Marriage and quarrels: rules

Ideal relationship grow into a perfect marriage, but even in "ideal", you can find a flaw.


Family disputes




Not always the same people, and therefore views on different things we, respectively, are different. This little fact means that one of the partners from time to time have to compromise. But since patience a person is not rubber, big dispute cannot be avoided.





How to get away with it"?


In the first conflict, most importantly, not exaggerate anything. Not to shout, not to remember and not to ascribe partner all mortal sins. The status argument is new to you, and then obediently follow the advice of Women's Magazine.





Be the first one. Don't be too proud, come first in order to find out the relationship and to resolve the conflict.



Hear what you say. Learn to listen and to perceive all the information received during the dispute (except "this"). Think about it, maybe I do need to change something in yourself.



Rule "but". After hearing his wife tell a simple phrase that will demonstrate that you are committed to positive dialogue: "I understand you perfectly, but".



Solve all problems at once. If you do not like something - don't be silent. It is better to solve all the "problems" in a calm state, than to wait until they "pop up" during innocuous dispute.



Life by the rules. The word "rule" sounds a little strange in the context of the family. But for a harmonious life, you must claim your partner, and listen to them with his hand.



Do not hit "below the belt". If you still failed to avoid conflicts in the family, always remember the main rule - do not criticize the "weak" points of the partner, because it will only aggravate the situation.

Source:

Women's Magazine

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