Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law: let's live amicably

Relationship with mother-in-law is the number one issue for married girls. Even the best relationships can be ruined because of a misunderstanding of two loving women.



Take the first step towards


Try to put yourself in her place. But not only with the position that your son now loves another woman, but fully analyze their attitude to the mother-in-law.





Don't be predubezhdeniy


To the married life, girl the company prepares in advance, and describing the mother-in-law in not the most positive colors. Maybe your relationship is not thrown off because of what you have, not having to know people already treat it with caution. Never follow stereotypes, look at relationships differently.





Be lenient


There is nothing surprising in the fact that the mother-in-law is trying to teach you "sense". She's experienced, knows how to build relationships, raise children, and some soup loves her son. Listen to her advice, maybe you will learn something new for themselves. In any case, thank her for advice and tell them that you will think about it.





Forbid


You should not resist the fellowship of the son with the mother. The mother is sacred, and therefore it cannot be a topic for discussion and complain. And if the mother asks son to help her around the house, ask her and her help.




Unexpected guests




There are cases when the mother-in-law comes to visit without invitation - treat this situation positively, and not washed dishes with humor. Invite her for a Cup of coffee and talk about their women.

Source:

Women's Magazine

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