What you wore?
I remember that wonderful age when any girl wants to dress up and go wild in front of the mirror, I begged my mom for shoes with heels and skirt-Polyana. Needless to say, I liked skirts were called vulgar, shoes - hazardous to health. Heels, like, ruin your posture, scriplet legs and deform the skeleton. In the school I went to made for this purpose suits - grey-brown skirts and jackets, and comfortable, "so the foot does not get tired", the shoes. Shoes me with my grandmother my mother bought the same: "what a pleasant style and foot well".
Of course, the teenager has matured, rejected gray skirt and up to twenty years didn't get out of jeans and sneakers. In twenty years the story got a logical development. "All girls like girls, and you're pretty". Or: "I got you dress bought, pretty, with ruffles. How do you not like? Why? See how you go pink".
I thoughtfully picking his tears on his jeans, looked at mom bought the dress and grimly stated: if the choice of image to rely on her taste, in the best case will be similar to my mother in the worst - a grandmother, a wonderful orthopedic shoes.
When the Council should listen?
My mother's comments can be taken as a guide to action, if mother for you - sample impeccable style. Her advice is priceless, if you need to look at ourselves. For example, before the event, where you will appreciate the "clothes": an interview, a meeting with the parents of the groom, etc.
When is the best time to make his own way? You choose things that can tell you much more expanded form. They reflect your idea of itself, the vision of peace and understanding fashion. Follow your style and personal advisors to hire your own inner voice.
Not for him, the rose bloomed!
In the film school love "dream" there is a scene in which a lonely teacher is talking to her mother:
And I remember I was in school fan. He took me to the bike, kissed the back of his head. The name he was funny: little Redhead. You I said, "Well, what is this name? Little redhead! And do we then not have happened".
Mom I wish you all the best in choosing a potential groom, as a rule, actively participate. But here's the thing: we assess the candidate with the position of their feelings and hunches sensations. Mother from the standpoint of common sense, logic and life experience on what does not based: family problems, friends, hot topics talk shows, prejudices and our own experience.
When the Council should listen? Of course, mom to listen to it. If only because the obvious flaws prospective spouse's romantic haze does not hide from her. It is your responsibility, and therefore much more care to the people who surround you.
When is the best time to make his own way? There are clear indications that the Soviets stands quietly, but persistently ignore.
All deficiencies, which the mother says, immaterial, subjective and have no relation to the real state of things. And a funny name - not an obstacle to marriage.
First mother finds out personal data to your fiance. And, very selectively: who are the parents and other relatives, good if the young man's salary, whether the prospective position. Council to reject a loved one solely due to the wrong pedigree - the story so banal that bored even contemporaries of Shakespeare.
Negative feedback one by one is awarded each candidate. This is the first indication that in fact there has been no evaluation and no, the results of the "interviews" were known in advance.
When we are going to babysit grandchildren?
Every one of my single girlfriends are afraid of family dinners for one reason - the conversation will go about children. "When are we going to babysit grandchildren? It's time to think about children, the time goes". "Biological clock ticking", is the most hated phrase of the majority of women twenty-five, with no children.
When the advice is to listen? One of my friends from College sprint pace building her career. To stop, to equip, finally, the family nest and decide on motherhood helped her exactly insistent advice of parents. Sometimes even on eternal values we need to remind. Tips of good help and when we doubt and just afraid of big changes.
When is the best time to make his own way?
For most of us, procreation is an intimate process that is difficult to logical arguments. Suspect: any of us knows very well that time and the decision to become a mother will take time and no hints. The main thing is that you objectively assess the situation and were confident in their choice.
You can't raise children!
Usually calm mother at the sight of his grandson loses patience and a sense of proportion. She is ready to feed him / herself, to protect from the slightest draught and disinfect toys twice a day. I had to repeatedly hear grandma prohibits to buy her grandson a bike or give it away in a manger, because caution never hurts.
When the advice is to listen? The main proof of the faithfulness of many tips you. Your mom really knows how to cure the common cold, to teach the baby to walk and to persuade her to eat for Breakfast oatmeal.
When is the best time to make his own way?
Protect from alien influence building your personal relationship with your child in this process should not interfere with any grandmother. Regardless of age and experience, you really better know how to strengthen your relationship with your baby. In addition, please refrain from following advice based on exaggerated care: sometimes the grandmother with the best of intentions turn grandchildren sluggish in greenhouse plants.
Daughter, this is the wrong decision!
There are invaluable tips, there are annoying, but any advice indiscriminately ignore in case you are standing on the threshold of important changes. Turning points do not tolerate foreign interference, manipulation and cry to your conscience.
Relocation, emigration, job change, desire to change their lives and the desire to make my dream come true - here is a sample list of momentous events in which a decision must be made independently. At least because this is your life, your goals and dreams. Advisers can bring logical arguments, but none of them knows what is waiting for you around the bend.
In the book with the telling title "Good girls go to heaven, and bad wherever he wants, or Why obedience does not bring happiness," the author writes that the happiest women, as a rule, the most unruly, and most women who have achieved success, to realize its purpose had against the wishes of the family.
The history of female independence - a history of disobedience: "No weak heart father, no migraine partner will not keep the "bad" girl to Express their opinions or make specific requirement. They show understanding and care within certain limits and thus persistently and consistently continue your path".
In the end, your decision to go the road of the wise mother will accept and understand.
Author:
Pechorin D.
Source:
Леди@mail.ru
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