Let say that female friendship does not happen
Let them talk, but I do know that.
That we with you will never sacrifice
Heart friendship donated destiny.
Female friendship - the concept is very interesting and mythological. About female friendship all say, but in the context of the concepts of friendship and fellowship in women for some reason it is not found. No, women communicate, keep in touch, talk on the phone, go to hen parties and gatherings female communities, sometimes even comfort each other, holding out a handkerchief, but all of these relationships - anything but this interpretation of the word "friendship".
Female friendship or hidden hostility, why there are no female friendship
Why, You ask? After all, everything looks so believable and credible. The answer is simple. The woman, like a cat, she walks in itself. And in each, their own kind, a female cat, she sees no other, and a potential rival, a threat to herself, her family and partner. And in this eternal rivalry, as in war all means are good, even such a noble thing as friendship.
Wise women understand that an open rivalry or enmity, in life, few things will get, you will start to consider all the contentious scandalous celebrity, and rating (especially in the eyes of men) will significantly fall. But the "make friends" with your opponent, be her friend, to get her lost vigilance and melted from our emotional talk, soul, and then at the right moment to strike her a blow in the back - here it is on our, feminine.
Caring girlfriend
Women often become friends, not because of common interests. The main female Apple of discord is a man. Because of his girlfriend, who signed the Pact of non-aggression that can destroy the fragile peace and become hardened vaginali. But this is an internal situation of the question. Outwardly it may look quite decent - caring girlfriend asks You, how are you doing with a common friend of guy do it for You, that You intend to take in the future.
The fatal mistake made by those of us who readily shares his plans, feelings with their "girlfriends". Here on questioning everything you said can be used against You. Your thoughts, secrets, words at the most inconvenient time suddenly become the property of the society. Where the company found out about Your secrets? Do not break my head. Recall the "best friend" and what You're cute with her talking in such a trusting atmosphere over a Cup of cappuccino.
Your girlfriend at work
Besides men, women interested in a career. Your friend at work, You are so trusting and naive promote on a service line, thinking about You and she will not forget and say the word in front of the boss, one day will quickly forget with whose help she took his chair and place.
In love and at work, can't be friends. Not worth it to share with anyone his plans, thoughts and feelings. What do You think, will forever remain with You, but what You said aloud - always play against You.
A successful friend or gray mouse
Women rarely are "friends" with equal status, external data and life achievements. Girlfriend is better than you in all of these criteria, successful or a failure and not beautiful, but, in any case, don't stand living next to you. Why? Successful girlfriend incentive to achieve greater chance on the possibility of using it to achieve better performance and successful man.
Gray mouse friend - excellent "vest", because even the steel lady sometimes cry, and on the background of her pale face and glasses, You will always look like Angelica and Cleopatra in one person. And in the moments when You just get tired of life and endless war, and ask yourself, what have You accomplished? Your achievements amid hopeless girlfriends always look will be more winning, and in Your eyes you still see gambling Shine and thirst for victories in men, career steps, and just above their own kind, for personal affirmation.
Women do not forgive insults
Women never forgive insults. Especially other women. Revenge is not always followed in the same moment, the payoff can reach us some time later, when we lost vigilance, trustingly believed in women's generosity and forgiveness, will relax. Women would ever forget.
Anyone would agree with above, remembering their own life situation. Someone foaming at the mouth to prove that women are not like that. The lucky ones, they have not yet grasped the girl's school life. I too trustingly believed girlfriends, have promoted their career ladders and shared the last piece. What? Am I any less betrayed my girlfriend? With the truth of life we can agree, can not accept, but it will not change. A female cat who walks through life itself. And cats are rarely girlfriend...
Author:Olga Shevtsova
Edition of Women's Magazine, napminaet all our readers that we do not always agree with the authors, publiquely materials;)
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