The films that we are ready to review again and again... what is their appeal? They come to us in the time of need and help to make the only right step. The heroine of one of the famous novel, finding themselves in a difficult life situation, ran away from all troubles... in the movies. To life, it was returned to the film "a Taste of honey". When all of the melodramatic plot, the situation is not the book. This could happen in real life. The movie really helps to understand yourself, to understand partner just glad that, despite the conflict of life, we are still together! Cynotilapia - is not a new word in family psychology?
To Understand It
Every woman has its own Pantheon of secretly or openly adored the pictures, which she is willing to watch any free time. This modern fairy tale, which, especially if you seize their chocolate ice cream, magically you reconcile with reality. See how Richard Gere climbs the fire escape to Julia Roberts or Meg Ryan in a letter to arrange for a meeting with Tom Hanks on the roof of the Empire state building, and improves mood: happiness is, it can not be. Even if it is far in Hollywood. And men for a more subtle understanding of female nature does not prevent at least once to endure "Beauty", "love actually", "the English patient" or "Sleepless in Seattle". From there you can get what you really want women, or at least to find ideas romantic approach to relationships. To arrange, for example, your girlfriend shopping trip to spend money on outfits not necessarily, alone trying delight. Or write a romantic message on paper tender words are somehow easier than verbally.
To Understand It
Quiet, no fights and iron films for better penetration into the soul of men is in fact not so much. To mind first and foremost come from "American Beauty" and "revolutionary Road" taken by one Director, Sam Mendes. "American beauty" with Kevin spacey in his cruel, but adequate study of the so-called "midlife crisis". What is most afraid of seemingly healthy people? It turns out that not losing money, wife or work. He is afraid to lose ourselves. And the hero spacey leaves poster of a house with a lawn and spouses of realtors.
In the Way of change" Leonardo DiCaprio Kate Winslet decide to quit as exemplary existence in the American suburbs for a Bohemian life in Paris. It is curious to observe how the illusions are shattered grown-up stars of "Titanic". As the father of the family, even as a kind of creative, sometimes unable to escape from the pressures of the function is to be responsible for the loved ones. To stay after all it is much more difficult than to leave.
To understand each other
It may happen that the person understood not his "half", and completely strangers it happens in the films "lost in translation" and "Love mood". In the last man and woman know that their spouse has a novel twist. Revenge is wrong the same? Would be a joke. So deceived will walk, talk, casually touch each other and create a unique atmosphere separated, but Platonic love.
In "lost in translation" thing is not about the object unspoken desires, and about finding soul mates. Japanese hotel becomes the characters of Scarlett Johansson and bill Murray where match their melancholic feelings from life. And the difference in the age of attainment of understanding, not a hindrance to the soul, as you know, immortal and birthdays are not notes.
Split and splice
Thrilling relations in their development. Two meet, then I leave, but then realize that there is a mutual attraction, and come together again. And so, perhaps, in a circle. A classic example of a film by Claude Lelouch's "a man and a woman". The load experienced love, and complete clearly - both hero widowed... But memories interfere to give a new feeling. And now more than forty years the audience wondering: what does this final scene at the train station last farewell or a new appointment?
The characters are two popular English novels, which, although they belong to different epochs, but men there wear the same surname Darcy. In "Pride and prejudice", the costume film with keira Knightley, the dowry Lizzie Bennet and heir to a wealthy estate of Mr. Darcy pulls to each other. But she cannot surrender to his feelings before make sure that it shares its notions of honesty, generosity and philanthropy.
In "the Diary of Bridget Jones" to Mr. Darcy have to endure escapades Renee Zellweger as she will know who her male treasure, and who is unworthy type. Well, keeping the distance or separation in time can be useful, and well, if it ends with a happy ending, like in the movies.
To meet
To gain worldly wisdom can sometimes where you least expect it. For example, in an unpretentious Comedy producer Judd, Apatow "a Little pregnant". In the story, a beautiful blonde, a successful television producer, after drinking in the bar is in bed with pretty nice, but primitive lumpish, whose primary activity is to SIP a beer in front of the telly. The gap between those two is nothing but the result of a chance of pregnancy. But what do these so wrong for each other young people? They start to do something from them and no one ogical, to seek common ground. Try to find common themes. The movement towards the other, unlike you, though made internally, worthy of respect.
The architect of his own personal (and at the same time someone else) happiness becomes the heroine of the famous French lyrical Comedy "Amelie", a girl of remarkable imagination. Of course, to connect with the chosen one could be difficulties was smaller. But the young man, friends, colleagues and neighbors in the Parisian quarter will not give Amelie finally get lost in their undertakings. On a date the guy not necessarily invite using leaflets and costume Zorro and to hide from him, forcing him to go on the arrows. One never knows if will not roll down.
To expand the boundaries
The concept of family is sometimes very loose, which in modern cinema, too, the evidence is there. It's not about some "love Threesome" and that the inner circle may sometimes involve several individuals with whom you live a fun and comfortable. It's more than friends, and internal leverage is sometimes not less than spouse and children.
In the English movie with Hugh Grant in "About a boy" is a beautiful phrase about isolation and being-together: "People are on the island. But some of them are part of the archipelago". Archipelago-the family in that movie is made around the hero Hugh Grant and the boys, with whom he met in the Park. In the circle are the girl of Grant, his friend, hippie, eccentric mother of the boy and, finally, his high school girlfriend - it seems no one was forgotten.
Similarly relationships in the film adaptation of novel Anna gavalda "Just together" with Audrey Tautou in the title role. Random strangers to each other people are the inhabitants of an apartment and Willy-nilly establish relationships with each other. It is human nature to look for support in those next. And actually it correctly
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Katia Chen
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