Demanding quality in itself useful, sometimes very necessary. However, we know that everything can be reduced to an absurdity, and the insistence in including.
1. You dumped him because he snored
Or because he ate after you see your piece of cake. Or because he refused to pee sitting. Or because he pokovyrjatsja nose in front of your eyes. Etc.... All this, of course, very unfortunate, but not a sufficient reason to end the relationship. Just think how it looks from some of the things that make you...
2. Can you describe your ideal man for two hours in a row
Beautiful, intelligent, rich, noble, caring, loving, kind, generous, talented, optimistic, strong, confident... something else? Still a couple-second caressing the soul of epithets? If so, then you are firmly mired in the swamp of their arbitrability, and it urgently needs to do something! Otherwise, not seen you for marriage as their ears. Lower the bar and choose the best possible.
3. You are always late for a date, but get offended when your lover is not yet in place
If you cultivate such double standards, you are too demanding of your partner and too lenient towards yourself. Allowing yourself something, be prepared for the fact that your young man will distribute the appropriate freedom for himself.
4. You ignore too "fast" men
You gave the number of his mobile interesting guy, but eventually sent away because he called you after only two hours after the first meeting. M-Yes... You are afraid that he is a maniac? Maniacs are not so clearly. In any case, those who meet on the street, under the bright sun at the flower stall. Or maybe an easy mark you're not interested? But you still caught nothing: maybe a first date will be the last; perhaps your newest fan in fact very soon will disappear forever from your life, even if they invite you for a romantic dinner at the top of the Eiffel tower. A life! So do not twist the nose and capture the moment! It is not excluded that the fate is in your hands. Not to get as in that joke: - ...And who you sent a boat, a helicopter?
5. You refuse a date because "it looks bad"
How many men were literally picked up in the dust, washed, combed and dressed properly! Not much less than it was in consequence of the "sealed" by mark registry office in the passport. Know that for the neat elegance men are attentive woman, so sloppy appearance can be regarded as a good sign. And why have you decided that your gift will be presented to you will certainly on a silver platter? Sometimes on his own happiness need to work harder! The reward can become if not a Prince on a white horse, then at least sane and decent person on the bike. Or "Mercedes" - here together as you will try. In General, if happiness bypasses your side - make it yourself!
6. Deny always you
If you are not denied ever, and you always refuse, is a sure sign that you are too picky. So you and old age to meet alone! Do not avoid relationships - avoid them idealization.
7. You refused to date more times than you've had dates
Each new appointment is not only a chance to find a life partner, but also the opportunity to expand their knowledge about people, practice their communicative skills and presentation skills. Try not to refuse meetings, especially if you have time for them. At least you will get a new experience that could be applied in future relationships with the opposite sex. Finally, Archer, shooting, never hits the target.
8. You don't believe in the continuation of the relationship before the first date
Perfectionism, based on pessimism - an explosive mixture from old virgin. Do not place immediately the dam - let the river flow relations as she wants, because its course naturally. Life will put everything in its place and will show what date should continue, and which are not.
9. Your favorite phrase is “He's too...”
...Thick, thin, high, low... - this list by the number of words yields except the list of paragraph 2 of this opus. Do not rush with estimates and remember that the person with average parameters is rarely interesting. In addition, no growth and no weight determine the true suitability of the person for a life together.
10. You expect that he first recognized in love or make an offer
It's no secret: historically, traditionally, historically, these steps do it man. But in fact, if you look, it is nothing more than a Convention. Isn't true love is inherent gender differences and limitations? Why I, a woman, have no right to be the first to declare their feelings and the seriousness of his intentions? If I do this, and the partner will then refuse relations with me, so I told him was right; and if he will further be pulled to me, not whether it is happiness?
So, evaluate your approach to the representatives of the stronger sex is critical, if necessary, make the appropriate adjustments and life will wink at you, indicating that you are on the right track!
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