Loneliness is a strict teacher

Loneliness is a complex and very ambiguous state. What is actually loneliness and how to interpret this process in your life? To pass, to lament or to make important lessons?


According to wikipedia, "loneliness is a socio-psychological phenomenon, the emotional state of the person associated with the absence of close, positive emotional connections with people and/or with the fear of their loss in the result of an emergency or have psychological causes of social exclusion. Within this concept there are two different phenomenon - positive (privacy) and negative (isolation) alone, but more often the concept of Loneliness has a negative connotation."




If you say that love alone, or what else somebodee, man asserts that he receives from the state of loneliness fun - don't believe him. He, to put it mildly, disingenuous.




Loneliness is the state in which we live is the least comfortable. It is not wrong if even begin to assert that the period of loneliness is the worst period in the life of each of us. Although some mighty argued that man himself is alone and independent, this statement is very far from the truth.




Often, the period of loneliness in a person's life is a period of pain and not love.





Kinds of loneliness


We can distinguish 2 types of loneliness:





Situational loneliness - sometimes feel a sense of loneliness that most men and women endure from time to time. Situational loneliness may be a consequence of the collapse of the current model of interpersonal relationships.



Chronic loneliness - the result of a long man's inability to establish relationships with women and men.


As a rule, men and women who are experiencing situational loneliness, thinking, discussing with friends and podkorrektirovat their communication models, after some time, ready to establish new relationships. They start to look for new friends and a serious relationship.




It's a healthy desire of people to go through life together, to love and be loved, and it should be stronger than fear to experience failure and the pain of parting.




Men and women experiencing situational loneliness, the most benefit newfound confidence and assistance in establishing interpersonal relationships.




Sometimes loneliness is in our life as a Teacher.





Teaches loneliness?


Definitely - Love. Love of self, love of family, love of peace, and the love of good and bad.




If you are alone, it certainly brings little joy, but you can hot to improve your condition by using "new" in your life. What may be "new" and how to help yourself?




First, try not to look inward, not to alienate family and friends. They want to help you, and it is quite possible that only thanks to them that you do not fall into a state of chronic depression.




Secondly, learn! Learn everything new. For example, go on courses of a foreign language, get another degree. Fortunately, there are evening and correspondence forms of training, and you don't have to change jobs. Read interesting books, do some art, sign up for yoga courses...Have knowledge, they will help you to get rid od loneliness and to find Love.




Health and loneliness, too, are very much interrelated. Take care of your own health, because a healthy body is a healthy mind! Charging, conditioning, fitness, dance...




Help yourself, try to perceive any life status as a Lesson, and in the first place - state of Loneliness.

Source:

Forfun

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