Less is more ...Well no, not in your life! And it is unknown when it will be. Nothing can be done - no matter how much you try, you can't bring the date of your meeting. The meeting, which will be crucial for you. The meeting, which inevitably will lead the two of you for a life together. The meeting, through which you will understand that He is the man of your dreams. Not someone else, namely your, the man that you need, you're ready to spend days and especially nights.
Impersonal-personal life
...And while you're interrupted, "what God sends": first love (foolishly you still left him my phone after a day of reunion), a married lover who will never get divorced, unmarried friend of your sister, who, to put it mildly, is not to your taste. There is a boy from Mamba, which is in no way wanted to "shoot up" what is (clearly engaged in questionable transactions). And yet here is a programmer who somehow come to you to install a couple of programs. Or a former colleague, your friend, who went to see you after the birth. This "little fish" in the pond of your life are a dime a dozen, and you and then allow yourself to be seduced. But what to do? Not to vegetate same one, in the end. And so, look, pass an evening or two...
And you have a stupid habit to carefully look at each of them with a stupid idea: "what if this is it? All of the sudden I just didn't know? Maybe we are ideally suited to each other? " Then, of course, you spit blame yourself, intelligent woman, romantic nonsense. None of these men does not deserve a place in your heart because the place is "reserved". However, it is not known who...
No kiss without love
Maybe it will sound strange, but recently, after yet another shake-up in my life, I realized that temporary abstinence better these connections. But decide to start with the Glossary.
I'm not a hypocrite, but because abstinence to allow me the gratification (W) as the ability to safely and at any time to "let off steam". Under "disorderly" same links I understand relationships in the absence of feelings to the person or any of your prospects contact you (for example, a married man who cherishes his marriage).
Love is better than sex
Recently I was irritated expression "to have sex". The thing is that I don't want sex, I want love. I want to do this not only with your body, I want his heart, I want his soul. I need a sensuality that is impossible to imitate, need care, which is visible from the side of men (if it exists), the desired duration, because love cannot do 10 minutes or half an hour... I want to disappear and I want my desire was mutual.
I don't have to explain what love is better than sex. It's like comparing the sun's light and bulb, natural product and preservative, it gives flavor, natural ground coffee and stuff out of the bag. And sooner or later (likely sooner) naked sex you get tired.
Against himself
When we agree on disposable relationships, we voluntarily compromise. Reduce greatly. We podkashivaet your faith in true love, in a relationship. We become cynical, skeptical, we cease to believe and accept what is. It is not that other, as a crime against yourself - we convince ourselves that there is no love, what is this tale that the second half we not find that we need to forget about all his childhood and teenage dreams and accept the fact that no man will never understand what is happening in our sensitive and vulnerable woman's soul. You don't know will appreciate, will not be able to reciprocate. We put up with loneliness in this world and don't even hope for real intimacy. And in vain. Without faith a person loses the desire to live and to love.
Spirit and matter
Whatever religion you profess, in whatever you believe, whatever teachings nor adhered to, they are based on giving sexual relations status sacred act. In other words, sex is always something special that happens between two people. This is a game of energy flows, and the man should not be all the same with whom to share this energy. Alas, today we rarely remember this. Too vain.
Health
Another good reason why you should not get involved in messy relationships, is a sexually transmitted infection. To ask questions about this" we are still not customary to require the help - tactless. Therefore, to engage in sexual relations it is recommended that the person in which you are sure. Even the condom (not to mention his absence, there is no guarantee that you will not catch some crap from even very big men.
Now for some reason it is considered that the bad mood of the woman or her dissatisfaction with life is always caused by sexual frustration. Or maybe it's not sexual, and emotional satisfaction? Lover not find the problem, the problem is to find the beloved. The difference is obvious and palpable. And so... maybe it is better to take a break?..Author: Marina Tomovska
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