Vulnerable point # 1. They are afraid to be funny
Man is a creature vulnerable to a much greater extent than the woman. And more infantile, especially in the present embodiment, when the traditionally male activities - war and hunting alien to him, and to prove its worth not so much.
Almost every man carries a boy, a sort of Peter pan, who don't mind playing and life, and women. Peter pan claimed that he was a very important person, although loved to nasmeshnichaet and all substitute. But when "played" with him, and he could not control the situation, Peter went into a rage. So any man more than anything else is afraid to seem ridiculous because it does not recognize its consistency.
Advice to women:
Be careful with jokes in male address. They in no case should not touch his appearance, sexual opportunities, members of his family, his ability to earn money... the List goes on.
Vulnerable point # 2. They don't want to dance to tune of"
Biological challenge men as scout, pioneer experimenter was shaped by his temperament, does not tolerate monotony and stamps in behavior. But here's the paradox: the army still consists of men, subordinate to the commander and leading a highly regulated way of life. The thing is that because of their psychological mobility men react faster to changing situations and clear verbal language, so in a male environment, it is much easier to install an external discipline.
However, if the "commander" is trying to make the woman you love, it is perceived as abuse innermost essence of the men (the commanders of him and that is enough) and can completely discourage to communicate with a woman on.
That is why, by the way, many men do not like to give flowers to those with whom they have stronger relationships. They think that thus they impose stereotypical behavior, "lead on the leash, forced to perform all assigned expectations. This fluid and freedom-loving male nature abhors.
Advice to women: Change behaviours, less say "do everything" correctly", try to be unpredictable.
Vulnerable point # 3. They hate to talk about their health
Men rarely go to the doctors, if possible, avoid treatment, "pull up to the last". The reason is simple - they are afraid of pain. In life they do not have to suffer as much as women. Some genera are worth the money! And because of physical suffering man less ready and just lost to them.
In addition, to agree to go to the doctor for men is tantamount to "give up", "play" in the struggle with life.
And even more men will not discuss their problems with a woman that he likes! Pity, sympathy, and other similar feelings, which the fair sex are sometimes synonymous with love, man's nature is not inherent.
Talking about it and ill saying: "the Husband loves the wife healthy and brother sister - rich". The man instinctively knows what feelings it brings up a woman in a similar situation (although it can and hide it from ourselves and from it), and don't want to seem pathetic, weak. He is very capable of empathy, and it's hard to believe that one is capable of more.
Advice to women: To discuss the problems of male health is possible only with her husband, and then only to offer positive solutions. If a man simply takes care of you better about his health not to speak.
Vulnerable point # 4. They do not tolerate showdown
Here lies the great divide between the male and female natures beautiful floor to talk about life loves! Men prefer the words of acts. They are not too able to analyze their feelings. They rely on instinct, impulse. So many talk about how you really are to me attitude" that can cause irritation and even break.
Advice to women: Peregivaite bone men with girlfriends. And her man in a showdown not to get involved.
Vulnerable point # 5. They come in a rage, because of their "prodiamine"
A man in love seeks primarily to the result. For him the best proof of the feelings of women are intimate relationship. And so he perceives any flirting as an invitation to action.
If it turns out that it was just a game or a joke - don't expect mercy. Having been refused, he will try to "hang" on you all "dogs", to blame all the possible disadvantages to convince myself that the loss was small. However, the enthusiasm with which he is engaged, will indicate just the opposite. You can all beat, but your second Dynamo he will not forgive.
Advice to women:
Try to play along with him, because you it costs nothing! He wants you was justified, was proven to be unique and compelling.
This is a continuation of foreplay, and if you are serious, it will only increase his desire to be with you. According to Freud, based on male aggression against women is always sexual interest. If you "didn't mean anything", it is better to step aside and give it to clear.
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