Monday, July 21, 2014

Frigidity: reality or myth?


Frigidity: reality or myth? Frigidity - sex, not bringing pleasure, in which a girl (woman), not only can not achieve the "Paradise of pleasure" called orgasm, but not experiencing feelings of arousal - "desire for sex".


Often the majority of young men because of their inexperience and insolvency called "frigid" their sexual partners, which failed to achieve orgasm. After that, the order of 80% of the girls really start to think: "maybe I really suffer from frigidity? "losing, any faith that they will ever be able to achieve true satisfaction from sex.




Why...




Cause frigidity may be wrong upbringing, sexual complexes, bad first sexual experience, illness, and pain after surgery, ectopic pregnancy or postpartum frigidity. Psychological frigidity consequence of the unsayable, inability to open up to love and to receive.




The main thing to realize their problems and try to take measures to overcome the psychological barrier constructed in his mind. If the cause of the relationship, through the fault of the sexual partner, talk to him and find out. If the sexual relationship You are not satisfied, why would frankly not to talk or maybe we should leave and find another sexual partner.




Often the cause of frigidity is the bad memories associated with the first sexual experience, the imposition of stereotypes that sex is bad, that after causing some fear and negative attitude towards sexual relations. As well as a cause of frigidity can be a bad relationship women with a partner, conflicts in the family, different types of depressie and drug addiction.




In addition to the above reasons, we must not forget that often a woman has sex without desire, yielding to the pressure of men.




Men forget that women are more sensual, that for them sex is like a continuation of the warm and sensual relationship.






Is it possible to get rid of frigidity?




Frigidity is not a barrier to flirtation and desire like men. Frigid woman can marry, have children and be a good wife. But despite this, frigidity very dangerous.




Frigid woman can't be completely happy in marriage, if she has no sexual desire for her husband, and it is necessary to satisfy his needs. Her thoughts that her husband uses. Here appear quarrels and scandals, which can even lead to divorce. Besides frigidity is the cause of many psychosomatic ailments from migraines to diseases of the genital organs. Therefore, this disease must be treated.




If frigidity mild, with a gentle and loving partner, you can achieve healing. If the case is launched, you need to see a specialist. First visit to the gynecologist, it is quite possible that frigidity is not psychological trauma, and some physiological pathology.




Most importantly, remember that no career and no money will replace for you, family and children, learn to get pleasure from the satisfaction.




In addition to the above reasons, we must not forget that often a woman has sex without desire, yielding to the pressure of men.




Men forget that women are more sensual, that for them sex is like a continuation of the warm and sensual relationship.




On the portal the ABC's of Sex.





Source:

Women's Magazine
















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