How do we choose "half"

Why we like those and not these? A longtime fan can rope to walk behind you, over the years proving their loyalty, but we persistently drawn to his friend, who is clearly worse and face, and mind, and character. It turns out that the choice of a partner is not chaotic case series "fate whispered". It also has its own laws. The choice of a partner is defined in two ways: the type of personality and appearance. It turns out that we want our "half" was like...



On mom and dad


The man looks familiar - familiar circumstances and people. So we feel confident. Let the "object" to which we are drawn, bore, and brawler, but if this was one of our parents (the opposite sex), we met with "double", may feel an inexplicable kinship. That is why the daughters of alcoholics often choose their drinking suitors. If to call things by their proper names, the girl is important that her husband drank. The excitement that his father she could not force quit, so her husband will try. And if the family dad cheated on, there's a good chance that the girl will marry a notorious womanizer, to the rest of his life accustomed to deal with male infidelity. Otherwise she was not interested. People whose parents are happily married, somehow "automatically" well get married, you know where you want to be silent, to give to the partner. It's called "the scenario of married life". He laid in our child from early childhood.





On the failed


If you compare love with the movie, it would be best remembered for the films with an unfinished story. And if we once failed to conquer someone (most often it is its own parent), we want life to be with similar type to finally do it the way we want. Man is inherently a winner and much ready, so as not to loose. This series is a favorite that has rejected us. So inveterate Lovelace often can't forget the girl they once rejected. Even amid their many wins is the one that has refused for a long time comes for them in the category of "girl of my dreams". And to continue to feel like a winner, we need to take revenge. For this purpose we are looking for a partner, similar in appearance or character at once rejected us.





On first love


Remember his first erotic experience or person struck with their appearance. Emotional experiences in the interval from 3 to 15 years continue to manage and follow our life. Often men change wives, choosing his girlfriend's girls, like a wife of 20 years ago. Or on the first beloved.





The tale


The image of a sexually attractive person people can see not only in the life of. There is a theory that man builds his life on a plot of your favorite fairy tales: say, has fond childhood girl to read "the Scarlet flower", grew up to find their men-of monsters that need a lot of effort to kill to get to Prince charming, hidden in the soul. Or boy often considered in a school anthology Alenushka by Vasnetsov and then found his wife with a romantic sadness in the eyes of the deep. Proof - adult novel of the surgeon Eugene laputina: bachelor, which sohlo floor-Moscow. He searched his wife, and since dreamed of a woman-mermaid (seen in the picture), the wife took the lady with a congenital deformity - tail. She thought she only shines in a circus act, but this anatomical feature suddenly "won" the bachelor. Sometimes we become slaves to their sex preferences and therefore remain alone.





On Jolie or pitt


Stronger us are images of the sex symbols imposed on the media. Seeing those on the screen is called the acknowledged beauties, we agree and do not think, what we like ourselves. Say, now fashion way model with parameters 90 - 60 - 90, but this "standard of beauty" is equivalent to the shape of an adolescent boy 14 years favorite standard female appearance at gay men. Increasingly, men require ladies plump lips like Angelina Jolie, and the guys lighten bangs to resemble brad pitt or even Sergei Bezrukov.





On the antipode


There is another pattern: nature strives towards equality and fair distribution of genes in the world. So often opposites attract. The love brunettes blondes, low male model addition girls and boys "slash the number of shoulders - thumbelinas. More radical appearance of the partner different from ours, the sexier it seems to us.





With whom nothing goes


There are two features that will help you understand whether you have anything with this person or not: his smell and the way to consume a meal. This is the most ancient landmark identification system we inherited from the depth of centuries. And they work perfectly. To share a meal with our hairy ancestors was an act of great trust, even intimate action. If you disgusting smell of the other person and you can't watch as he chews his lunch, your joint happy future optimism is. So if you are on a first date can dine in the restaurant - don't give up. This is a very good chance to take a closer look contender for your attention and love

Author:

Vladimirov L


Source:

Komsomolskaya Pravda

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