Don't be born beautiful, and be born self-confident!

"Meet on clothes, and escorted to the mind" - so says a famous Russian proverb. And it often say good relatives, wanting to comfort not too beautiful girl in the family. But somehow these words not only encourage, but, on the contrary, grow more complexes of the girl, because she hears from others more proof what so not want to believe she is ugly...


All people want to be liked, and women twice, and this is understandable, after all, will not be able to appeal is unlikely to find a life partner. And if love is lacking, meet on clothes. No matter how much we tried to convince us that the inner world is more valuable than beauty, hardly a prominent man will try to understand the soul and other spiritual values ugly when there are so many attractive women trying to make it reciprocal. And that remains is to put up with loneliness, read sentimental lady's novels and dream about the beautiful Prince who will be able to see a lot of advantages and a warm heart under nondescript appearance?




Coco Chanel once said: "If a woman thirty years was not beautiful, therefore it is simply stupid! " And so it is possible to believe without outstanding external data, Coco managed to become one of the most exciting, important and desirable women in the world. And all because he managed to make itself.




The trouble is not lack of beauty, but a lack of faith in themselves, in the absence of respect and love for herself. It's obvious: if you yourself is absolutely uninteresting, it is unlikely that someone will take the trouble to prove that it is not.




Yes, "clothes make the man", but only meet... And men are not so hopeless to prefer female stupidity, bitchiness at the very worst, rudeness and unwillingness to listen to the opinions of others, albeit packaged in a beautiful shell, real human feelings - kindness, kindness, care, sincerity, loyalty, etc.




Yes, beauty is a bitch attention to yourself will attract no one is arguing, well, what then? Remember, as further sounds the same proverb? Correctly - "escorted to the mind"! So, if not too attractive woman has many advantages, for example, she is smart, kind, capable of empathy, able to listen to the man, and besides, with the household chores familiar, and prepares a tasty, she has all chances not just to attract men's attention, but also to hold it for long.




Don't believe? Read the data of sociological and psychological research. Maybe you will be a revelation to learn that men are not so much important female beauty, as how the woman eye-catching, interesting, attractive. And here it is already possible to start to build your own the way in which you will be comfortable.




Not to look for reasons and excuses, you should rather take advantage of all the advancements in the beauty industry, as designers, stylists, makeup artists, trainers and beauticians have done everything that every woman has chosen its own way and has become a truly attractive. Fail yourself - consult the experts!




Choosing the right clothes will prove to you that not hopelessly bad figures, even a beauty Queen can be omradet so that it will seem the station baihai. And the most important thing in clothes is not the blind pursuit of fashion and elegance, elegance, not trying to be "everything", and his own style.




Cosmetics when used properly will help you to hide facial imperfections and highlight the advantages and hairdressing can work wonders even of the most ordinary-looking hair.




But, of course, the most important thing is confidence, it will be the determining factor in attracting men's attention. You probably wondered, as seems to be not having a particularly beautiful woman becomes the center of attention and admiration even in the presence notebook beauties.




Confidence in your attractiveness gives the woman a lot more than the most perfect beauty. I will say that it sure you do not have enough? Do not make this an unsolvable problem, because if the desire you'll have plenty of change within myself. Can't do it myself? A whole army of psychologists, various trainings, special literature - all this to help those who really want to change yourself and your life.




So, look in the mirror again, but with interest, and not with grief: you are intelligent, educated, kind, you are interesting and unusual, you deserve to love and be loved. So do not be like Cinderella before the fairy - do not waste time and quickly become a fairy for itself.




And then, when your new image will work, and you will attract the attention you are interested in men who will only have one to show what is hidden in your heart: kindness and benevolence, sympathy and empathy, wit and tenderness. And, believe me, a real man looking for serious feelings will surely appreciate it all.




You want to be happy, want to leave alone? So don't sit idly by, and not sigh, staring at the TV on the love in the series. If you have locked themselves in an impregnable tower, it is unlikely that you will break the coveted Prince. Take the situation into their own hands and go! The road by walking. And, believe me, once you make the first step, as you'll see how much better your life.




There are no ugly women. There are women who are too lazy to be beautiful!




Marina Nechaev

women's web magazine