The word "chef" there is always something magical. Power, status, and confidence, coupled with an expensive suit from unconventional oriented couturier - Molotov cocktail that can turn the head of any lady. Yes, career ambitions stimulate the interest of the strong of this office. The chances of the relationship with the head slightly, but nevertheless they are there. How to make them serious? We will try to understand.The usual story
Frankly speaking, interested in establishing relations with boss per square meter average office much more than the bosses themselves. Besides, half the bosses, usually in the rear have wives or at least permanent friends. Therefore, before attempting to establish a relationship with the boss, think whether you really need it. Are you willing to risk your career, simply place of work for the sake of history, that in nine cases out of ten ends not at the wedding.
My friend Kate, the Manager of a travel company, a novel twist with the chef during foreign travel. "So it would be natural to finish the evening in the same room that I just could not sit idly by! shared it later. And in that moment decided not to waste time and sent arms to the right address, that is, in the fly head. Of course, home Kate flew in a pleasant feeling of future changes. But they never happened. Rather, occurred, but not at all what expected our heroine. The girl was sold and the personal and professional life. Other men Katya was no longer interested to work really she couldn day and night thinking about how to develop a story that is so well began. Yes and colleagues began to squint too much the girl blushed at the sight of chef. And that... introduced her to one of the corporate events with his bride! This turn of events he commented: "I like You, but understand, the head can not spoil the image of the company Affairs with subordinates". Work for Katya finally turned into hell. Colleagues discussed the impending wedding of the boss, and she strained smiled in his presence, trying to overcome his inner pain and dreaming of escape to the world's end. Well, or at least in another office. And escaped in the end. And what could I do?
My other friend, the Secretary Ola, a bit luckier. With the Executive Director of the publishing house, in which we worked, she came closer stronger. From stage four easy flirt in different poses they reached the stage of buying the perfume in the duty free. Then followed the branded handbags and travel together in "urgent mission". Ended, however, all trivial. The chef still dry gave instructions at work, and another vigorously carried out before the night any concessions in the work not provided. In addition, it could, for example, to ask her to book him a ticket for a vacation, relaxed adding: "Choose a room with sea view, my wife loves the sound of waves". So pretty soon she realized that for the boss she is not an employee, and the robot. With more convenient (and something to hide, pleasant) option of satisfying sexual needs. To be bedding accessory heated little flattered. And after the holidays Olga invited the chief to find a new Secretary...
These stories happen in the world by the thousands. The reason is the same: social status is a big obstacle to the relationship. Agree, life is not a fairy tale, and when Prince charming falls in love with poor svinopasa and makes her a Princess, can be counted on the fingers of one foot. Nevertheless, the marketer Nade did it. In the long clamp to the little graduated from the correspondence Department of the tiny University from the Russian heartland got a successful businessman Alexander. Let's razorman clenched envy jaw and find out how it happened.
Love all the statuses obedient
"He was telling me about the structure of the company, and I couldn't look away from his hands, - shares his story of Nadia. From head smelled pleasant perfume, graying hair spoke of a solid life experience. To the moment when he began to transfer my duties, I mentally managed not only to undress..." fortunately, Alexander was not married. But the office said that he was recently divorced and now from the word "marriage" it was naturally freak out. And Nadia... She seems everyone understood and that at stake, her career, and that such relations are no good, as a rule, does not end there. That's just to avoid the thought that this man she was looking for all my life that this is "her" man, did not succeed. Every working day she fell in love more and more. In the end, she decided that for her happiness must be addressed. And she started to "fight".
"Be a professional! "he said to himself Nadia. Nothing irritates respectable men more than charming office Goosey, clapping extended eyelashes and trying to disrupt important deal for the company. Our heroine, having overcome compulsive sexual arousal in the society of head, with all diligence banged at work. The necessary papers were always ready on time and the business needs of boss she tried to guess and to implement long before he was announced. Success was not long in coming. Alexander began to take prospective employee on important negotiations with partners, after which, as usual, they went on a business lunch. This was the first step towards rapprochement.
Then she decided to always look not even five and ten points. Therefore, as soon as she passed the probationary period and reached a stable level of earnings, were attacked by the best Moscow stores. There she bought some stylish business suits and elegant blouses for the office. It is realized that the sexual closet ideal for quick sex on the desktop, but nothing more. While form-fitting suits and skirts-pencils underline the shape of their owner, not forcing the head to blush and look away. Alexander, of course, appreciated a well-groomed appearance Nadi. And one day... asked to help choose a coat for my sister. She had just turned thirty and the gift had to be solid.
It is time to establish informal relations, and Nadia decided that you want to show a keen interest in everything that happens with the boss, and to delve in any case. They with Alexander sat down side by side and meticulously discussed several directories fashion. Nadia asked to bring photo sisters, to better understand how the future looks holder coats. It turned out that they are about the same size, so the following week, after work it in society Alexander went to salons and tried on favourite model. Time and effort the girl donated, so that the coat was selected incredible beauty. And then there's the boss drew attention to the fact that Nadia is in a hurry in the evening, and gently inquired if she has a boyfriend and this guy looks at what his girlfriend for the evening spent in the company of another man. The question was very useful, because the answer Nadia had prepared long ago and everyone was waiting for the chance to throw Alexandru information. With a guy she de recently broke up because he was terribly childish, nothing could decide even what movie to choose. Tired of it from the fact that there is not a real man, and the eternal teenager... the Calculation is simple: "the Chief should know that you are in demand! But you always have to be for him... a little Halostachys". So, the coat was selected.
"Of informal relations with boss in the office no one should know about the gossip we don't need! decided Nadya did not become anyone, even her friends, telling how much went with the chef expensive stores and had dinner then in the same expensive restaurants. Who would have believed her that it was "for cause." God knows that nabatame! Alexander such a delicacy appreciated and soon invited Nadya dinner. Not for business, but for the soul.
"Do not press on him," said Nadia yourself when meeting with head began to increase. Alexander was convinced that his new girlfriend will not talk with colleagues about their relationship, and boldly went to the movies with her and theatres, gave flowers. Not a few months, as evening visits gradually developed into a joint night. But in the office the girl continued to remain below the grass and quieter water, with the boss was "you", responsibly performed duties and never tried to use patronage to climb the corporate ladder. So Alexander gradually became convinced that deals with serious and wise woman that has self-respect and ambition.
A year later they were married. She became friends with his children, who were hardly older than her, gradually joined his family and continued to build a career. As we read her story as an example of what the relationship with your boss have a chance to be successful. But only when getting married is not for status, but for the man she loved.
Sex with the boss as a way to make a career
Author:
Dorogov E.
Source:
Леди@mail.ru
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