Many people believe that the surrounding reality is comparatively random circumstances and events. And this is a collection of very feeble controllable and influence. We used to think of ourselves as victims of circumstances, then complain about the evil fate, bad boss, infidels and inattentive husbands and wives, naughty children, lack of money, bad neighbors, the neighbor's dog, takes the saleswoman on irresponsible government some of this list can reach impressive sizes. We too much attention directed outward and up the negative lead, which later start to the debate on the phones and at the meetings with our friends and acquaintances.
How you answer, we can not ignore the negativity of our reality, if she gets into eyes? Where to escape from it? And get away from it anywhere and don't need. Let's stop and look around. Well, as the picture? Not impressed? Really? And now let us breathe a little deeper and look at everything from a different angle. How to do it? Yes simple.
Look around, not making any estimates, so to speak, neutral look. Accept the fact that the cause of good and evil is only the presence of perspective. Indeed, any assessment of what is happening, both good and bad, arise only in our mind. More to occur nowhere. And who is the master of your wonderful mind? Of course, you and only you! I urge you not just to be the master of your own mind, but to be them, to be in full. And the first step on this path of getting rid of the stereotypes. Cease to refer to a particular thing or event in a certain way only because so do it. Which of your judgments and estimates are really yours and not imposed by upbringing, surroundings, authority, society, finally? Here is something to think about.
Now let's get back to the negativity in our lives, to be more precise our estimates of those or other factors as negative. Certainly in the life of each of us happened events that seemed the end of the world. And only after some time, sometimes years, we understood that it is not so bad and irreparable all actually was. Did you have to realize that what happened in the past is a terrible situation was subsequently a great chance? A chance to start something new, a chance to assess his abilities, the chance to get out of stagnation, the chance to learn the value of life and understand the meaning of his existence. Do you often thought about that problem, estimated as negative, brings new opportunities, opening new horizons? Dear readers, after all, depends only on us, we awake we see in the situation of the end of the world or will be able to see it a valuable gift.
The more negative assessments we make, the more opportunities to make these the most negative evaluations will provide us with life. This same rule applies in the opposite direction. The more we notice the positive, the more it becomes in our lives. Briefly, this rule sounds like: something that is directed our attention increases. To understand its essence is very important. If you don't like people, if someone or something annoys you, do not evaluate. Don't waste your attention and energy on what you don't like. Focus better on those who are pleasing to you, to those phenomena which you would call positive.
You do not see, how will cease to bother the neighbor's dog with his owners, as will cease to be rude in the store, it turns out that is not so bad, your boss, and our husbands and wives have become to us to be tender and attentive, and our children the best and obedient in the world, and in General, things are not so bad as it seemed, and maybe even good. And are we now in life with a smile in the eyes, and the people passing by us smile in response.
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