Although we prefer to trust my intuition and to think that she will never let us down, whether or not in such a delicate issue is to rely on feelings and instincts? Is it true that women with a birth have a strong intuition that you can trust with absolute certainty? Our grandmothers were entrusted to the material evidence and material evidence: the trail of lipstick on the collar of his shirt, found in his jacket pocket the letter from his mistress. Sometimes the cause of accusations of infidelity became irrepressible working zeal that makes men spend too much time outside the home... But the days when men's infidelity could go unnoticed, left far in the past! In fact, men have reached such heights in the art of deception that women had to "adjust" at the biological level and to cultivate the sixth sense, as the radar sensing of male infidelity. But I'll repeat: if there is enough intuition to a guilty verdict? If only there were real evidence of adultery, supporting our conjecture... it's a Pity that they do not exist. Or is it not so?
1. Missing
If the beloved is so often lost at work or in a friendly companies that you want to declare it in search, do you really have a cause for concern. He had no home, or he constantly hangs in the company of old (or new) friends with whom categorically does not want you to introduce. He needs more time to "men's entertainment", he had a new hobby, for example, the fascination with exotic sport, to which he devotes all his spare time instead of coming home, to fall into a chair with a beer and watch TV. He does not respond to your calls and calls back a few minutes later, work it all the time "at the meeting". Holidays (Day of St. Valentine, Christmas, New year and his birthday) he disappears with a skill that would envy himself David Copperfield. The most common excuses: visiting relatives and jobs involving all hands at work.
2. No sex in your city
Infidelity men certainly affect your sex life: as your wish, he meets another woman and in another place, to perform the marriage of forces does not remain. Sexual attraction between the couple is weakened, the husband reluctantly gives wife oral fun or trying to reduce the prelude to a minimum, so sex becomes routine and takes no more than ten minutes. Many women notice a cooling in the relationship and the loss of intimacy - husband (partner) hesitate to show tenderness to the people, serve the public hugs and kisses. On the other hand, if a loved suddenly became very gentle, attentive and caring, it also should alert you. Perhaps he feels guilty and tries to make amends for it. Another reason for suspicion - better sexual techniques, new techniques and poses that you had not tried. In short, if your favorite shows miracles of ingenuity in bed to look at it more closely.
3. Cold as ice
In the beginning of a relationship you do everything together, so why is one day everything changes, and Saturday night you spend in the cocktail bar with friends or on the last session with them? If you loved is still, how and with whom you spend time in his absence, perhaps he is too busy with their own plans. He was not interested in your stories, never shares his thoughts and impressions, indifferent, refused to discuss your relationship and all your attempts to discuss the crisis is responsible hostile "I don't Have time for this nonsense." Sound familiar? Perhaps his detachment can be attributed to the solution of global problems, but it is possible that his mind is another woman.
4. Spyware passion
Not have you ever noticed that the last time favorite behaves somewhat strange and even suspicious? His phone calls are so secretive, as if it were a matter of national security? Well, men are making a lot of effort to maintain the confidentiality of the information contained in the memory of the mobile phone, in order to hide from you the phone numbers of other women and obscene text messages. Women often notice that men are very wary with your phone, go to talk in another room, or even bathroom, to include water in order to drown out the conversation, vibrating, or set the phone password.
If you suspect a loved one of infidelity, pay special attention to text messages. For example, he receives an SMS at any time of the day, as to your question, what happens responds innocent phrase: "Honey, I just brought the phone service". By the way, passwords, men love to set not only in phones, but also in computers. If he has anything to hide, he won't let you even get close to his computer, so his betrayal, perhaps manifested in virtual reality. Other signs of possible infidelity: he hastily turns or close the Internet window when your presence in the room, quickly and concisely answers the telephone, as if wanting to end the conversation. Of course, this is not direct evidence, but only about a better look at her beloved.
5. The new version, improved and expanded
You have been together for a long time, and your relationship has long passed the stage of courtship and efforts to impress in the second half, and now, all of a sudden, he again spends in front of a mirror and a wardrobe for hours! He was so concerned with caring for themselves, so courteous, so stylishly dressed - it's a pity that he was trying so hard not for you! "Well, the man is inherent. dress. Smart. Sometimes, perhaps, will think you're right. Think it should be, when you notice in his wardrobe new underwear! Know this: men are buying new underwear ONLY when hope is that they will have to undress and linen will be appreciated and will make the right impression. Agree, for you to try so would not - we all know that men can wear shorts up until you finally get bored, and you don't buy them a new pair. And now, he not only updates the closet (including intimate), but spending more time in the bathroom, often taking a shower, especially when coming home after a long absence. If he has not returned to training, he has only one reason to flee immediately to the shower - he needs to get rid of the evidence of treason!
6. Only friends
Know the difference between friends and "friends"? Your bad boyfriend or husband knows that if his affair will take a long time, he needs a good and convincing cover - to convince you that he has friends and a girlfriend, with whom he sometimes spends time. Well, in case your girlfriend will see him in a cafe with another woman. So he uses the card of the "female friend". Get ready for what he will tell you about a colleague at work - you hear about it almost every day, but to acquaint you he does not hurry up. He can talk about it as a work colleague or friend, or to convince you that can't stand her, but in fact the opposite is true. In any case, listen carefully and try to learn about this woman as much as possible - perhaps we are talking about your opponent! By the way, once on its corporate party, try to explore as much as possible from the local gossips - no doubt, they will gladly share with you any facts and suspicions.
7. Sleeping toys
A man comes home from work tired is normal, but not every day?! If he is always tired and all your comments, actions, and even silence cause irritation, perhaps he is working on a "fusion" of a different kind than what he told you. In addition, he quickly loses his temper over trifles, looking for a pretext for a quarrel, which never wants to settle immediately, explaining that he needs to "think". This and any other excuse he uses to leave home. All that before him you liked him and arouse desire, now its just annoying. It used to be entertained by your shortcomings, and now he puts them you blame. Maybe it's because now it entertains another woman. As you know, the best defense - attack, so get ready for that favorite will blame you. of infidelity! If he starts to examine the entries in your phone, email and in detail asks you about how you spent the day, so he tries to distract your attention and to pacify his conscience. And maybe own betrayal caused him to suspect infidelity you.
No matter how skilled men in this game, they still sometimes make mistakes. And although this is only circumstantial evidence (every year men are becoming more careful and inventive, smart woman enough.
Source:
Women's Club
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