One of my favorite female occupations to speculate about why men prefer other women from time to time or regularly, but it is quite certain behaviour. In short, prostitutes. They can't understand why men do this, but, worst of all, men often can't explain it..."And you, Brutus..."
Indeed, why should the male prostitute, if practically the same thing he can get for free? Well, according to my other friend, each of us lies dormant an ancient slaver. Which, as you know, always looking beautiful captive - still position requires. However, from personal experience I've found that lying to women is useless, and sometimes get you in trouble. So version version, but will be based on the facts and merits.
To start with I would like to clarify and raise the bridges (figuratively, of course). Intercourse with a prostitute is not always purely personal initiative. Sometimes (and often) that a man acting in the interests of the collective. For example, go nick, Peter and Valerie in the business to do a responsible job. And most of them are configured in the evening in the company of girls. For example, in the sauna. Most likely, this initiative will be supported. Any normal person interesting in company than alone. Especially if it is a company, which he still have to work, that is, to eat together, not one pound of salt, drink a barrel of beer from their manufacturer or worse, vodka, and maybe even the old Javanese Roma...
The man is useless to tear off from the group to him like that, Especially if it appeared long before in his life had a woman claiming to be the one and only. But when it is for the company to go to the sauna, it does not mean that It is unique for it does not exist. Just in men's relations are special codes. And for the real men they don't even important, they are sacred. There are almost instinctively (in any case, very often unconsciously). They say that the male chromosome over time should cease to exist. Women will reproduce by budding or something else, and men, therefore, will not do. And I'm pretty sure that in our genes, this information is incorporated. So we are just that - try to group for a common cause. So still more reliable, easier to hold.
These
Why a man goes to a prostitute himself, and not under the gun of the enemy's gun? The question is not rhetorical. But the answer is there is not so little. Here is one young man for thirty named Gleb - five minutes of computer Nobel prize. Forced to systematically runs between Moscow and different points of the world - such work. And no way to establish lasting relationships with some good girl because of his inhuman employment (although very want).
Gleb coming out of the situation, for it is, so to speak, on the go. With those who will never reproach him for his continued absence, and his forced solitude. "No normal girl would not stand in my schedule, " he says. And relations with challenges me to anything, I have too little free time to them continuously to find out. Prostitutes - the best option. Otherwise you'll have to fall in love with the mate, and it's not included in my plans".
Gleb, incidentally, is not the only such man. In the sense of not one he prefers limited communication with the girl mild behavior only because of the fact that it automatically exempt him from liability. But the male irresponsibility that just love to complain about women, here at anything. On the contrary, if a man, then it is a great responsibility. If you feel that you can't be a Prince on a white horse who needs a girl, it is better to use paid services - it is so honest towards her.
Interesting position
Here Vika and Tolya, my classmates. Call each other "husband" and "wife," go with stamps on marriage registration in the passport. But live separately. Of their total wonderful apartment Roofing moved out of rented accommodation and now supports there life almost approximate bachelor (to the extent possible, of course). Foreign girls there do not happen. Only from time to time certain.
Roofing says: it's logical. With Vick, they parted with just a little persuasion to think alone about future relations. Oh, and at the same time to have a rest from each other and from their I already don't-remember-how many years of marriage. Difficulties because one way or another occur in any pair. Its existence is not static, it changes over time, all - physiology, needs and opportunities. At some point you may find that two people living nearby, the settings do not match. And this difference grows as the volcanic fissure, consequently, it is impossible to live next door. At some point John suddenly felt Vika tries to manipulate him, then what to lead. He decided not to wait, when he will give the command "In bed! " (I think it went). And took a timeout...
A renowned specialist in family psychology Alan Pease believes that over time, the marriage is evolving to extinction. In fact, women today - in contrast to past eras - there's not much point to value relationships with men. They all can do that without the head of the family will not be lost. Would not be surprised if in the future they will become Amazons.
In such circumstances, nothing hinders natural male tendencies: why does someone have to hold back when you are not hungry? Besides, sooner or later, women's dissatisfaction and habits the rank of Lieutenant can discourage even the most strong male libido. But don't make the same vulgar affair with another girl just because of the fact that we no longer attracted to his wife. As was gone, and so will appear. The main thing is to be patient and find a way to survive temporary difficulties.
Now!
What will you do if in the night you need to go to the train station, and the cars you have, or it is, but broke? Taxi service. Find simple and well-known way to succeed. With girls the horizontal work the same story. They are affordable and easy to use: they do not need to be led and to sweat at the thought of what might not like that - they've reassured. So many men choose this way to take revenge as the most efficient and do not require in General a large attachment.
Sometimes, of course, everything. I know a case when a young man was very important to preserve the virginity of his girlfriend before the wedding. Whether for yourself, or for the sake of her family - is not important. The task was indeed solved. But if he had not used the services of prostitutes, the story is hardly over so optimistic. Especially when you consider that the wedding was postponed twice.
As an exception
A very special kind of communication of men with prostitutes - emotional sex, when a man pays her for the opportunity to speak out. And it's not as silly as it seems at first glance. If you are among yuppies, dinner in Raku" black "American Express" in his pocket, not so easy to find nearby of the person will want to publish without reserve. Therefore, a man is taking a prostitute and goes with her to the Ritz or the Hilton, where they drink and talk. And further up the bed, and - if both it be, is not decisive.
It is difficult to say how often this happens. But I am not sure that so rarely. If a man wears a suit from Brioni, it does not mean that he does not want his listened and repented. Well, if this does not happen with high-end prostitute in "the Ritz", but with less glamorous during a holiday in Thailand - what is the difference? No.
Of course, we always want something new. We are so arranged. Male sexuality is a very special element incessant thirst for fresh sensations. But becomes whether communication with prostitutes in the norm, depends not only on what he thinks about this man. And not only on its habits.
A lot depends on the woman beside her sincerity. If she imitates the passion, the sex, the house and the cabin will vary only formally. So, to use the services of girls from the salon, there will be "nothing".
In search of lost Paradise
Source:
Леди@mail.ru
No comments:
Post a Comment