My position is the best!
Marina Nowicka (27), married the student of economic faculty, daughter Olga (8 years): - it makes No sense to spend life waiting for Prince from a fairy tale. Perfect men don't exist, as there is no perfect women. Marriage rests on the trade-offs. It is important that the partner was a friend. My husband Sergey is a great friend. I can cry on his shoulder, but also be asked to cook dinner, clean the apartment, to play with my daughter. I gave birth to a child sooner. Bridesmaids were enrolled in institutions, have fun, and I was busy with the baby. Then I was jealous of their independence. Now I have a grown child, I graduate from the Institute. In many areas I have achieved more than they do! And recently in my life something beautiful happened: after eight years of marriage, we were married. I was superswede!
Ekaterina Yakovleva (29), not married leads business together with his mother: " I don't dream about the wedding. I have it every day. For several years I organize a wedding party. The case I put all my time. It happens that I work for weeks without days off. I like this constant movement, the challenge, the adrenaline. While I do not have time for love.
Alexander Goncharov (33), married the son of Maxim (2 years): - All this nonsense! Permanent Union stimulates and inspires action. I can risk it, because I know that near me there is someone who will help me. My husband Andrew supports me in everything I do. And I usually manage to catch two hares: time, for example, to go to the Solarium, manicure. My specialty is logistics, I also studied English Philology. I develop their skills not only for myself but for the good of our family, so that both of us were better. If not for Andrew, I wouldn't have the strength and desire to build a country house. Together we were able to mobilize forces, and we have recently moved to a house in the forest near Moscow. I laugh stereotypes about married women, envy free because of the fact that they have the opportunity to go to parties. Once I went with friends to a dance party, and Andrew stayed home with her son. And suddenly I found that without a husband does not know how to have fun!
Sometimes I envy you...
Marina Novitskaya, married: There are moments when I dream about returning to the unmarried state. Sometimes I would like to relax, be alone with their own problems. To escape from the problems of her husband, child... Today married women Affairs above the roof: they must be beautiful mistresses, lovers, mothers, this look great and have a good job. Sometimes I think that the single life is easier. They do not have responsibility for the household, they can focus solely on yourself. If they were having a bad day, they don't need anyone to explain. Can pack up and leave, aimlessly. For me this spontaneity impossible! The child should be sent to the school, the Board should wait for lunch...
Maria Nechiporenko, not married
: - Sometimes it is lone of the problems above roof! Recently I attended a few weddings. Sat at the table alone. Aunt and cousin asked why I came alone. I tired to explain to them that are not ashamed of their autonomy and is not required to find a partner for the sake of the party. Everyone was looking at me as a traitor. In the whole wedding, I sat alone, no one even asked me to dance. Felt stupid and jealous of married women. They certainly have no obligation to anyone to make excuses, and, most importantly, no one Woo! Such a desire of others to force you to happy is the most important issue for a single woman. I don't know why some people think that my biggest dream is to get a husband?
Can each other to learn
Violetta Romashova, not married: - I have not been disappointed in love. I believe that I see her as my married girlfriends. The stories of their marriages strengthen my hope. I decided to help my fortune. Don't want to sit idly by and wait for happiness. Try to communicate more with different people, visit the cinema, in the cafe. Participate in the work of the French cultural center. Just now going on two weeks to go to France on an exchange program. Who knows, maybe there is someone to meet?
Maria Nechiporenko, not married: - Gradually begin to understand that marriage does not mean standing in place, the self-limiting. Plan to start a family. However, know that I am not going to do anything by force. If I marry someone, I will try not to repeat the mistakes of my friends: I will not forget old friends, not going to lock myself at home, will not allow himself to be dragged into the kitchen. I hope to be able to become a doctor like my mother. Marriage parents for me pattern: dad, sailor, spent a lot of time in swimming. Mom took care of the housework and at the same time improved professionally. Father never restricted. I hope my marriage will be the same.
Anna Doroshina, married: - Look at your life and come to the conclusion that each stage has pros and cons. Not being married, I traveled a lot. However, subconsciously longed for family stability. When he met with Igor, was ready for a permanent Union. I think that single women are not married just because are not ready for a serious life change. Never too late to fall in love, but always too early... to be alone.
The opinion of the psychologist
Alexander Galina: Marital status may embarrass the person. But only in the situation when we are unhappy with what is happening in our lives when we face difficulties. A married woman who married early may envy the freedom and opportunities unmarried. Unmarried, which is not alone on his own, jealous ordered family life married. It all depends on whether we accept his life and can influence it. If so, then the marital status does not matter. After all, happiness is not dependent on weddings!
Source:
Woman Journal
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