What it often will depend on how lucky you are to work or not. Because some "vampire" or people with whom you do not have any understanding, can be a cause of dissatisfaction, bad mood, or simply a large number of misfortunes. But let's not wait for favors from nature to take it our goal! If the work is of interest to you, if everything suits you, along with any boss. You just need to know some of the laws by which leaders live. That is what they need, what their strengths and weaknesses and why they need you. Sometimes instead of going to the loopholes, is simply to play by their rules, and everything will be easy and fun. You just need to know the rules of the game. So your attention is invited to brief instructions on using the chiefs.
Work behind glass
Light on the first day excitedly told me about his boss. Nadezhda Pavlovna, she said, is an amazing woman, they had two hours in friendly conversation. And during those two hours of Light told her all his life, and Nadezhda Pavlovna groaned and gasped, sympathy and affection looking at a photo of a child from his first marriage, agreed that so hard for the girl to arrange a personal life, if she is educated clever. Despite the difference in age of 20, the Light felt Nadezhda Pavlovna has its own on Board. However, a week later her enthusiasm diminished. Because it turned out that Nadezhda Pavlovna communicate all the time with all of you.
At the end of the day, all employees were supposed to meet for tea to tell which films they watched, to report how they get along on a personal front, and Nadezhda Pavlovna equally participated in the conversation, too, told me kind of gear she looked and what marked her cats. And despite a huge number of private Affairs, all employees had to listen to it. The atmosphere in the Department was that all it was necessary to share their personal Affairs, secrecy in this matter were not welcome. Marina, the only one who did not, was an object of ridicule and bullying from Hope Pavlovna (the Light over her chuckle). Three weeks later the Light realized that Marina is a normal girl who just won't let anyone into his personal space. She does not participate in gatherings, nothing about himself is not talking about and can just say: "Can I just do my job, I do it quite a lot! I can not with you sitting, I have a deadline! " She was a good worker, and the only trait that here was considered a disadvantage is its isolation. While in this culture encouraged openness.
Again the Light was surprised when it's time to get paid. It turned out that Nadezhda Pavlovna all paid different every time money, without explaining why and for what. Just that 5 thousand less that 5 thousand more. She appreciated the work according to their own internal criteria, according nested, in her view, the effort.
Darling, or "human relations"
Open-minded, smiling and helpful. The head, of which many dream, not realizing what it can be fraught.
Pros. Indeed, it creates the atmosphere, care, feeding pies, tells jokes. You are lucky if your tastes are the same.
Cons. As in kindergarten, all go everywhere together. If all go to the movies, you too should be avoided. You need to tell about yourself, the person who does not want to let myself, is considered to be a lousy employee. It is unclear as to affect the amount of salary or bonuses, which are often distributed according to the principle of "who's best friend - and more money". Can still succumb to emotional reactions, to be offended, to shout, to behave as a brother, sister, mother, anyone, not just professional Manager.
The rules of survival
If you want to work here, you need to remember that all of this game! Invent a legend on the way to work quickly see which movie is on TV, browse articles on the topic that interests your boss: how to grow hyacinths, how to do breathing exercises or eat right. In no case do not carry any of these human judgments, enter not into the field where you are vulnerable.
Do not fall for provocations, despite the fact that such a boss loves all be etched away to see what happens. So everybody talks about everybody. And if you start to ask: "Sveta, and why do you think Val is always the same? She's a beautiful woman! " - you laugh it off and move on to the discussion of the movie "the Rich also cry" with the words "And it is lucky! " and run away, referring to the case. Sometimes it is necessary (and it's sure to make a note of it in the organizer! ) come to this chief counsel and speak from the heart. "I don't know what to do now! Mom does not want to let me go overnight to my boyfriend".
Such chiefs love the weak, the sick and the poor, they love their mothers to take care to save. Just remember that the "rescuer" will be hard to beat thanks.
The need to congratulate with all the holidays are not formally and personally. Write him a poem. To bring back from vacation Souvenirs, drink with him, if that man. If the entire Department on Friday nabiraetsa with him, those who want to imitate. Because who is not with us is against us. Most importantly - do not take to heart: you never brought them, when suddenly and sensitive punished, if you woke up in a bad mood. It is a game.
And help where?
When Nikita went to work in the intelligence Department, he could not understand smiles that looked at his former co-operative Department. Later, Nikita realized what was giggling her former girlfriend. Almost on the second day he asked to go to the dentist. Chef strange looked at him, shrugged: "Well, go! " And the next day said, "And help where? " - "What kind of help? " - "Well, what you spent at the dentist two hours of working time." This requirement seemed Nikita complete nonsense, as he can not to believe him? "Then these two hours will be deducted from your paycheck".
The work itself had greatly changed, you had to write many reports. The first report Nikita Yury Sergeevich dashed red felt-tip pen and unflattering remarks about his professional qualities. And only one employee, which with Yuri Sergeevich worked for several years, said to him: "You learn a lot, if you stop paying attention to these little things. We must look not at how he speaks and what he says. He from the first day won't do you favors, if he took you and makes comments - he teaches you, if you are interesting to him, he never listens. Ignoring-ignoring, and then one day fires. Learn! "
"Biscuit" Yuri Sergeyevich all hated. He had a wedding ring on her finger, and nobody could imagine his wife, until one day she had met. She was very lively and humorous, pleasant, but talked with her husband in another language: "According to the schedule slowly moving in the direction of the Banquet, we sit at table number 4, 11 and 12".
The bore, or "technologist"
A bore is a person who needs to have everything right, so it was all the procedure. Otherwise it will be lost. When Yuri Sergeevich technicians and komandoobrazovanie has caused the game, where was fuzzy statement, something like "draw the company of your dreams", poor Yuri Sergeevich darkened face and confused. He began to elaborate on what the company in question, what kind of dream.
Pros. He is very predictable, no rash actions he does. He can become a high-class specialist, as a rule, this bore is an expert in their field. So you need to become a cog in his machine. And learn from him, unlike darling, where you can get useful links, but not to improve professional skills. Its predictability brings confidence in themselves and in the circumstances, at least you will have peace about what work will be objectively evaluated, regardless of the sentiments of the head.
With him will not bend, nor flatter, nor to "make friends", he will not get to you in the soul.
Cons. Hard, almost impossible to master its language. But it is necessary, but he'll tell you exactly what you need to do to climb to a higher level.
You cannot hope that being complacent is configured, he'll forgive all the flaws.
The rules of survival
He should ask questions on the case, to argue, if you have arguments. No harm will come to him in the process and ask the correct way you move. Of course, he will be annoyed, but the truth for him so important that he will answer to all your questions. And even if he would say: "Read the job description, you have to read it, then there really will be the response.
You should build relationships with staff that will help you to translate a text from his tongue. Just don't forget to thank him. As in "Office romances": "Now you criticized my report, Lyudmila important papers in my briefcase, and rightly criticized! "
At the same time, such a person is able to admit your wrong, if you give him a reasonably prove it. He even loves those who are with him rightly argues. Unlike the head of the first type, where to prove useless, darling is always right!
Dedication
When Igor came to the Department of Nikolai Ivanovich, he patted him on the shoulder and kindly said, "Boy, I greet you in the best Department of our company. Trend is the most important, the most promising, and I will make you a great specialist". Igor was surprised, because it seemed to him that he knows what he doesn't know? For an hour he listened to the speech of Nikolai Ivanovich about what he has achieved what they have achieved Department. Igor was still waiting when he will go to his workplace. But there it was! Followed by a long story about customers, about the battles that these clients were conquered, that all this happened only due to the fact that Nikolai Ivanovitch nights not slept, toiled from dawn to dusk. Igor, according to "the big Boss", was filled with pride, but it didn't happen. Then the "big Boss" went on the offensive and began to talk to, and what are the achievements of Igor, than he is proud of. And when Igor shrugged and said that was just doing his job and he doesn't have any special achievements, he received the following half-hour lecture on the topic "How can you live without ambition? "
The first defeat suffered by Igor, when he wrote an article in the journal was published over the signature of "big Boss". His name was not mentioned at all. One of the senior professionals comforted: "as soon As he will be confident in your devotion, he and surname will write, and give money. Just wait! "
Igor did not listen and got a lot of troubles, ranging from public criticisms of some nonsense and ending with the fact that in a business trip in Taiwan sent not his, directly involved in the project, and a girl from a neighboring Department.
"The big boss", or "people power"
This "head authoritative classic", "the big Boss" is a state of mind. "The big Boss" can be seen even in kindergarten. He's there begins to lead and to specify everything that should be done.
"Vlastniku" there is one quality that is its main advantage, and its main disadvantage. This man, who lives in the hierarchy. Thus, its task is to confront the fact that strives upward. All the time he built to the senior and Junior indicates their place. And if you don't want to "know their place", you will be very hard. But if you are a little "song": "And as we turned out to be great, wiped her nose all! ", "It is correct that the project gave us, we are the best! "will hear in response: "Hold on to me, my boy, and you all will be! "
Pros
. "Vlastniku" spread the sense of ownership for the entire Department, they never take their fight for them until the last. These are my guys, try touch!
This head really understands that he needs you as an expert. So if you get on, he will have to carry your entire life in your team.
Cons. It will require that you are decent and respectable look, wore expensive watches and expensive suits, because you continued its territory. If you will become a category of its prestige - he will do for you all! But if you assault on his prestige, no matter how expert you may be, he will make sure that you were not with him. Because "vlastniku" and so live in a state of struggle with the world, which threatens its status, if the fight will begin from the inside, they will find you a Viper, they warmed on the chest.
They are not manipulators. They are the most talented administrators of all managers: manage to build a process that all around work. They have charisma. They take responsibility. But they are very well aware of their place in the hierarchy.
"Vlastniku you can see exactly what value they give to their status, expensive toys, "gold" card, flights in business class, pass on enclosed Parking, special conditions of service.
The rules of survival
His weak spot - he's not a very good specialist. But he can't and say, "Because you know nothing about it, I suggest that so-and-so." Here you have the end! He needs to always offer the choice to show a few options that he could tick and the last word was still behind him.
He can afford not to understand the details. To hell with the details! So, if you find that you made a mistake, it is better to admit this before your error went upstairs. In his best interests to shut you up before inaccuracy will be detected and its reputation will be damaged.
The biggest mistake that can under this head to do, is to "walk" through its head. As soon as he suspects that you need him, he will survive.
For example, here is how it will respond to a personal car with driver these three types of leaders. Head-otnoshenie": "now in the presence of the driver is now even can't talk on the phone, stole personal time! " "Technologist": "Car with a driver - excellent, on the way to work can work with documents on a laptop". The reaction of vlastniku": "What brand of car? "
Try to understand how to use it. Let's play this game consciously and try to win.
Another thing is that there are people who say, "I will Not be anyone to adjust to and no one to cave in! " You just have to understand what type do you belong yourself, and look for a suitable team and the right of the head.
Author:
Belcheva I., Peasant So
Source:
Our Psychology
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