9 the commandments of parenting

Of course, all families are different, and hence the ways of raising children in these family too different. But there is a 9 "commandments", without which, no one "pedagogy" will not work.


1. Although the Apple from the tree and falls not far, but still not in the same place, from which it follows that as if you would not like your child is not you, he has his own life and your education should help him not become you, and themselves.




2. Be altruistic towards the child. You gave him life - it's true, but thank you it may only giving too someone's life. So do not demand something in return.




3. Remember, what you sow so shall you reap, because you should not vent their anger on the child's resentment.




4. Remember the commensurability of all in the world. You may seem difficult situation, which got a child, trifling. But remember that trials are given to us in accordance with our forces, so treat with understanding to all shares with you baby.




5. Don't humiliate in the process of education. He is unable to answer you, but that is no reason to put yourself "above".




6. Do not worry and do not suffer if you did not let the child have to suffer when you could do something, but didn't.




7. Remember - done enough for the child, if not already done everything. This is the most important law of education!




8. Do, as want, that led people towards you. And remember that if you're not behave properly with someone else's child will behave around with yours.




9. Love your child, love, when cranky when doing something wrong when it strikes your favorite set. The child is a holiday, this is an invaluable benefit, which is the dream of many, but not all.

Source:

Women's Magazine

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