Secret tragedies womanizers, Lovelace and cauldrons reveals psychotherapist Nikolai NORITSYN.
SISSY
Future intimately are children who are brought up in a female environment, without relying on male authority, or without a father, or father, whose family celebration wrapped in a rug and hide under the bed so it was not visible. Mother zakalyvaet and at the same time intimidating the son, making him a reprimand for every mistake and telling her that without his mother, he no good life not be able to do. As an adult, "sissy" is untenable in solving even simple everyday problems, because all and all for him did mother. She takes the initiative to even choose the image, until the end of life by buying shirts and ties. He is terribly tired, and he would be glad to escape, but he has no skills to live independently. Some 17 - 18 years attempt to free. Genasi women over 5 to 10 years, but fall from the fire into the flame. So all my life intimato afraid to be in the same subordinate relationship with the woman he was with his authoritarian mother.
THE CHASERS AMONG MANY EDUCATORS
The Foundation intimofobii is laid to five years. In childhood they approximate Pai-boys and Pets teachers. They are neat, tact, politeness. Often successfully careers: lack of love, balance high social activity and constantly competing with her mother, wanting to prove to her that they can become strong, famous, rich, not because but in spite of its leadership. The profession often choose one where you have to be in the women's team, for example, intimates many among teachers and accountants. But not because he wanted to choose a specific partner or try all of them, just the female behavior that has surrounded him since childhood, for it is natural. He feels comfortable in the company of many women, can easily discuss with them the specifics of their underwear, talking about fashion, thingies. And if you look at it from the perspective of a Martian, you will see that it is a normal woman who is cute chirps with her girlfriends. But because of the intimate issues with them discussing the man "in fact", his friend sexually aroused, and Lovelace is in bed often unwillingly. Many of intimiano complain that they can't be together with a woman in the same room for more than 15 minutes that she had not given herself to him, even though he does hint at a desire.
PHILANDERER HIGHER SEX
He cares for many women at the same time for safety net: if two or three points him to the door, the other will remain. He is very afraid of betrayal, because it is not sure that the bed will be on top. And not to live through a terrible tragedy, trying to throw her first, automatically gaining a reputation as a liar. A relationship with a woman lasts no more than a few weeks. The most interesting thing is that the novel womanizer completely optional bed ends, because sex for him is not an end in itself.
Intimately, unlike other men, never bragging about the number of conquered hearts. In male company Lovelace feels uncomfortable. Guys don't like it for some female manners commandments, the absence of the male element so directly rivalry. After all, a purely feminine he always tries to avoid conflict, Julia and wagging her tail" that normal men unusual. Therefore, the womanizer friends more than friends.
WIFE LOVELACE CAN ONLY BE A RUBBER DOLL
For Lovelace, the woman will not present a hazard only if it is similar to a rubber doll from a sex shop. Of course, you can thread the needle and to marry, but the marriage will be short-lived. If a woman wants to keep womanizer relationship for many years, you can claim only on the role of his girlfriend, with whom he will discuss the rags last series, going to concerts and to share their love Affairs, not pretending to intimacy. Some women, seeing his score before the mother, trying to show him motherly feelings and care and often achieve this vicinity, thereby making a fatal mistake. To get to the womanizer in bed is dangerous. As soon as the relationship becomes intimate, he began to fear that they become dependent, and flees in panic.
In the end, the womanizers, left all alone, believe that to blame fate, not gave him the woman who would understand his subtle, gentle nature. The dream of every Casanova to have a wife with incompatible character traits: on the one hand to be his encouragement and support, that is the most authoritarian mother, and on the other not to infringe on his desire for freedom and sense of independence.
ADVICE TO WOMEN: HOW NOT TO GET CAUGHT ON THE HOOK
Observations show that most victims womanizers women are deprived of male attention. Intimato to all women equally polite and courteous. If he gave you a hand when you exit the bus, do not take it as a proposal of marriage. He with the same quickness will rush to shake hands and the old woman. If philanderer you gave out holiday flower, it does not consider his admirer. He just as easily could give flowers every day of every employee. We should not delude ourselves and in that case, if you are congratulated with a date, kissed on the cheek. Believe me, he congratulated a woman a woman. And should not be bought on his offer to get you driving home in their car. Escorting you to the door, he's not going to walk into the apartment and disappear, because to him nothing more is necessary.
If you recognize intimate, then be prepared for the fact that you can only get the adventure, just the pleasure courteous, gallant, gentle lover, the first night will go all out. Your life will be a Night that you will remember all your life. But do not build illusions that can take more.
THE WOMANIZER TO BE TREATED IT IS NECESSARY
With hundreds of women, womanizer feels very lonely. He suffers from this and tries to lose herself in work. In later years, some still break under the pressure of common units that an honest man should have a family. But most of them until the end of life remain convinced bachelors.
Womanizer rarely understands that his sickness should be treated. Until doctors get only the extreme cases intimofobii, when a person is afraid not only psychologically intimate relationships, and intimate relationships in General, bringing to the position of a social outcast. Treat intimate with the help of psychoanalysis, relieving him primarily from fear of the mother.
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