If the husband in a dream will call you a false name, acclimates, you will not regret. All items are better to find out in the morning, clouding notations and showdowns beautiful moment of your intimacy. What you can say in bed, and what better to keep quiet? What you should keep quiet in bed?
Experienced lovers rightly consider that the bedroom is not worth talking about:
- past sexual experience compared to the current
the dimensions and volumes (especially if you are not satisfied),
- about the lack of sensation,
- that didn't work
- quarterly report, stripped the Wallpaper in the hallway, burnt makers and current taps
- what necklace (coat, car, boat...etc) gave Swede her husband.
But if you will talk about love, affection, gratitude, about their desires and feelings, then it will add to your relationship of warmth and tenderness.
Many sexual complexes, inhibition, prejudice, disharmony comes from the bedroom, where not cease evaluating voice and incorrect speech.
"Between loving people should not be secrets! could argue Keeper of justice. How true and doubtful at the same time. Because each of us is always some space immunity, its a secret area where we would not want to allow even the most dear.
But when there "break in Kersey boots", unceremoniously breaking cordons tact, even the best of intentions, we become uncomfortable. Especially, if the violations are accompanied by contempt, ridicule, far-reaching conclusions and generalizations.
Nobody would like to be the target of bitter jokes of sexual violence.
"Your dick is very funny! "You have patasala! ""I never feel you orgasm! "any appraisal phrase and negative information about sex becomes a death sentence.
Man closes, painfully experiencing its failure and difficulty finding the strength to retry after an unsuccessful sex.
Needless to say that with all sincerity in bed we still have to follow some rules "sex etiquette". To be tactful and sensitive in order not to hurt their partner, and most do not become a target for caustic jokes.
Male complexes
Each pair is a unique combination of opportunities and needs in sex. It is impossible to come up with some universal postulates. And yet it is possible for the overall development to learn a few not deprived of the usefulness of the observations.
They relate to complexes that can develop and get worse from "short-sighted" talking in bed.
Remember the famous all male complexes:
The don Juan syndrome is the desire to win as a lot of women. If in childhood the boy's mother was domineering, tyrannical, gave him a little time, he was strongly suppressed, in adult life, these children will inevitably encounter a number of problems.
First, a man will not believe in their sexual performance, and secondly, he will subconsciously seek revenge against all women for this uncertainty by repeated evidence of sexual power.
He seduces and betrays, manipulates women and uses them. In the family it can be shown by despotism, permanent adultery, dishonesty, insincerity.
If you got Lovelace, you can help him get rid of the complex and to make the relationship more stable.
Remember: don Giovanni - infinitely lonely creature. His continuous pursuit of women's skirts is the search for true affection and love.
It will not surprise you sexual delights and outright fantasies, he successfully finds all this on the side. And still speak to him in bed about his sexual advantages. Praise him, surprised.
But own initiative with caution, as it can feel a catch. And its uncertainty will appear again. Tell us about the value of his human traits.
That love his soul, kind heart, the ability to subtly mood. About how he needed and close to you in human terms. That's what he subconsciously wants to find in a woman.
Syndrome "boss" (the author of the term American sexologist Edward Mori) is the desire for superiority, supremacy, leadership, power, leadership. In varying degrees it is present almost in every man.
This is an honorary men's mission is to promote the history, development trends, to pave the way. But modern women have become more independent and take from men their "legitimate" leadership even in bed.
Often men are to blame that allow women to do this subconsciously still remain "bosses". And if you do not find that confirmation complex.
Remember: "the boss" in bed should feel at altitude, even if it falls short. He must be sure that he has satisfied you and is the best.
Not feeling grateful return, he will quickly grow cold to you and find a replacement. Because from his point of view, he makes every effort to ensure you are satisfied. Looking for new positions, ensures the well-being and comfort.
That is, acts in accord with his male logic. He sometimes does not know that the secret of female loyalty in sex lies in the simple and inexpensive things - warm eyes, gently kiss, sincere speech, spontaneous expression of feelings.
All those small, small movements, of which the woman puts the magic picture "natural" love. Not the one that is classified as "must", "accepted", "she starts," and from that comes from the heart.
Syndrome Napoleon - complex men of small stature and with a small penis size. Eternal desire to be "on high" pushes the man on feats, reveals it's incredible talents, allowing him to feel like a "giant".
But if, in spite of all his efforts, you will notice its size, hints, or frankly, the Napoleon complex "painfully acrobatic".
Interestingly, there are some complex holder has the longest phallus Jonah Falcon from the UK? The size of his reproductive organ is 34, 5 centimeters!
Remember: Napoleon need constant confirmation of his victories. And extremely contraindicated truth about centimeters. Behave as if unaware of its shortcomings.
If he's all right. Can even impose higher requirements. That is just what he needs.
Top that needs to be conquer. Ask him to help you relax, bring down all the problems on themselves, explain their inexperience, but only focus on the fact that it without you painfully annoying.
Women
Do not think that careless talk in bed can provoke relapse only male psychological ailments. Experience and women.
The syndrome of Alice in Wonderland is a romantic, idealized view of the relationship of the sexes. Women with this syndrome painfully experiencing the physicality of sex. With its smells, candid movements, passionate impulses.
Sex seems low and disgusting compared to the high and beautiful fantasies born rich imagination Alice. As a rule, these women very hard to distract from the monitoring process, from analysis and comparison. This prevents them to relax and to get pleasure from sex.
Remember: the path to the body of a woman lies in a romantic prelude that begins long before the close and continuing in bed. Most women romantic, want love, and then bodily relaxation.
Sometimes they are even ready to sacrifice sex for the sake of feelings. But this has its pluses.
They will love my man with all my heart, even when he will not be able to actively engage in sex. The priority of spirituality will atone for the costs of erectile dysfunction.
So Alice expensive! But initially, to love not drowned in the embodiment, pascoite romanticism her an idealist.
Spare her tender ears because not necessarily rudely and abruptly to call spade a spade. Sometimes it is useful to keep silent, if you can't gracefully Express their desires.
Syndrome feminists (Amazon, Pallas-Athene) stems from a sense of superiority over men, the desire to give orders, to win, to teach and to patronize. This woman is easily takes the initiative in sex.
Gets pleasure from the worship of men. And very anxious when he tries to push it, put it in a frame or to be psychological or physical violence.
Remember: to get the maximum pleasure from sexual intercourse with such a woman can only allowing it to be active. If you suppress it, to manage it and be forced to play by their rules, it will resist even contrary to common sense.
The best way to "tame" her to become obedient and somewhat passive.
Of course, all these tips and classification is very conditional. In each individual case are only original recipes and independent vocabulary.
The fact that you will find it possible and necessary to choose to talk and behavior in bed. The main thing is that it was dictated by your sincere desire to make their relationship more harmonious.
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