They have brains, our boys.They know that women don't always want easy pickings: come, winked, took. Sometimes we want to stretch your stiff muscles, to revive old, to touch off all the powder from the tank and to seduce someone in a difficult and harsh struggle of minds.
They know it and that we don't accidentally miss, write instructions. And then, uneven hours, we will do something wrong, and they will remain alone - neoblaskannyy...
That's what guys write about seduction:
"The first step is to check the female ideal. How to do it?
Watch how he interacts with various "types" of women (from the "gray mouse" to "bitch"), with what degree of benevolence he speaks about his female friends, find out what were in temperament, character and behavior of his "former".
Then, by means of simple (or complex - here everything depends on the specific situation) logical actions make two kind of sketch.
The first title "so I gave him one hundred percent not like" and include all the features, all the habits, all the things that, as you will be able to find out, bring it to a white heat and cause the reaction worse than any allergic.
The second "sketch" will touch the female virtues and presumably could be called "his favorite quality in a woman that I would like to find".
The most important point!!! These qualities in yourself you need to find, not to invent them for the first, second and possibly third date, and then forgetting.
Pretending is the worst strategy of behavior, which a woman can choose in a relationship with a man.
There is a considerable likelihood that the deception that keeps you interested and even to conquer it at first, but for a long time to pretend you still can't.
With regard to the manner of communication with a man, I believe my nenalalmmem "male experience" - all this talk about what men like to take the heart of the beauty of the siege, like an impregnable fortress, and the woman in this connection, you need to keep in the style of the Snow Queen, to put it mildly, crap.
There are, of course, a kind of emotional masochists, which, the longer and more painful suffering woman, the more fun it gets, but this is an exception to the rule.
The main advice in this matter - behave with your partner friendly.
No, to be hung around his neck, wink with languid form and with the same languid to lick lips, looking at him, it is not necessary.
It's more professional things women quite certain occupations. And you need to just be friendly, willing to talk on the topic, which will choose the source.
In short, make it clear to the man that you are interested in communicating with him. No more, no less, exactly - you are interested.
Believe me, for a man it means a lot, sometimes even more than is required.
Almost half of the unfortunate men love happens because the woman was just a friendly sociable person, and this was seen as a tacit encouragement of action for the assault of her heart.
Try first to admit openly to a man in his sympathy for him. Give him the initiative in the development of your relationship. While your communication is friendly-friendly nature, can invite for a Cup of coffee, a slice of pizza or a hamburger; can offer options for of fun together; can develop some common interests.
But be active until a certain point - as soon as you feel that the ratio of men to you from friends grew into interested, give the right to be active with him.
Let him be first to call you on minor occasions and talk for hours on end. Let him be the first to invite you to a meeting, which by all indications will be exactly romantic. In the end, let it just at the moment when you decide on it yourself, you first kiss.
In any case, do not select two behaviors: do not start to consider it their property immediately after its recognition and not to show off them, like a new car, in front of friends, acquaintances and colleagues.
First you'll disappoint and alienate, the second will immediately begin to irritate and lead to the same result. Stay the same sociable cute woman which you have been during the "courtship" for him, only in addition to this let him know that he is very close people".
Now, girls, things like this. If to summarize the above, we find: to seduce a man, you become a good girl and wait patiently. Without losing the friendliness or the second day without a call, either on the tenth. Led him to the cinema. To invite for coffee (or modestly on a piece of pizza). To listen day and night to his tales in the range, in which even included short stories about the former and anecdotes about the cast. To draw conclusions. And to keep quiet.
And then we will make it.
Who would doubt.
Source:
Belarusian women's portal
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