Beauty depends on natural data, but the elusive appeal every time we give a whole new meaning, magic, chemistry, charm, charm. What really is attractiveness?
Matter in the body
His longevity mankind owes ability to please. In the whole of nature "groom" and "bride" go hunting, hoping to lure the best or the best bright plumage, luxurious mane, leaping songs. And what is the difference between animals and us, if the goals and methods of we the same?
Meanwhile, scientists have put this romantic process formulas, turned the magic in the chemistry and passion in physiology. Pink flair became less, but clarity is much more.
For example, it is known that a man appreciates not options, and proportions. Intuition whispers to him that the potential mother of his children should be clear proportions - waist narrower than the hips. And it is not so important, as these indicators are measured in centimeters.
Another secret of attraction on the same intuitive level - smell. But while pundits write formulas and convince us that natural smell, not to cheat, women it has already done. For centuries we use resins and oils in order to correct the nature of, and stories about the most beautiful women in the history of mankind invariably accompanied by a description of their smell.
To live tastefully
We like people who enjoy life - eat with appetite, contagious laugh, happy to make love. One of my friends is convinced that any relationship should start with a joint dinner - if a woman eats tastefully, then in bed and will do everything to get maximum pleasure. If squeamish looking at the menu, and considers food exclusively source of calories, so in life it has invented so many restrictions that sooner or later her want to run away.
By the way, the main compliment from the same friend - "Manka woman." To them he is a rewarder of sensual women who are able to get pleasure from sex. Because sensuality is the ability to experience pleasure.
This "manga woman" - writer Melissa Allstars, which in the book "How to become a passionate woman" describes himself as: "I Have heavy thighs, upright teeth, nose shovel, bad shape, flat, uneven ears. I never wear dresses in tight, or mini bikini, I don't Bleu mind and are not an attractive person, I'm shy". Needless to say that the mere habit of living and loving with taste and provided her incredible success with the opposite sex?
She believes that women who know how to clean, look good and raise children full, but women who have learned to get happy about, standing the whole world.
To become leaders
Today, charismatic man as one who knows how to influence others. Charismatic actors, politicians, businessmen. In fact, charisma is a set of communication skills that can be successfully developed. Take a look at the list of the most popular psychological courses - most of them offers in a short time to turn you into a leader, a strong personality.
And charm, femininity, and sexuality to a greater extent all the same quality innate, but charisma depends on how much you care about their development. The leader, the man who infects your ideas, plans and dreams, must be able to speak, to differ enviable self-control, a moderate sense of humor and skills of self-presentation. The perfect set of tools in order to find a common language with any person.
Soul wide open
Openness, marginal integrity disarms us. We are locked in their own world, fully buttoned, and suddenly appears nearby man, who has been with us out in the open. He speaks openly about his feelings, without a shadow of doubt expresses his point of view, and - lo and behold! - calmly admits own mistakes and wrong.
We like people are open, we just can't resist a man who calmly trusts us. One of my colleague began his career in radio with animated nightmare of any top - it live, my throat was dry, the voice was gone, she completely forgot the text and can't say a single word. It estimates an eternity, until finally she spoke, and instead of announcement news blurted out: "I for the first time live, terribly excited and forgot the whole text. The head probably already put my things over the threshold, and you've got me you don't hear, but I still want to wish you a nice day".
Having an audience of thousands, she quietly began to read the news, and during the day at the radio station without interruption took calls from listeners who asked not to dismiss the new master. Needless to say that after a few months she had her own evening transfer and hundreds of fans.
"Good, guy! "
In the movie, the main villain is often much more interesting and appealing main character. This "negative charisma", which we like so much the bad guys, blasted bitches, cinematic mafia and adventurers.
A simple example - the main heroine of the film "the Devil wears Prada". Good, talented, hard-working young lady and her dogmatic, ruthless, cold-blooded boss. Bitches always in the spotlight, so they have a calling. Woman with devilry may annoy, put out, and the next minute to admire and to force the world to throw at her feet. The bitches a bad temper and a sense of superiority over the rest of humanity, her biography is half gossip, and the retinue will be envied by some celebrities. But all this does not prevent men to look after the stinker that was not even honored their opinion, and summarize: "Good, guy!.."
You I, I - you
We love those who are like - this is from the point of view of many psychologists mechanism of attachment and reciprocal feelings. Answer courtship persistent men and soon fall in love with him. We like people who give us good gifts, fulfill our desires. And it's not commercialism. Gratitude is successfully combined with getting something desirable, with a sense of what people think about us and care. For the sake of the beloved Vakula went for red Slippers, and the young lady in the most natural way in love with him.
We appreciate those who appreciate us, because in a world of too many people who are absolutely indifferent to us. And there's no need to criticize the modern dream girls about the oligarch. In the end, we are all in the childhood dreamed about a Prince on a white horse, and red Slippers.
I feel one
Psychologists tired to repeat, that the love of self is the basis of harmonious life and success with the opposite sex. We see with our eyes, and a woman who like myself, is visible from afar. In the East they say that she is like a pitcher with precious contents.
If the woman about herself, her every action becomes magic. She gladly dressed, take care of themselves, support their body in great shape - for themselves, not for men. Indulge yourself, respect your point of view, accept their feelings. And then, it is no matter what she wears and slept Lee, it will always look great.
Yves Saint Laurent claimed that the woman should be long-haired, wearing heels and proper dress, and otherwise not a woman she is. Only then slyly added: "And then you go outside and meet short-haired girl in trousers and shirt. She has a wonderful mood, because she likes herself in the shop. And fall in love with her - because wonder how good".
Feminine beauty through the eyes of men
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