Thursday, July 24, 2014

Critical days of sexual life


Critical days of sexual lifeThe question about sexual relations during menstruation usually gets all the couples, especially those with long-term stable relationship. Related to this question varies within very wide limits, and it is not surprising, because the sex during menstruation has its pros and cons. First of all, it depends on the health of women in the critical days, but also have the value of religious beliefs, intimate health of the spouses, their sexual activity (for someone a week break in intimate life is not a problem, and someone needs to engage in sexual intercourse daily).


Negative attitudes toward sex during menstruation comes from the primitive tribes who were menstruating women to isolate, as their blood could attract wild animals. Nowadays, more and more couples tend to have sex on any day of the month.




Cons intimate life during menstruation




The main disadvantage of sex during menstruation is an increased risk of infection for both partners. This is because blood is an excellent nutrient medium for bacteria. In this environment, the bacteria multiply much faster than in a clean vagina. During menstruation the cervix is slightly open, so the infection can easily enter the uterus, which must be sterile. In addition, the contents of the vagina gets into the urethra partner, and can cause inflammation there.




Therefore, if you do not have a permanent sexual partner that you are confident, it is desirable in these days, from sex to give. If you have any problems (bacterial vaginosis, recurrent colpitis, thrush) this is also the basis for abstinence in the critical days.




To protect themselves from infection, it is especially important to practice good hygiene. Both spouses need to wash genitals before and after intercourse. It is desirable to use a condom, but it will reduce the risk of development of infectious process only in men. For women remains a danger of falling into the uterus so-called opportunistic organisms, which in small amounts can be detected in the vagina and normal, but when injected into the uterus and intensive breeding cause of the inflammatory process.




Some men in contact with blood in the urethra experience unpleasant tingling. This problem also solves the condom.




As a deterrent are religious beliefs. For example, Orthodox Jews are required to abstain from sex, not only during menstruation and for seven days afterwards.




Sometimes the man is unpleasant to contact with menstrual blood from an aesthetic point of view, it seems to be an unclean thing. This does not mean that he does not love you, everyone can have their prejudices. Often impure feels herself a woman, it bothers her to relax and have fun. It is best to talk with your partner about his attitude to intimate life when menstruation, because for some men a woman during menstruation opposite the most desirable, because menstruation is a symbol of the feminine.




Many people are troubled spots of blood on the bed. To discharge was less, it is better to make love in the man on top". In advance posterite clean towel and keep it handy wipes.





Pros sexual life during menstruation


If a woman experiences orgasm after intercourse, it can relieve anxiety, reduce pain. Spasms during orgasm push fluid from the uterus, decreases its swelling, so the pain goes away.




After intercourse, the rejection of the cells of the endometrium is faster, so the period may be shorter in duration.




Some women during menstruation during intercourse especially bright feeling. This is because the vagina first well hydrated, and secondly increases the blood flow to the genitals, vagina swells and becomes thinner and more sensitive.





Myths about sex during menstruation


During menstruation not to get pregnant. This is the most common misconception. Many believe that during menstruation cannot get pregnant, so no need to avoid. Unfortunately, it is not. To get pregnant on any day, although of course the likelihood of this during menstruation Mala. Higher the probability of pregnancy during menstruation if you have short cycle. For example, if the cycle is 21 days, then ovulation can occur at 6-8 day cycle, i.e. during the month. It is possible that ovulation will occur after menstruation, but keep in mind that sperm deposited in the vagina, and then into the uterus, can be viable for up to five days. Even if you have a regular 28-day cycle, you are not insured against unintended pregnancy: every woman occasionally possible shortening of the menstrual cycle (what you will learn only when you come next menstruation) or two of ovulation in one cycle.




Healthy women experience heightened sexual desire in the middle of the cycle, closer to ovulation, and during menstruation libido low. It is also a myth. Many women sexual libido during menstruation occurs more frequently than during ovulation. Very large individual differences in different women. Sexual attraction can be increased as in the first and in the second phase, or remain unchanged throughout the cycle.




For anal sex during menstruation the risk of infection is lower than vaginal. This is not the case. In the rectum inhabits E. coli, which when injected into the vagina (especially if there are favorable blood environment) can cause inflammation. Vagina and anus are close to each other, so the risk of getting bacteria from the rectum to the genitals during anal sex is quite high. Agree, it is unlikely your partner will be able to constantly monitor themselves to nothing more does not hurt.




It is obvious that the current generation refers to sexual relations during menstruation less negative than it was before. However, for many people, sex during menstruation is still unpleasant and unacceptable. Deal or no sex during menstruation up to you and your partner, this must be taken into consideration first of all I want you both like it or not, and not to think about public opinion.





Author:

Kudryavtseva E.


Source:

U-mama.ru site Ural parents
















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