Mr. Kaprisky

So we called the child that has nagged adults unreasonable demands, actions and deeds, is committed to insist that resists the advice of moms and dads and generally behaves from the point of view of the adult is absurd and intolerable.


What to do with such kaprizami - often do not know not only moms and dads, but also great wisdom of the grandmother, a good grandfather, experienced teachers and school psychologists.




And something to do - is necessary.




By the way, baby psychologists have identified three types of naughty children:





Kaprisky growing


This happens every child. Every time the baby makes a dramatic leap in its development (they grow in spurts), parents habitually keep him still, infant, communication style - and people are already large.




He needs more respect, more independence - and with it still Lisp and RUB the nose. He wants to be considered an adult - and it does not allow one on the street. So he is naughty.




To cope with this Mr - simple. Just to change their behaviour. You really need to give him more freedom and independence - especially because he's ready.





Kaprisky malovany


This case is more difficult. Because to do first something, not the child, and with the surrounding older.




Indulge all the whims of the little Prince, the lack of reasonable requirements, endless waiting and constant pampering corrupt child as nothing can corrupt.




Everyone, especially little need for a framework in which he will live, we need a clear "no" and understood "you".




In the absence of these he gets fussy to look for, when all these frames materialize. And the farther parents spoil this Mr, the more it will act up.




So immature mothers, fathers and grandmothers psychologists are encouraged to write down on paper all of "you" and "don'ts" that should exist in their family (and those, and others should be equal), again to record is already on the clean copy - and hang in a prominent place. And now flawlessly, without digressions and "snot", to abide by them.





Kaprisky unnecessary


Children, on which nobody really pays attention, too capricious - just did that in the end they were noticed.




Than more you ignore them, the more children iterat.




So the only way is to remember, finally, that this little mister is your favorite baby who needs your love.




And finally - a good way to calm the child in hysterics.




You need to sit down in front of him squatting, hard to take by the shoulders and silently and without blinking, looking at him straight in the face. Two minutes - and before you calm the child.




And calm the child is simply happiness.

Source:

Belarusian women's portal

women's web magazine