What are we afraid of in bed

The list of sexual fears is endless. But let's talk more about the basic things that women are afraid in bed.


Not to meet the man




One of the most common fears is not being able to deliver a man pleasure. These sexual fears even useful. He pushes into new experiences, develops female sexuality. Driven by this fear, the woman develops new techniques in bed. Most importantly, be able to love herself and sex. But a man such fear show is optional. You should not ask whether it liked, otherwise he will be bored to constantly convince her that all was well.





Partner just wants to have sex


Some women believe that their partner just wants to have sex. Movable sexual fear the woman might come up with long periods of sexual abstinence, to suspect a man of treason, to refuse new experiments in bed. It will not be able to withstand no man. Is good to think and work on them. After all, if this man until the next, so it attracts something else besides sex. And if he just wants to have sex, is it really difficult to find a partner, which does not need to care and maintain an ongoing relationship?





Fear of pregnancy


Many young girls are afraid of pregnancy. This is a useful fear. It forces young people to resort to protected sex. Useful is also the fear of sexually transmitted diseases. But if these fears cross the line of reasonable, and during sex, the thoughts are not about volume, but about hospital wards and nursing homes, you should seek help from a psychologist.





Fear experiments


Some girls are afraid of oral sex or other new experiments in bed. Every time they experience the fear: what if today a man will be asked about something like this. This means only one thing: the girl still didn't fully trust your partner and not ready to unfold before him. I've got to think on this and try to find out the cause of fear. Lies if he only inexperience or actually some things in sex can bring physical or emotional discomfort. In the first case, you need to tell the man about his fear but the willingness to try. If there is a second case, you should not agree to this. Nobody is obliged to do what he doesn't like.





Fear of their fantasies


Sometimes women are afraid to talk about their sexual fantasies. They worry that the man would take her into perverted person. Should not be ashamed of their fantasies. About them we need to talk. But to do better delicate and intriguing. And again, you need to understand the causes of fear. Perhaps it lies in the fact that a woman is not ready for reality to realize their sexual fantasies.





Fear is not to have an orgasm


Sometimes women are afraid not to have an orgasm. If they fail to experience this feeling, they begin to consider themselves part number frigid persons. It is better not to jump to conclusions and try to understand the reasons. Perhaps blame fatigue or excessive haste men in bed. It is worth to explore her body and to use different ways of satisfaction. Before sex should always have a positive attitude.




Fear of germs




There are women who are afraid that everything will be funny and silly. Some consider themselves to be neat, and they are confused by the moist skin, the sweat, the smells, the sounds. So I think during sex is not about pleasure, but about how soon after would be to run into the shower. In this case, you need to understand that nothing dangerous on skin and language of other people there, and a shower can be taken together. You can also always carry gum and wet wipes, and partner unobtrusive to give the deodorant.

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