What fears are plagued by our men, turning them from self-confident beauties in timid boys?
"I said get up! "
Lives his normal macho accustomed to mad success with women and secret envy of men. The level of testosterone in his blood through the roof, and a phone full of text messages on the topic "Waiting for you, my furry monster! "
But one morning macho, waking up, does not detect the usual morning erection. All. The Ghost of impotence silently stood on the threshold of his own bedroom. "This is the beginning of the end", " he thinks. He could not imagine that a man willing to have sex around the clock, is a character from porn, not with reality nothing in common.
"Size matters"
. Men who are susceptible to this fear, armed with a ruler and ready to make measurements endlessly. "And suddenly it is not enough? Suddenly she is not?!! " These questions haunt them day and night. And rarely what man will think about the fact that the average sixteen centimeters is much nicer to use than the twenty-five - if, of course, he is not going to enter into intimate relations with the Mariana trench.
"At the start...... the Finish line! ". A heavily muscled man from the outside looks very impressive in his eyes the fire, his hands trembling impatience, and his penis is just scary to watch - look and what to break away from the "rocket" and fly into the stratosphere.
The author can play with the man a very bad joke - in fact, it's all over before it's begun. And if the man has an ounce of dignity, he would do everything to sink into the earth. Shame.
But it's okay here, because nothing prevents all to repeat after a while and meet not in two, but, say, in seven minutes. By the way, many men believe that the ideal sex may not last less than two hours. However, the smell of burnt rubber is not a sign of the presence in the bed of a true lover.
"I'm not as loved as you moaned"
. One grandfather came to the doctor to complain about the inability to lead a normal sexual life. In a surprised doctor asks: "what do you want in your 72 year?! " grandfather jealous sighed, "But Ivan Semenovich from the second entrance tells us that we can even twice per night... " Doctor: "so you say! "
This, of course, a joke. And here is the real story. In the company where my friend, there are a few bosses. One of them is beautiful, athletic, with a touch of gray at the temples, the champion of all paintball competitions, a great dancer and noble drinking companion, the bachelor dream ladies. There are legends about it: supermachine, supersonic, super-super-super... Some of the girls he brought home "on the way" or corporate parties, others were invited for coffee or lunch. The next day, lucky embarrassed glowed under the curious glances, but kept silent as guerrillas.
As it turned out, the girl was silent only because to tell them there was nothing. The man is a dream brought them to the house, gallantly kissed the knob, and this was his goodbyes, remaining inaccessible as Everest. And still coveted. However, in the missions he did not deny themselves anything - without attention had not one flight attendant, no maid or waitress.
Save the reputation of a legend among women and alpha male among men helped him a simple trick: he never used the advances ladies from their circle, but never missed one woman from a lower social stratum. The calculation was simple: even if he's in bed full zero, falling asleep on the fifth frictions directly on the lady, no one will ever know.
Fear of commitment. Frightening to think how many men's hearts after a stormy night freezes in ice anguish simple question: "Honey, how much you tomorrow call me? " Even the most innocent of the claims of women for the next courtesies can exert them to the utmost.
It is difficult or even impossible it is to recognize that this cute guy who lies nearby and smiles happily, not going to invite you to the theater or stroll through the city. At best he is ready to thank you for a wonderful night, and then straighten the sails, going further voyage - of course, single.
He doesn't want any responsibility and will avoid any liability, but he will never refuse to listen to the admiring cries of women and to remain a dream.
And so on...
Recently, researchers conducted a survey among thousands of men aged from 18 to 50 years. They were asked only one question: what are they afraid of sex?
Most men are afraid of unplanned pregnancy. In second place - fear of virgins. Men - who would have thought? - experience not only due to the fact that they cause the girl pain, but also due to the fact that you can lose feelings at the sight of blood. Fear of sexual experimentation, the fear that a woman will simulate orgasm, fear of being rejected - list male fears can continue for a long time.
However, the vast majority of men are very afraid of one comparisons. With anything and with anyone. If the man more than twenty years, if he has not only the spinal cord, and brain, if he does not live in the tundra adjacent to the herders or in the near Antarctica with penguins - he is afraid not to fit. Does not meet the expectations of your partner, not to meet the standards imposed by advertising, magazines and TV and so on to infinity.
We probably ought to think about it and help our loved ones with these fears to cope - if, of course, we don't want to be next to a neurotics.
Source:
Sex-log
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