Recently visiting an old friend I saw an amazingly beautiful girl. But when the host introduced us to each other, it is comical moved his nose that I almost laughed. To smooth the resulting awkwardness, he told a joke about a Russian spy, who took the spoon from the Cup, but still screwed up one eye. Owner strained laughed, the beauty once again moved his nose and chuckled ruefully. I felt that I was sat in a puddle."Listen, this is a delightful girl, Yes. But as soon as shevelnesh nose - everything! In front of you the winner of the beauty contest among the rabbits, " an hour later I whispered in the face of the master, holding him by the button of his shirt.
"You see, when she was little, her dad really liked this fun, it's got and he asked her to move the spout. I can't get rid of, especially when nervous. And when she got acquainted with you, I was nervous.
- I, Muller, to be nervous when meeting with me? I released the button of the victim from the hands. He took off his glasses and began thoughtfully to suck the handle.
Bad habits are different. We won't talk about the classics: Smoking, alcohol consumption and drug use, because it's still a pathological dependence, and even disease requiring treatment, and not bad habits.
Let's talk about dynamic stereotypes ingrained in many of us already do not remember when and why and, at times, adversely affecting not only our life and appearance, but also the mood of those around us, family, friends, colleagues, or just random companions and neighbors in the restaurant.
Bad habits can be divided into four main groups:
"Hresume-sucking". The owner of this habit drags into his mouth, all that arm will turn up - nails, ear points, pencil, pen, seeds, plastic caps. Perhaps the overly zealous nurse in a kindergarten yelled at him, and you were saving the pencil. Later, at school, he couldn't concentrate, not with his mouth the handle and, believe me, Freud here are not to blame. Rather Pavlov with his conditioned reflexes. The same applies to fans of nail biting. Indeed, there is a nasty habit!
"Poderjivayu-shaking". Who among us has not met "Kacheli", "Trucial and postukivalis" leg? Fans to squint or wiggling nose, reminiscent of priniuhivatsia the dog?
Terebesi, rustling, digging in the bag, in ear and nose coverages, pochesyvayutsya, oplevyvaya,
producing an equally disgusting impression, as the pile of Sizzling suffixes in one word? And isn't it that we was tapping his fingers on the tabletop, bringing himself to a neighbor Seminary lesson?
I do love to swing his whole body in the manner of the hero of Dustin Hoffman's "rain Man". But, knowing how it annoys others - not to mention the fact that I view gives a very foolish - I control myself and plenty of "nakahata" allow only in blissful solitude. Many of the mechanism once helped to concentrate, and was fixed.
"Coveritlive". "Diggers" and "covariates repeating cyclic action probably helped once to suppress increased anxiety, and costs them a little nervous - we have arrived! - in the middle of a lecture or premiere silence they will immediately find the car keys at the bottom of the immense trunk, scratching behind the ear or touching nose, bringing out yourself to the Professor and avid theater-goers.
"Zicatela-suction"
. All understand what I mean? Media of this type of bad habits chose their main habitat, public transport and public institutions of power.
Who of us in the morning never heard multiple cwirc-cwirc-cwirc" that causes disgust and desire immediately to give a friend the gift of a toothpick, toothbrush, hydrocyanic acid and a pair of cuffs? And it's not always "zvirkeli type - asocial bum, "General sand quarries", not knowing caress their mothers. Often quite in the fashion of wearing style with clean hair on the head and heaped my iPod in hand. Sitting trusit a mullet and will cuircuit".
Or lady, pleasant in all respects at the table opposite, taking your diet business lunch, rascalcats for the whole restaurant, creating a vacuum in the oral cavity. What caused this group habits? For reasons explained in this case, more dentists than psychologists.
Often one person combines several bad habits that are capable of even the most refined beauty to turn into a monster.
How to deal with them?
Any habit is just a stereotype. To deal with the stereotype can be only one way to destroy him. The creation of harmful habits. I want to move the nose? Smile. To chew nails? Take a notebook and write a few lines. To piegate tooth? Chew "Orbits". To spit at his feet? Imagine how it looks from the outside.
In some cases, bad habits can be a sign of neurosis, but it is more for children than mentally healthy adults. And, by the way, be attentive to your kids. If you notice that first pulled into the mouth pencils son has since become "beaver", watch what he does, what is the reason, try to discreetly find out the cause. If the behavior changes at absolutely crumbs - be attentive to the nurses. Not stingy on the video.
And, of course, pronounced changes of behavior in children and adolescents - the reason for going to the doctor. If you are going to yell and punish bad habit may be, and "grow" in the higher nervous activity of your offspring. And not encourage monkey grimassi, no matter how funny they looked. Children grow up and continue to be big lips, wiggling noses and popping eyes. What seemed lovely in a little girl with bows, looks stupid and inappropriate adult girls. And if it's more complicated later acquired the habit of constantly pulling the strings from mayagovskogo space...
Beauty - sometimes it's just health, coupled with the absence of unnecessary body movements, facial expressions and sounds. And then not even the most canonical nose will be perceived by others as perfect. Beautiful people is a quiet man, spare, not otkachivali you a button on the shirt.
"Listen... this is normal... you have a friend to talk to her interesting. But what is it you for the button turns when talking? - I heard a jealous whispers the beautiful damsel turned to my old friend.
Yes it's such a bad habit. Here you nose wiggling, I the ear points spend too much time, and it is those who trust, buttons twists.
"I, however, often nose wiggling? Somehow did not pay attention...
I did not overhear. First, because someone turned the music louder, and secondly, because listening is a very bad habit.
Incidentally, in the office environment another common poddakivatelem-sternocleidomastoid habits, very annoying bosses, the habit of excuses for undone work longer than performing the actual work, and not to answer business letters in a timely manner. Recently began to extend another very bad habit to blame for the crisis even jammed in the printer paper. And these quickly emerging dynamic stereotypes also not make us more beautiful - as is the habit of discussing other people's bad habits, ethenicity and tell inappropriate jokes.
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