Five rules of communication with the guy in the social network

Social networks are flooded part of our perception of the external world. Well, judge for yourself: every day you, including your the computer must check PM different social resources. Especially if the day before he met with some virtual Prince, with whom, for example, go to the cinema or at the worst end in the cafe.

However, communicating in the virtual space, very often, the extra smile (or conversely the lack thereof) changes the mood of the message in the opposite direction. In other words, communicating in a network, you need to learn some rules, so that the correspondence brought the expected result.

So, you met Him. And, lo and behold, he got you interested! How to pull it on a candid conversation, or even better - on a date?

First rule:

WRITE CORRECTLY!

No matter what they say, and orthography influences the creation of the image of the interlocutor. It is in the comments you can swallow commas, to rearrange the letters to write krakozyabry. Getting acquainted with a guy online, still keep the principles of presenting information literate. It is always a bonus.

Rule two:

NOT PORIRUA THE DEVELOPMENT OF RELATIONSHIPS!

Yes, he became interested in you, Yes, he put cool pictures, Yes you now would like to walk with him on the evening city. No need to force things! Remember-it is you want all at once, and your young man, perhaps only adapts to a new acquaintance. Don't strain his immediate invitation to meet in real life.

Rule three:

DO NOT IGNORE CORRESPONDENCE CONVERSATION!

Communication through correspondence, brought tens of thousands of pairs, even in that amazing time when the concept of the Internet was out of science fiction. If you're interested in a beautiful relationship, amadigi real communication as soon as possible. After all, most, meeting face to face, end stage "training" for future relations. What this stage is shorter, the more unpredictable can be your subsequent meeting. Try to reveal the man, looking at him through the monitor of the laptop and not straight in the face.

Rule four:

DO NOT GO INTO THE SOUL!

Never attack the personal space unfamiliar person. It will always repel. Want to tell myself. Do not want, will eventually find a way to learn. How many children, how many women have passed through his bed, what kind of toothpaste he's brushing his teeth if he loves indecent films, and how many times a day-all of this must be left for later. Correspondence does not tolerate such a heavyweight showdown.

Finally, the rule five:

FIND COMMON INTERESTS

You love both movies is cool! Need to find: he loves romance or horror? You are both listening to the music, but can listen to metal, and you Taisia Povaliy. Books, again, sometimes read in the society. Who knew, maybe you both like king or Zola? In the end, both of you can collect money from chewing gum. Same case.

And remember: virtual acquaintance is always a risk to run into a rogue with a big road. Never disclose the secret of his address and phone number. From time to time.

Author:

Matilda Stoss

women's web magazine