Bad education - mistakes parents

At all times there were unacceptable and wrong system of education, which, unfortunately, is still guided many parents.


Today we will show you the most common mistakes in parenting, popular and modern society. So, how not to raise a child?





1. You cannot make a child idol.


Excessive adoration and all wishes will become spoiled baby, make it into a self-confident, Moody and rude, selfish tyrant, incapable of normal human communication, not independent and accustomed only to consume, without giving anything in return. From such education will suffer not only the surrounding of the child, but he himself, in the first place, because out of the house he would feel bad.





2. Not too to take care of the child.


Such a child grows up not able to make independent decisions and solutions, infirm, and ye that fear of liability, accustomed to obey, not to think for yourself. Permanent parental care and dictatorship, the imposition of parental opinion threatens even the loss of individuality of the child. Such children often become insecure, cowardly and unable to communicate faceless and grey" losers.





3. You can't give a child too much freedom, not paying attention to it.


The other extreme, which sometimes hit the "progressive" parents, scarcely custody of a child, to give him too much freedom, almost not paying attention to him. Under this system, parents don't control the kid, allowing him to learn from his mistakes. A big disadvantage of this system of education - the lack of attention and love from parents, the child may feel unnecessary, unwanted, unloved, and it will badly affect his self-esteem and character.





4. You cannot raise a child in fear.


Parents raising a child in eternal fear, constant reproaches, insults and punishments, are making a huge mistake. Such a dictatorship, devoid of love and understanding, will only harden the baby will make it stale and unresponsive, scored or constantly ready to revolt, too harsh to others.





5. You cannot mix different educational systems in the same family.


Every family should be unified vospitanie: the combination of different, sometimes opposite methods will knock the child confused, can cause early neurosis and to teach the baby to manipulate adults.





6. Do not abruptly change the educational system.


Abrupt change in the education system (as a result of quarrels, changes in relation to the child, the divorce of their parents, appeared in the family of another child, and so on) is also detrimental to the psyche of the child, who becomes Moody, nervous and restless.

Source:

Lady.ru

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