If sexual relations leave much to be desired...

If partner for any reason refuses sex, women in most cases start looking for a reason in itself. They begin to think that they had fallen out of love, they are no longer interesting, not attractive both in communication and in bed. Actually, the reasons are completely different.


Women tend to think that their partner has other relationships or their partner wants to put a point in their relationship, if they refuse to have sex... the Unwillingness to make love, the loss of erection is quite possibly caused by the internal state of your partner, and no loss of interest to you.




Loss of erection with your partner can be caused by stress at work, serious problems, fatigue, pressure. In other words, this is due to too demanding leadership, high stress, lack of rest.





Fatigue and overwork


If your partner recently worked a lot, and I often stayed late, it is logical that General fatigue and tension was due to the loss of temporary interest in sex. Temporary loss of erection can be caused by the consumption of oily and heavy food, and alcohol abuse.




In this situation, it is recommended not to lash out with accusations on your partner and give him the opportunity to rest, recover, because excessive pressure on your part would only worsen the situation and also strain relations.





Discuss your feelings


It is very important in this situation to explain to your partner what you feel, and voice aloud the reasons for such changes in relationships can occur. Ask the right question about what is happening with your partner, ask how you can help him.




It is better to start such a conversation with the phrase "it may sound silly, but.." and then ask why it doesn't work in terms of sexual relations in this period. Likely to be so, then your partner in the shower will be more concerned about the existing temporary problems, so place it to the conversation on this topic. In any case it will be better than both pretend that nothing unusual had happened.




Financial problems and not only




If your family often there are disputes, there are problems with children, financial problems, it can also be another reason for the absence in a given period of normal sexual life and presence of suppressed emotional state both of you.





Your self-esteem


If you have doubts crept into my mind that, then perhaps your partner no longer finds you attractive, try to increase your self-esteem. To do this, take care of yourself, watch your diet, exercise regularly, get plenty of rest. Remember that if you are happy with yourself, and your personal life will be OK.

Source:

Female charms

women's web magazine