Crisis three years

Three-year age described as "difficult". In General, the notion of ' crisis 3 years" is a relative term, since the time frame of the crisis is much broader. Some children can start in 2 years, 10 months, and others in 3, 5 years. In this period the child is separated from the adults, trying to establish with them a new, deeper relationship.


Change the child's position, increase its independence and activity, require close adult timely adjustment. If a new relationship with a child is not made up, his initiative is not encouraged, independence constantly limited, in the child having the actual crisis, manifested in relationships with adults.




The first evidence of the beginning of the crisis may be the appearance of negativity, i.e., when the child stops implicitly requests from adults. On the one hand, attempts to separate the "I" and the formation of our own desires is very good, but on the other hand, lack the ability to Express their opinion, the kid chooses the most affordable way: the opposition to adults. The only goal of the child - make it clear to others that he has his own point of view and all need to be with her.




Also for the child is important and its success or failure in business and games, he begins acutely and rapidly respond to assessment, student self-assess their performance. He becomes vindictive and resentful, starts to cheat. A great desire to receive a positive evaluation from the side of adults, the desire to stay ahead of peers often push children that they exaggerate their achievements. Here it is important to know that if the baby began openly to dream, it means that his real successes, few people notice this, he compensates for his desire to get at least some positive evaluation from adults.




In General, all these phenomena indicate that the child's changing attitude to others and to himself. He psychologically separated from loved ones adults. This is an important step in the emancipation of the child; not less rapid stage waiting for him later in adolescence.

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