Every mother dreams that her child has grown successful. For a start, let's think, what we believe successful people. This concept is quite broad and includes not only successful businessmen and popular movie stars.
People successful and happy, if he is a recognized specialist in the family love him and appreciate his many friends, his point of view demanded and appreciated in terms of its communication.
Little ladies and gentlemen
From the very young age try to instill in your child the skills of correct behavior at home and in society. A successful person into the modern world is undoubtedly a person who is familiar with the etiquette, attentive and responsive to the needs of others.
In order to raise a successful child, constantly pay attention to what hands should be clean, dry clothes neat and tidy, toys and personal belongings in order. At first, you can do it in the form of games, jokes and rhymes. Be consistent, constantly reinforce these skills.
To raise a successful child is impossible, not paying attention to the feelings and desires of others. You surely will agree that the little gentleman will never throw sand at other kids, and the little lady will not be screaming to take the doll of her friend? Your task is to convey that message to your child :)
Take as example the fairy-tale characters: "You little Princess, and the Princess never greedy! They are always ready to share! This is probably the only grandmother Eiki greedy and brednich, so nobody likes..." connect your imagination, involve the child in this game constantly for some positive way as he got close and familiar.
"Can" and "cannot"
As much as possible allow as little as possible forbid. We are not talking about, of course, unequivocally unacceptable and dangerous for the child classes.
But if he wants to pressing buttons on the computer keyboard or understand how to work the TV remote, take this lesson a few minutes. Sit, open a new document in Word, show that on the screen the letters will appear, if you click on certain keys. Explain what is meant by the arrows and a big red button on the remote and when they should be pushing.
Our children are growing up surrounded by news of technological progress and should be with the technique. A successful person is including an advanced user of modern advances in technology.
Forbid reasonable! This means that the details explain why not, what happens if you violate the injunction, etc.
For example: "you Cannot pull the tablecloth on the table, because you can drop all that there is: dishes, food, a vase with flowers. Dishes will be broken and glass is everywhere. Small pieces of glass mother may not notice and to remove, and you then stand up a leg and can get hurt. And the food and flowers, if you fall, will pollute us the entire carpet."
The child it is impossible to imagine the consequences of a breach of the ban. And you have drawn a vivid picture will make an impression on him. In addition, he will gradually learn to imagine the consequences of the different situations and calculate their actions on several moves ahead.
Vocational guidance -- in the manger
Encourage curiosity. In order to raise a successful child, with him you need to talk, starting from the tender age! Even when you're just talking with your child, draw his attention to what surrounds you, tell him stories and sing songs - you thereby create the basis for successful learning in the future. Because the comprehensive development of the baby and includes vocabulary, and language skills, and memory.
And when the baby becomes older, do not dismiss the endless "why" and "why". With him to find answers to questions, fortunately now there are lots of colorful, clever, interesting children's encyclopedias on various topics. The child is like a sponge that absorbs and remembers new information - soon you will be surprised at his knowledge.
Try to develop existing talents of your child. For example, you notice that he is interested in, what language the song quickly memorize foreign words. Buy him a simple dictionaries or textbooks English (such as "My first dictionary", with images and transcriptions of words), computer games and language learning.
Your child may not become a professional translator, but the study of languages in the future will be given to him much easier, and this, as you know, an integral part of the life of a successful person today.
It is the parents should be the first to notice the aptitudes and interests of the child and to participate actively in the interest of their child. It's okay if areas of interest change frequently and child interesting one today, and another tomorrow. He still will have time to decide, and you will lay a great Foundation for its success, if you will help him.
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