Why they don't want children?

Each of the women's forum, you can find a theme where all the details are discussed family problems. Among them you can find complaints of women that the husband is not paying enough attention or scatters clothes anywhere. More topics infidelity, divorce and other family troubles. Recently I happened to see the message the girls had complained that her husband did not want a child. The reason she indicated that he had not naguals and not ready for such a serious step (note: her husband was 34 years). Gets quite natural question: why they don't want children?


The answer can be found many, because the history of each pair unique. But still there are a number of reasons, which is universal for all:




The man is scared.

Fear of liability can sometimes stifle the instinct of paternity. If you have previously been able to live on one salary, with the advent of the baby it will be simply impossible. From here emerges the need to seek additional sources of income, to sacrifice their friends and free time, in short, to change lives. And men are by nature conservative, unwilling something drastically changed.


- A man is not sure about his feelings.

You can often hear this phrase: "a Man never wants children to love women. And this is the truth: if he really has serious feelings, he wants in any way to make this the woman had stayed with him for life. And he is unlikely to go on it if takes relationships seriously. And who want the rest of my life to see the child features of the unloved person?



The man is busy career. You can often find the following category of a strong half of mankind: successful, intelligent, assured, like the old "running out", but the children in the plans are not included. Simply because on the nose signing an important contract, the opening of the branch company and numerous trips. How can this rhythm of life to have to be sensitive and caring father?



- Health problems. A man can say what he wants, and to use the most ridiculous excuse only for the sake of his health problems did not know one soul. Very often the man does not have the courage to admit that he is infertile or has problems in sexual terms. Even worse, when in the course of embarking absurd assumption that "I am healthy, that thou art barren, and I will not go to any doctor! ".



Man does not like children. And this, unfortunately, has a place in our lives. He didn't like the screaming and the noise generated by the children, toys, diapers, problem - all of this brings back the universal longing and hatred. A man willing to give his woman everything, but not children, because that is not how he will be able to get along with this little creature in the same apartment.


Any of these causes can be eliminated, however, the woman first is to decide whether or not this man should become the father of her children. Unfortunately, in the end very often happens that a woman gives birth for yourself, not for the elect, and then start quarrels and disagreements.

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