1. Briefly explain to the child that it is waiting in the doctor's office. Most often it is not so terrible a real pain, and the unknown. Do not be fooled by the child. Many mothers lie to the kid, that "it won't hurt," "how great bite" - if only he wasn't afraid. If the reality will be much more unpleasant, the child will see you as a traitor. He will cease to trust you and next time you can make a "strike".
2. Tell us why you need this or that procedure. For example: vaccination should be done to you then not ill; a blood test is necessary to understand what you're sick and how to treat it; and the dentist will make so that the tooth will you cease to torment... Often children don't understand what exactly do you do with them, and refer to treatment as some kind of torture. Is the baby in advance to explain everything, and he will become calmer, more patient to treat medical procedures, which it is subjected.
3. Encourage your baby. Tell him about how they themselves were ill as a child about other friends boys and girls who had to endure the pain and discomfort. Eggings type: "Behold, Sasha or Mary is not afraid of injections, and you're such a chicken! " can work wonders, and the child is firmly stand procedure.
4. Don't be nervous when a child. Many mothers are unable to hide their emotions, especially if the child is very bad. Get yourself together! Let you even are very concerned about the health of the baby or how he will take one or the other procedure, don't show him this, leave emotions for later. Be when the kid is calm, otherwise your anxiety will pass to him, will become still more to worry and freak.
5. If you have to visit any doctor several times, well beforehand to acquaint him a child. Sometimes children act up just because you are dealing with a stranger and don't know what to expect from him. Let Valentina will turn to him in "aunt Valya". Starting to trust the medic, your baby is more likely to allow him to get a shot or another procedure.
6. If you put your baby in the hospital, this is a serious challenge not only for him but for you. Children, especially little shy unfamiliar situation, they may have problems with other young patients and medical staff. Yes and care in most hospitals is not so hot. Therefore, it is best to ensure that you have permission to stay in hospital with your child. If it is of preschool age, there should be no problems. In this case, you will be able to monitor his diet, hygiene, toilet, as well as for the faithful performance of the staff of the medical procedures.
Before the baby lay in the hospital, be sure to conduct a preparatory conversation. Explain why you need some time to live away from home, where it will not be able to cure and he will feel bad... If you will not be able to go with him to the hospital, make sure that the child is able to care for themselves independently have to go to the toilet, dress and undress. Do not expect that this will keep nurses or nurses, of course, if it is ordinary, not a luxury treatment facility.
7. Promise your child a reward for worthy migrated procedure or lying in the hospital. "Prize" should correspond to the merits. So, if the kid is only allowed to make him a little injection, reward him with some treats or a cheap toy. For a series of painful procedures can promise and then buy something, what kid dreams about, for example, a Barbie doll or electronic automobile. Lying in the hospital can be rewarded by buying, say, a bike that was previously planned for my birthday, or a pleasure trip. However, see for yourself, all depends on your budget.
Author:
Shlionskaya And.
Source:
Mobus News
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