and quantify


In boys, puberty usually begins years 11-12, sometimes, however, it can linger and years to 14-15.




Significantly increase muscle and bone system, broken voice, changing figure. Develops the muscles of the shoulder girdle. Increase and genitals. In seven years, the length of the testicles in the middle reaches 2, 7 cm, and the penis in calm 3-3, 5 cm, to the beginning of puberty, these figures increase slightly: 2, 8-3 cm testicles and 3, 8 cm penis.




During puberty, the growth dynamics of the genital organs is much higher, because there is an intensive development of male sex hormones. In 13 years, these important indicators will be 3, 6-3, 7 for eggs and 6, and 3 cm for the penis to the 15 - 4 cm and 6 to 7 cm, respectively. Of course, this is the average of the readings, and step right-left for escape is not considered (unless, of course, it's not a giant step).




Puberty, in addition, is marked by the appearance of hair in the first place, on the pubis. Years to 14-15 appear the hair under the armpits and - hurrah! youth fluff on his upper lip and chin.




Simultaneously with the appearance of the hair is broken voice, and, unfortunately, often the face of your child is covered with pimples. Someone acne more individual lucky - less or not at all. If the acne much bother, you can contact the experts. And, of course, follow a healthy lifestyle your growing up "baby": sports, nutrition, maintenance of the skin clean - all this can significantly reduce the number of those nasty blackheads. Although, of course, to 16-17 years they will disappear.




Around the same time (14 years) can receive the first emission. This means that the sperm ready and your "baby" is quite physically able to make you a grandmother or grandfather. It's time to talk about the "birds and bees", if you haven't already. And, of course, the responsibility for the girl and (PAH-PAH) because of the potential child. And about contraception.




Another very important for a boy figure puberty - growth. Usually there are two jump: first comes on 10-11 years old (boy grows 10 centimeters). Next hop - 13-year-old boy gets 7-8 centimeters.




Parents should know that all the signs of puberty may be delayed for a year or two, nothing wrong with that. The main thing is to support your son if he is worried about being so far he didn't grow facial hair, and it is lower in the class.




But sometimes correction of some disorders require the help of professionals. So if the first signs of puberty late visit a urologist or andrologist, because, as you know, easier to prevent than to treat, and in 12-13 years, if any problem and will fix everything much easier.




Changing the rules of personal hygiene




Don't forget to teach the son, and the basics of personal hygiene, because uncleanliness can lead to balanoposthitis and profitableway. Daily toilet, frequent change of linen - a mandatory item in the program of care not only girls but also boys. Don't forget that boys are more active are the sex glands, of course, there is an unpleasant smell. The boy may not notice, but that's classmates and friends (and, of course, the girls will notice is required. Don't forget to pay attention to it, and - again - "long live the soap fragrant and neutral deodorants.





Psychology adolescent boys


So, the boy changed not only physically, but of course, it is the physical changes entail psychological maturation. Your son is becoming shy, upset about the slightest defect, exaggerating its importance. Motion boys angular, because the body is growing so quickly that the adaptation takes time.




Teen easily offended, his mood often changes: now he feels like an adult, and 5 minutes later he again baby and wants to be with mom and dad.




In addition, and vague sexual desires also contribute to the confusion. At this time, the boys (and girls too) appear idols: teachers, movie stars, and so on and so forth, usually of the same sex as the child. A little later comes the idol of the opposite sex, yet also movie star or a popular musician. And then slowly it turns out that a classmate is also quite nothing, and can be an object of sympathy. However, before the open expression of emotions is still far away.




In addition, puberty teenager is fighting for his freedom from parental custody and insists on their rights and independence, but this does not mean that parents should "be done" on these requirements. Typically, a child's freedom struggles, but her fears: psychologists working with adolescents, they say that many teenagers admit that they wish parents were more strict and taught what is good and what is bad.




If the decision of parents wisely, teen receives it, so do not forget to trust your child and discuss the moral norms. As a rule, healthy parenting and confidence in the trust and attention of parents is exactly what you need, young man.

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