My girlfriend really liked the guy. According to her, it was different from those with whom she interacted before. They always had a lot of things to talk about. As soon as they got near, I immediately started on something to laugh, her spirits were lifted was somehow warm and easy... And when it wasn't, she was unbearably boring. A friend saw that too, like him, he looks for her society, almost all the time sneaking glances at her.But there was one big "but" he did not do the first step, as if he was afraid to go beyond friendship... And a friend, and she is not very brave, didn't know how to push it.
The plan of seduction
Almost a year they walked in the love condition, and none of them made attempts to change something. I was involved in this, because who else if not me, had to hear about the sufferings of a friend. Then we began to develop a plan of convergence.
The first thing we have emphasized, - it
non-verbal signals. We all know the expression "the eyes are the mirror of the soul". And really, watching as looks interlocutor is open or looks away, intently or unobtrusive, we can understand, honest or he is lying, trying to suppress us or is friendly. Only one look can say a lot. I began to set up friend, what if she's right to Express their feelings in his eyes, it will all understand. Maybe from the point of view of common sense, he will be in doubt, not dreaming if he: of course, it is imperfect, and she is so attractive (and indeed it is), but his subconscious will analyze this look and make the correct conclusions. The main thing is to learn to communicate eyes.
I remembered one of the Directors in his interview, he told how he teaches actors to play the love. He said that love is always the next step. That is, if the actors look each other in eyes, in their opinion should be the next step. What happens after look into the eyes of two loving each other people? Properly, a kiss. Or a kiss that turns into sex. So need to look like you're not just standing next to each other, and have sex. If you think that you can't see, or if you cannot, do your rehearsal now in front of the mirror.
Look - kiss - sex
My friend started to rehearse. Of course, it was very funny, but we took himself in hand, and she looked at me as if engaged in sex with me. And even I, her friend, felt the attraction. Proseperous several times, she went to practice.
Enough had two meetings with her favorite, which she occasionally threw him a sensual look, and the third meeting he had given her flowers. True, and a good time was March 8. But still "just another feminine" hardly anyone will give a chic composition of exotic flowers, arranged in the shape of a heart. Friend, too, kept his head and kissed him on the cheek - it was their first physical contact for a year!
In principle, the first step on his part could be considered done, but knowing shyness them both, I continued to accompany a friend on the way to her happiness.
We decided not to wait, that he is of humble friend will suddenly become a passionate lover, and immediately move on.
The second thing was my friend, a few touches. In the next meeting we plan friend had to act out a little scene. And she coped with its task.
During a conversation with the man of her dreams she suddenly stopped, looked at his face and gently said: "the Lash fell, make the wish". However, she paid special attention to voice and lips - she said it is quieter and softer than usual, and slightly licked her lips. You have used the entire set temptress.
The young man gladly made a wish, however, lash, she began to remove his cheeks, as if blown off by the wind. We have added another stroke: a friend said that he knows that he made. The young man began to wonder what, but she said, what will you say then. Thus, they had a small intimate mystery, the girl gave to understand that he sees what he wants.
Holding hands
All this was before a movie session and acted so that he was finally in the hall of the cinema itself took her by the hand. So she no longer needed to look for a reason to once again to touch him. And it was already a victory - they switched to the gentle stroking of her hands.
It is easy to guess that the same night they held their first kiss.
It took only properly expressed opinion, gentle tone in his voice, light touch, my beloved friend himself has reached the desired condition when he was not so afraid to make a decisive action. And if that was not enough, we have had another little plan is to start to send him from time to time cards by e-mail with a little more than friendly content. The main thing - that it was not sending all my friends, and the message to him personally, as the person scans email alone, and thus is configured on personal communication. While such a message would not look defiant, but because my very brave friend would go for it.
So, it is natural and unobtrusive, it was possible to make the long-awaited transition from a strange friendship to true love.
This couple have been together for over a year. And my friend still laugh sometimes, remembering our rehearsals.
Source:
Sex-log
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