Why you should not take someone else's husband

There are many reasons why someone else's family better left alone.



The first reason


People tend to feel morally responsible for their actions. Someone believes in the statement "on someone else's misfortune happiness can not be built" and then subconsciously waiting for retribution. Someone just can't agree with his conscience - it is strictly against causing pain to other people, she can not forgive you tears of abandoned children.




It initially seems that love conquered men - the most important thing in life. When the passion subside, appears unsightly underside of the relationship, and to live with it is actually very difficult. Happiness with someone else's husband expects is that a person with a very plastic conscience and shaky principles. In addition, years later, the man you accuse that his children grow up without a father.





The second reason


There is another reason that makes once departed from the family of the husband to rush at all serious. The adrenaline. Which, as you know, get used to it once and for all. "Forever" means that you will not be able to change the situation and to bind to a man in whatever way.




Too sweet was the intrigue of secret meetings, conspiracy, encrypted names in the phone memory, criminal taste of betrayal... All this makes the lives of some men are extremely bright and rich, it's a flurry of emotions and conduct parallel secret life. Exciting, isn't it? Quite, if you look on from the sidelines, and are not deceived by his wife.





The third reason


Man it is easy to withdraw from the family. Only he goes or not because you are the dream of all his life. Because his wife has serious claims. Very often the man just runs away from them. Home - sick child, nervous wife, endless quarrels over trifles, about fifty relatives and life, life, life... you Have peace and quiet, you before him exclusively for makeup and in their best dresses, and more fun with you, just like in the days of carefree youth.




With you it up until the festival lasts. After a few months this man will disappear in search of the next holiday. If you manage to drag him away from the family, you will make the biggest mistakes in life - why do you instance, who used to run away from problems, shifting the responsibility for the family on the shoulders of the wife? Or do you want to see how leaving you baby and life, he will again go in search of a holiday?





Reason four


The man who left the family, left not one. He was carrying a very heavy experience negative family relationships. Now you are waiting for a comparison with the former and lots of things favorite now is not going to agree. For example, it is possible that he does not want to have any more children. Will not want to go to the registry office and will offer is that the cohabitation. This unhealthy relationship, which for normal women will be the usual humiliation.





And if the love?


Well, the only true solution is to abandon the idea to take someone else's husband. Stand back, take care of your own life. If you really need him, then after some time he left. And this time it will be enough to understand their values, to say goodbye to the past and to prepare for the creation of a new family. And in a situation like this is, perhaps, the best way to build a happy relationship.

Source:

Encyclopedia of women's life

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