The masks that we wear

Our image is a mask behind which we hide our feelings, does not allow us to create a relationship on the level of understanding between us and the fellowship as a means of contact with our inner qualities will not occur. In the end, our interlocutor quickly bored us, and we are trying all means to tolerate his presence. However, on the other hand, the absence of the interlocutor worse, and we are appalled, we don't want to go alone, but do not tolerate the presence of each other!



We choose the mask or they us?


To be notorious today - not terribly fashionable, this stigma fear more than the regular flu virus, stacking in bed the broad masses of the public. And because we all hide behind a mask of success and external comfort, but the actions and lifestyle sometimes give us head.





Our masks?


Masks that we apply for whole life very much, just for one day we can be as "patron" and "servant"




Patron




This kind of sacrifice, she believes that everything depends on it. It's worth it to go or not to act according to the schedule, it will fall apart like a house of cards.




Mainly patron dominated by anger. He is angry that the other may not be the same as he.




Patrons must periodically chased from the throne, then they show their true faces.





Dependent


These are people who have learned to just go with the flow in that direction, which indicates their strong mate.




But even the most reasonable person may not for a very long time to be on the "second role", and most often ends very, very badly - alcoholism, gambling, autism and just burn.




Such people need to periodically remind you that they are important to you.




Hero




This is a man who strives to be the first, and if you don't notice it, it will remind you. He's like "Superman" arrives at the last minute, to help "save the world".




For such people it is very important not to be shy in position, otherwise they may fall into depression.




"Heroes" need to feel that the world will accept them for what they are, and you love them real.





Scapegoat


Most often, this role goes to who was the second child in the family. As the first usually perform all put on them waiting, second only say "but your older brother would have done so".




These people are very touchy, so Pogoria with him and show him a new way of liberation from stereotypes.





Lost


This is representative of a large family, in which it's difficult to pay attention to each child. These people we call "myself on his mind. They are all in the side, and prefer solitude - noisy companies.




Such people should be extremely cautious in the statements and first you need to try to start to become a friend of them.





Talisman


These are people who are afraid to be themselves and therefore "laugh". Talismans believe that they are not needed in this world, and therefore wriggling to attract at least someone's attention.




You want these people to bring on a serious conversation. And once you see that he got a little serious - rather lead him from the roaring crowd and try a deep look into his vulnerable soul.

Source:

Women's Magazine

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