At first he just brought you to McDonald's instead of a fashionable restaurant, but you didn't pay attention to it. Then it instead of roses gave you the flowers of the field, but you thought it romantic. Now, when you are married, he extra penny I spend on you, and you realize that your husband is greedy. What to do? How can that be? Not to get away from the beloved and already such a dear person because of such "small disadvantage"?
What is greed?
Greed is the inability to let go of something from itself, this state of hegemonie, dissatisfaction and condemnation of any generosity. Permanent internal dissonance gives rise to such a man the fear of life and the desire to have more and more, in order to provide a psychological safety. He sees life as something hostile, because it can break, crack of Windows, doors and take all.
If your partner really has this feature, and are you sure that is not able to be reconciled, then run. If you're ready to make concessions and accept it for what it is, try to understand, what is it greed, and greed do.
Stingy man
The covetous man is constantly assessing, calculating and trying to gain it is in the details. When he can buy at a kiosk a pack of cigarettes on the ruble cheaper than in the store nearby, he enjoys that as a kid, and it never ceases to repeat about it.
Stingy man does not like to change large bills. In transport, café, store, he can easily ask, do you have any extra five rubles, because he fifty to change all that matters.
How to recognize a miser, sincerely loving you. He tells you how much money is in his account, coffee cans in the pantry, gold and diamonds in the safe.
Man Thrifty
Together you can decide what you want to buy, consequently saving money. Such men always have goals, for example, he said, "honey, let's buy a new car", that is, he asks Your opinion. If there is no such thing, you have found yourself a budget selfish.
With such a man can live happily, having common interests and goals. One can only imagine, if he wants a new computer, and You good holidays abroad. It will save on everything: food, rest, clothing, to tell You: "I love you and such! "
Practical man
This type of men cannot be called stingy, they simply apply the principle of "why pay more". In the details it will behave like an ordinary man, but what comes to expensive purchases, he will thoroughly study the market before making a purchase.
Well whether this man in marriage? Of course, Yes. He not pozhadnichat" you a pair of new shoes a single cent, more importantly, what they need to know is that you really need these sneakers.
How to recognize practical, truly loving man. He has a wallet full of any cards that allow discounts to order a pizza, buy knives, curtains and food. But he will never say, "well, come with me in the café, where I have a discount! " He'll take you there, where do you like the most.
Man is a greedy man or just a woman spender?
Not infrequently men call women selfish, "ochotniczej", transire, but we suggest that, before the so-called women to think how many misers she had to meet on the way. And perhaps precisely because of them, she couldn't be happier with his "knight in Golden armour".
Source:
Women's Magazine
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