If a guy is shy, should it be corrupt? And how? About shy guys immediately remember the movie "American pie". Only there is a little bit different situation - virgins seduce their girlfriends, trying to win. But it is in the movies. Modern man terribly lazy and if it is not time to seduce and may the rest of your life to remain celibate. And quietly hate all women for what they are not tempted. But this is too extreme. Typically, most guys, however they were not timid, your innocence as you lose.
As a rule, disco, drunk, with some torn prostitute uncertain age. However, as someone lucky.
I personally think that to seduce shy guy need only if he is your boyfriend, and his shyness suffer your sex life.
Normal adult female ritual seducing shy guy rather annoying than attractive. Because, even in the case of playing the seductress: insidious smiles, gentle, as if accidentally touched, passionate views, short skirt and sexy lingerie - plus a comfortable atmosphere, candles, a bottle of wine and a bed, a woman wants to feel that still the situation is under male control. And that
her boyfriend knows what to do.
Somehow one of my friend "igniter" on the humble virgin. She was twenty-two, he was eighteen. The boy almost from the village, although he studied and lived in the city, well-dressed, well-proportioned figure and a very charming face: brunette with green eyes. This cat looks her off, that she was to meet him. However, the meetings, their relationship can be called a stretch. Both understood that I have only one sex, although it was covered by intellectual conversations about literature. And behold, now is the hour "X". The girl managed to tighten the modest one in my apartment, where there was no one else. Exquisite cuisine, beautiful woman in a translucent dress and black underwear.
And then this "modest one" literally grabbed the girl clasped her in her arms, she had little bones are not cracked, and began to roughly kiss, simultaneously lifting up the dress and trying to choke her on the bed.
Naturally, the boy was immediately expelled from the apartment and more in the judges did not get.
And one of my friend was not a joke: it's the first time was engaged in love with her future husband. She was not a virgin, he knows why, was in his 26 years as a virgin. Undressing the girl, he started trying him to look at.
"What are you looking for? "asked my friend.
"Looking for where to shove it," innocent said he.
Such things unpleasant for the girl, so the idea is to represent an anatomic guide for sexual exercise naive virgins causes little enthusiasm. Moreover, inexperienced partner, if You strongly dislikes, can cause pain, not being able to control his passion.
But, if the guy You love and You are going to seduce him you need to do for this?
About the right of seduction written whole love treatises. For Example, "Kama Sutra". But this is for advanced, although is a must read and see the pictures - it is always useful... for the overall development.
Some are virgins themselves dream to conquer a woman, to get her. But, as a rule, there are very few, so You'll have to do everything yourself.
Invite your timid gentleman in guests. But, it is best that he could mentally and physically prepare: read the literature on sex problems and take a shower. And to shave. Yes and You do not hurt.
The invitation to the guests for a Cup of tea" - the most obvious clue of all transparent. Although this does not mean that by inviting the guy to yourself, You owe him "to give". That's optional.
Table with snacks and a bottle of wine. It would be good if a slight alcohol brought it. Again, getting drunk is not worth it, just dumb to drink.
The relaxed atmosphere, the darkness - it's better not to turn on the lights and lock the room, especially if You live with parents. Candles optional - only if You do not agree exactly on the night of love, and trying to improvise.
It is important to keep your boyfriend, if he starts to dissolve hand, if You really want him to sleep. If a guy is too shy first steps You can do now is to hug him, to kiss, as if accidentally touched. Laugh at his jokes (even stupid), to show his views and his behavior that he impossibly steep (steeper only boiled egg).
Yes, better supplies condoms - he could not guess their take or decide to save. Especially if he's shy and inexperienced.
Beautiful lingerie is excellent, only wear is that he will be able You to withdraw, and not when looking at which he will remember from head to toe wrapped mummy.
Nice to dance to slow music, embracing him, touching bodies to be pressed too not worth it - but it will still end up ahead of time. Or be ashamed of your own excitement.
And remember, all shy guys just dream to put his modesty... deeper.
Everything must happen spontaneously, easily, without your help will be the best result.
But basic things: shower, condoms should be mandatory!
Yes, dear girl, remember that guys like to play virgins is their pin. Or, again, from laziness. So no need to be trusted in his poportunity.
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Humility is a Vice or a virtue? Especially in the modern world, where, if you don't have sharp teeth, you will immediately eat, finding herbivores. For many centuries was positioned position of a modest girl, which always lowers his eyes and is silent next to the man, answering only the questions and, in General, behaves quieter water below the grass. But in all ages it was believed that a modest man - this means inexperienced, almost no loser. Little woman will appreciate the modesty of her boyfriend - she probably thinks his "sucker" and just very insecure - and few people going. Uncertainty and excessive timidity make the invisible guy in the company, in the team. And of all the blessings life can pass by them will get arrogant and self-confident personality. Modesty, of course, this is not a defect, but not dignity. It is often in our world associated with stiffness loser.
I was once VERY shy guy, we even wanted to get married. More precisely, this is very much like his mother... We were about 16 years, we met three years, and normal sex was not, although something like petting. Although, it was only a modest guy I ever saw." I think he just don't know how, or something was shy.
Well this can be corrupt, but the problem is that this then do not get off....life will be remembered. If you want him serious relationship, then you can certainly to seduce him, take the initiative, and if it's just a game - well it, why not get rid of afterwards! But in General, what in 16 years modesty....it is not modesty, but just inexperience... now this boy is, apparently, not so modest... modesty as such maybe men years, say from 20 to be... And at 16, yet will not understand, whether it is modest, or just have no experience. Because at the age of 16 are still evolving man.
Hmm, in my opinion, modest nobody saw. How to seduce them then? Yes, that's the problem! First you will have such a modest one afternoon with fire to search, and then another, and seduce! And who cares, solid darkness?
My future husband met when I was 17 and he was 16. I thought he was the most humble man in the world. Kiss did not dare. And to admit that he loves me it took him 2 months. Well, it turns out, I had seduced him (he was joking). Now his modesty and not a trace remained.
Yes, I saw modest men... I once friend was modest... you Can say I had seduced him... He screamed that run will not, and then ran....but you know, well not mine, it was how quickly I became not interesting... And he has long loved me...
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