Explain the hormonal outbreaks, some cycles. If we are talking exclusively about the biological entity. No allusion to the fact that men still have a brain and a soul. And because they are! And not so women with different men. There we have a secret desire to assert themselves, to change life, to try it again. But few women decide on it.
Here's a typical story: Alla Nikolaevna after fifteen years of marriage husband left her. Went to another, leaving the former spouse, as usual, son.
Care was not sudden. In fact, last year's Victor lived on two families, worked, rested with the young childless residency. Slept exclusively at home. But once the night came. Alla in the morning, as usual, went to work. The day passed in a fog, and in the evening one of the senior employees, which is all for the kindness was called aunt Valya, invited her to visit. To talk.
Experience
On a tiny kitchen in maleemale Alla sobbed on his shoulder aunt Valya: Victor scoundrel, bastard and bastard. He painmyalgia not dropped. And how to live? Her salary is two hundred dollars, the whole life of this money is only enough "tights". The family kept it. And now this young bitch takes all. But it would still be nothing: how to live without him? As it is now to come home, where it will never be? What I not so do?
Aunt Valya stroking know for sure on the head, dripping Valerian, and then said firmly: all panela and will. Need something to do!
"What? What can you do?
- Invent! You, girl, rights that I didn't want her to let go. Once I was allowed to leave her husband. Now I'm fifty-five, the daughter grew up, and I'm alone. And you know what I regret? What then rolled scandals him and his mistress that she filed for divorce. Itself cut off his way back. And you don't atreza, sweetheart. And you think that so many good things, and without it may not happen already.
So you in ten years will be just as bad as me. And you will regret that you did not do all that he could. Because my ex for a year, as the cemetery. He failed all over again to build. Ruptured. And think if I want the woman to stay, it will be difficult. How she younger? Twelve years?
Strategy Alla
About this strategy know now all her friends. Remember the steps. Just in case.
To begin Alla called Victor and calmly (terrible effort was worth, but was able) offered to go to discuss some of the nuances. Go through the week, on weekends. Because while she is busy.
Victor received the first shock: my wife has no scandals, no reproaches and generally calm like a boa constrictor.
Week and a huge amount of money from the "pods" Alla spent on themselves. No, it did not change anything drastically, as advised visionaries-psychologists. It took a week for your account, like a massage, beauty salon, took five years of its irritating the skin on the face, brought order to the hair, nails. Bought a couple of new and erotic bathrobes. Went with friends to a restaurant is just one of them had a birthday. Found that it is still trying to care for a stranger to drunken men.
In General, we prepared both mentally and physically.
In the evening he came to dinner. "Accidentally" on the table was his favorite stuffed cabbage and herring under a fur coat. Instructed the son threw the folder on the neck, but without reproach. Reported that folder he lacked that tomorrow their football team play a team from another school and all folders will come to support. And, they say, would love to have been there. They'll lose.
Had supper, moved into the hall. The son went to do homework. And Alla start:
"We're quite lived to understand that not all was well. You have decided to go your business. But let's still wait on divorce. Just because I'm not mentally ready. I still love you and can't imagine how I will live. And our son's hard to explain what happened. He is not that little, you will understand with time. That's what we need - time.
Victor didn't expect that no one will attack with accusations. He was ready to defend himself. To protect themselves did not have. Went deep in thought. Previously left on the TV money. And promised the son that comes to football.
And Alla Monday went to aunt Valya. To discuss, why is he still gone?
Version of aunt Valya
Aunt Valya laid out the cards. She wondered well, knew all of this. And have been told will come back. And then they started digging in the past. Gone the romance of Alla's family. Left common interests. Evenings were not discussed work the case. In the evening everyone was busy with something. In theaters do not go to the cinema. Even in the Park, which was within a hundred yards from the house, not out of ducks to feed. Has closed. Got lost. Even at the cottage met only at the table.
"Yes fine, " said Alla, -.
But not all go. Well, you know what he liked, what isn't?
- Loved stuffed cabbage, vodka and bath with friends, fishing, liked to change cars. And didn't like it when I'm on this occasion he spoke. Yes I'm ready now, at least for a week to go on this fishing trip! Loved it when the sea we go. Maybe ask him with us to the sea to go? I leave in a month. Will say we take two separate rooms, he is with my son, I am one.
They agreed on that two single women.
Many days of waiting: will be solved or not? Son Kapal: dad, well, I want to be with you. At least even once! And mom let it be. You will be friends?
Twelve-year-old boy was a hundred times smarter than all women. He fought folder. And the folder surrendered.
Battleship
Victor agreed to a two-week trip. Provided, however, that his new girlfriend will be said food business. Friend had already called Alla, saying, sorry, I understand that the family, but love can't... Alla that somehow didn't care. Only irritated. But she remembered a story my aunt Valya about scandals and held: not helpful too and not say anything bad to Victor about his mistress. Pretended that the opponent simply does not exist. The husband went not to her - he just went from Alla and temporarily living with this other woman.
But two weeks of relaxation, sun, excursions and evening bathing did its job. Victor understood something. Something male. You may have noticed that Alla anything yet. She had a healthy sense of humor. That she is caring. What she is to him is very good.
And while the couple was luxuriating in the sun, aunt Valya did what seemed impossible. Managed to get acquainted with the mistress of Victor and Tanya. Tanya worked in the Bank. Accidentally aunt Valya overheard that young woman is going to go to the dentist. Aunt Valya asked: here, you want the seal to be put, may be you know a dentist? Tanya suggested. Word for word, and aunt Valya signed up to the same doctor, after Thani. Met in the queue. Under the sound of a drill aunt Valya said, behold, the crappy weather here, and my friend is now on sea tans-bathing. Lucky you know for sure, the holidays got in the summer. Lucky! So the husband came back. Word for word, and Tatiana became clear: he lied to her the Victor.
Victor returned from a trip tanned and almost in love with his wife. But with the station went to Tatiana. And met one of his Oh so unkind. Handed the bag and said, fuck you!
Victor had never seen such an angry fury. Took things. And went to his wife. She took such joy that not every actress will portray. Threw herself on his neck, kissed him, and then all evening chirped, as he likes and as well, as he returned.
Happy end?
Since the return of the prodigal wife passed a few years. Like all good in the family. Husband went gold, Allochka simply platinum. Fishing? Please. To ask about the job, to sympathize, to advise? Please. Herself prettier. Hairstyle, maciazek, beautiful linen bought, even Slippers acquired on the heels.
But increasingly evenings complains aunt Valya:
So afraid that someday it will happen!
Author:
Swift A.
Source:
Express news
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