...Her body trembled in his strong masculine hands. He first squeezed her in his arms, took up in his arms and carried her into the bedroom. She grabbed him by the shoulders, and it all happened. Her head was spinning with pleasure, she sunken screamed and moaning, fell on his chest... ...I don't like descriptions of sex. And because of to describe it is very difficult, because after a good sensual sex is not all-and remember, the more in detail. And because in the books and movies sex always ideal. Even the sex first. First with this person... In literature and cinema always easy - no effort, moreover, that he was himself", "and she totally relax and trust him." And then everything is always perfect and the strength of the arms, and biting, and polysilane, and frequency, and postures, and depth, and duration of action... then Why in life after the first sex people often run away and not call each other, although it felt a strong sympathy? Why after the first proximity sometimes "batter up"?.. Whether the first sex in General to be perfect?..
Sexual incompatibility
When a friend before the first bed date confidently says to me: "Well, everything will be clear after the first sex. I know, compatible we are in bed..." I korça face. Because doubt. Because after the first sex I had never become "clear". After 2-nd, 3-th - Yes, more or less, but not after the first! Why is this happening?..
Incompatibility in the narrow sense
When people first meet each other in unusual for them prior to this role, can happen anywhere. Residual stiffness, inability to completely relax, oppression, undue stress and Ignorance. Moreover, not ignorance caused by sexual ignorance. People know what to do in principle, can by heart to tell exemplary scenario preludes, hygiene, show erogenous zones, but do not know the details, details and preferences of each other. Because someone likes the power, some tenderness, some patience, some speed, some want to rule, and someone to obey... the Tone, the rhythm, the words (or lack of them)...
Incompatibility in a broad sense
Another thing - incompatibility in a broad sense, which in most cases comes down to the interest that people have sex. One needs it, as the air, and they cannot imagine existence without the sexual component. Their "quality of life" (this concept has now been adopted to assess the overall satisfaction of man from Genesis) 60-70% comes from passion, drive, emotions they are experiencing. Sex permeated all their lives - from the way of dressing, the constant flirting and ending dizzying novels, with the constancy of the seasons changing each other.
There is another option - married, also in some cases not less sexually sated. This is when the couple fully satisfy each other in bed when the same "attraction" is not lost, and the desire for each other has not abated. Between such spouses for many years of happy family life is saved "fire", love, flirt, charm and other pleasures.
On the other hand, with us live quietly and not ask storm to calm people, almost indifferent to sex. For years they go to work, meet with friends (men go fishing, hunting, and so on), raise children, and sex remains in their lives something minor and optional. They are also happy in his own way, but their happiness doesn't sound like happiness to people who love sex.
So if you meet, or worse, marry the person who need sex 1-2 times a week, and you want it several times a day, it becomes a problem. On the one hand, you are constantly harassed him. On the other hand, he tries to convince you that sex is not important in a relationship, or, in General, he was tired, busy, and so on, and So was my relationship with her first husband. Constantly remaining unsatisfied for this reason, I was looking for adventure on the side, and then gathered my things.
Incompatibility in the broad sense, i.e. when the "demand" for sex than the "proposal" is really the Problem. It can be solved either by using the links on the side that will most likely not be approved by the second half, either by Masturbation or by sublimation in the form of porn, virtual sex, etc.
First sex is not a reason for diagnosis
...If I were evaluated by their Boyfriends feel from the first sex I think I would have thrown them all. All on the line... After all, one all too quickly. With others, silently and cool. Third - there was no "boom" - which had been waiting for and I, and he (by analogy with the novel Carrie Bradshaw and writer Jack Burger from Sex and the city")... And so on...
Don't know what kept me from being able to part with them. Probably, gut feel, which dictated that all else will be fine. And indeed it was... every time the sex was getting better and better. Why?.. Yes, because step by step we learned about each other more and more. And it's not only in knowledge. It is a matter of intimacy - both physical and psychological. We would trust each other, we were all given each other. You know, this desire - to have and to belong at the same time. And the sweet sensation of this breaking each other... Dizziness from only one smell...
It should be appreciate!
So don't be afraid to try again and again! It's almost as exotic products almost never like the first time. It is the same with sex. We need to give time to ourselves and to Him. In order to "taste". Of course, this can be done only if you have something besides physical desires. Something to encourage you not to stop after the first not very successful attempt. Something that makes you go forward, despite some headway. Could this be Love?..
Author:
Tomovska M
Source:
MyJane
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